Tempting Things Foolish Ladies Do That Break Their Heart
Do These 6 Tempting Things and Get Your Heart Broken
Foolish ladies throw caution to the winds when they are in love; they close their eyes and allow the storm of love to carry them wherever it will. Their philosophies of life are: love makes a fool out of us all, Love is blind, love makes everything perfect etc I am not saying it is not true But going by these philosophies is one way ticket to doom.
We all know how risky relationships can get, it is either you win and get the ring or you lose and get your heart broken. If you can avoid these tempting but foolish mistakes you might just turn it into a win: win situation, either way you can at least walk away with your dignity intact if not your heart.
Tempting Things Foolish Ladies Do That Result in Heart Break
Foolish Ladies Become Sex Toys
Foolish ladies think great sex will get him to pop the M word and stay faithful; it is an expensive error. If you turn yourself into a sex machine for a man you are not married to, there are chances that that is all he is using you for. Can you just apply the brake now? Relationship is not all about sex, shouldn’t be restricted to the bedroom and no man has the right to demand for sex or coerce you into giving him one.
Some are even so foolish that they allow their lover to take their pictures or videos during sex with them. No problem, he will have something to spread or blackmail you with when you finally decide to call it quit, and who says you cannot be the one to walk away? You might just meet a nicer man one day and your ex will never let you forget your foolish past. There are sex videos and pictures all over the net now of foolish ladies blinded by lust and so called love
Foolish Ladies Play ‘Wife’ Without Ring
Foolish ladies are so much in a hurry to become wife that they playact and give free rehearsals. Isn’t it just amazing? You get to play the wife without the ring, it’s just PERFECT! It’s just that nobody will want to buy the cow when they can get the milk for free. He can marry you some day or never marry you and ask you to pack out one day.
Nobody is perfect, all those flaws he will put up with in marriage because he had no choice will scare him away. He gets someone to do his laundry, cook for him, care for the house and have sex with him at will without any responsibility whatsoever. Any money he ought to save for your wedding will get diverted to other important things because that can wait.
The so called trial marriage is a recipe for disaster. How many guys will you try for crying out loud! Besides, you are not getting younger so quit being a fool and insist on the real thing. How will he discover he needs a wife if he is getting all the benefits? Let him get lonely at night, do his own laundry, manage his office, cook, and get his house in order at the same time. If he needs help, let him get a house help or just get married.
Foolish Ladies Engage In Secret Relationships
Foolish ladies believe the crap that love is sweeter when it is kept a secret. He keeps you out of public eye and only he and your best friends know that you are together and you think things will work out eventually? When will you stop fooling yourself? He doesn’t want his family and friends to know and only meet you in secret and you are in ecstasy? Can you just step down a little bit from cloud nine and use your brain?
How long do you want to continue with this clandestine? Have you ever thought that he might be hiding you because he is married or there is another woman in the limelight? Or what if he doesn’t want anybody to know because he is only fooling around with you? Whatever his reasons are, tell him to get them resolved as soon as possible. If he is hiding you he might be hiding something from you. And when you get to know one day, it just might break your heart.
Foolish Ladies Give Their Men Total Control
Foolish women allow the men in their lives to blend them to his taste; it is an honest error. So he is promised to marry you someday? So what? Do you have to allow him to change your life and dream so much that you don’t even recognize yourself when you look at the mirror? ‘I will just find a woman I like and blend him to my taste’. I have heard this statement from men so many times than I can remember; it makes me think of onions, pepper and tomatoes.
I am not saying you should not be ready to grow when you are with a man or do some character adjustment when necessary but know when to draw the line. Don’t allow your man to change your wardrobe, your job, your dreams, your religion, your friends and even your hobbies. You are unique, and what you are was what attracted him in the first place, if there should be any changes it should be from you without him ordering it.
Foolish Ladies Give Commitment Too Soon
Some get to use this advice after heartbreaks but you can avoid being a fool later by using it now. Don’t act married unless you are and don’t give a guy 100% of your attention unless you are in very serious relationship or engaged. Don’t also expect that of him, it goes both ways you know.
Don’t let him act possessive and don’t act so too it is a one way trip to heartbreak. Don’t wear a frown when other guys talk to you just because a guy just ‘toast’ you or wear a customized shirt with his name on it. Don’t post pictures of both of you on Facebook with captions like ‘it’s both of us forever’ or ‘my husband and I’, ‘chilling with my in-laws’ blah! Blah! Blah! You might have to eat those words someday.
Moreover, it pisses people off if they keep seeing you with different guys with same caption. How many guys will you get literally married to before the real thing? Also make it easy to get a replacement if your guy is not serious, don’t get attached to him when he acts like you are just a fling. Let him know that he is not the only one that finds you attractive and it will be on his best interest to hook you before smarter guys take the initiative.
Foolish Ladies Read This Article and Ignore It
Foolish ladies are like “Subomi has started with her unrealistic list; it is not possible to do without all these things in relationship, she can so write nonsense” and get their heart broken at the end. I am tired of hearing stories that touch the heart; if you can’t read this and borrow some wisdom, you are going to regret it someday.
Some people learnt from books and others while some learn from personal experience. The difference between these two people is obvious! One has to go through pain, grieve, heartbreak and soul break while the other learn with a smile. Which are you going to be?
You see, it is easy to be wise if you want to be, don’t be foolish and lose all sense of reasoning because you are in love. Not all relationship will end in marriage, which is sad but true, so when the time comes for it to end this tips will help you in protecting your heart and escaping with your dignity intact.
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