20 “THOU SHALL NOTS” FOR RELATIONSHIP SMART LADIES
These Commandments Will Save You From Heartaches!
1. Thou Shall NOT Date Any Guy out of Sympathy.
Oh girl! It is never worth the pain that will come later.
2. Thou Shall NOT Practice Revenge Relationship
Aka let me show my boyfriend I can flirt too. That will inflict more injuries on you.
3. Thou Shall NOT Depend On Any Man For Your Daily Needs.
It has brought more pain than joy to some ladies.
4. Thou Shall NOT Fight Over a Man.
Such a man won’t have regards for ladies. He'll date the winner and sleep with the loser later. Any man that leads two ladies on at the same time does not have morals.
5. Thou Shall NOT Remain in a Violent Relationship.
You are supposed to be his sweetheart not a punching bag.
6. Thou Shall NOT Have Sex with him.
If he wants sex that desperately he should put a ring on your finger. Funny enough, men can wait when they see you are worth it.
7. Thou Shall Not Act Shy When a Man is Toasting You
Be bold when men toast you. Stop cutting flowers or drawing circles with your leg! Enjoy the ‘toast’; don’t forget to pay attention to the pick-up lines.
Some pick-up lines can crack your rips and some lines can give him away if he is fake!
8. NEVER take your Girlfriend to his house.
If you are not sure of your man especially if the relationship is new, never take your girlfriend to his house or give her his number and social media handles. It can be very risky!
9. NEVER indulge in a secret relationship
As soon as you can, let your man show his face to your people. This can help turn the relationship into a serious one.
10. Thou Shall Not Look At His Pocket First
Material possessions are good but never let them be the number one factor in choosing a man.
11. Thou Shall Not Sit Carelessly
Always sit like a lady, some men act like babies when a lady is not properly seated.
12. Thou Shall Not Think You Can Trap a Man with Good Sex
Fou…fou…foul! It is an aberration.
13. Thou Shall Not Act Bitchy
Be good to men but be firm, don’t scare them away. Keep them at harm length if you are not interested, don't lead any man on because of monetary gain.
14. Thou Shall Not Get Stuck in a Relationship Going Nowhere
Guys are not in short supply. Don’t be deceived and stuck in a relationship where there is no peace and rest of mind.
15. Thou Shall Not Finance a Man to Keep Him
If your purpose of financing a man is to keep him that could be a big mistake. Finance for the right reasons.
16. Thou Shall Not Think Guys Are The Same.
Don’t listen to ‘Men are the same jare ’ Men are not the same girl, how many of them have you met?
17. Thou Shall Not Embark on a Long Journey to Meet a Man.
Adventures can be sweet; however, do not embark on a long trip to meet a man without informing someone. If you are meeting the man for the first time it is safer to let him come instead of going to him.
18. Thou Shall Not Let Him Hide You
Guys have a way of saying ‘don’t let anybody know about us yet’ if the relationship is up to three months and counting somebody should know!
19. Thou Shall Not Date a Bad Guy
They say good girls love bad guys and as a good girl you are looking for a bad guy to love? You are on your own (OYO is your case) let bad stick together and good love good. Don’t use your head to catch bullet.
20. Thou Shall NOT Hate Your Single State
Being single is not a disease; do not be desperate to get married. Many married people are wishing they are single. It is better to wait long than to marry wrong.
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