SIGNS YOU ARE TOO POSSESSIVE: STOP SUFFOCATING YOUR PARTNER!
Being too possessive is a ticket to disaster; it will suffocate your partner and make a mess of your relationship. It can kill love and reduce affection and at the end of it, your relationship will look like a prison with one person struggling to get out to have breathing space. Look out for these signs in your relationship:
YOU MONITOR YOUR PARTNER’S MOVEMENT
You mount surveillance to monitor where your partner is
every minute of the day, you even begged someone to watch your partner and
report who visit him/her. You call every hour to know where your partner is and
what he/she is doing. Well, go and take up a profession in the CID department
and stop committing relationship suicide.
YOU CHECK YOUR PARTNER’S CALL LOG AND MESSAGES
You are guilty of this and your know it, stop now before it
destroys your relationship! The truth is that you don’t need it, be honest
enough to discuss your fears with your partner and resolve it amicably. Your
partner feels suffocated when you do this. If you go to the extent of checking
your partner’s mail inbox, Facebook inbox and monitoring his/her social media
posts; you are a witch or sorcerer and you will only hurt your relationship.
YOU VISIT YOUR PARTNER EVERYDAY AND STAY ALL DAY
You should get something doing or get a job, a relationship
is not a career opportunity and your partner does not need a baby-sitter. Get a
life and stop suffocating your partner! Give your partner a chance to miss you,
let your partner grow. A relationship is not marriage and even in marriage you
shouldn’t suffocate each other. So, stop visiting each or her work place every
day if you don’t work together, you are becoming a pest.
THREATENING HIS/HER FRIENDS
Know how far is too far! Your
partner is entitled to have friends of the opposite sex, it is healthy. You
can’t just be everything to your partner. So, stop getting paranoid and
attacking your partner’s friends, stop acting as if you are possessed! If you
think your partner is dating everybody, you need deliverance.
SHUTTING OUT YOUR PARTNER’S
FAMILY
If you see your partner’s family
as a threat, something is wrong somewhere. Your mother-in-law is not a witch and
your partner’s relatives are not pests, you are just being too possessive.
Those people loved and cared for your partner since the day he/she was born,
you should feel gratitude towards them! They have a right to be in your
partner’s life and demand assistance in any way, so, stop pushing them away and
putting your partner in emotional crisis. Don’t ask your partner to choose
between you and any member of his\her family, that is witchcraft at its best.
