SIGNS HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU ANYMORE
Your guy might be too nice to break up with you but he might not be interested in the relationship anymore. What guys do is to drop subtle signs hoping you will get the sign and move on without him. Guys seldom do the breakup nowadays; they hate all the messy emotions and psychological bullshit that goes along with it. He might not want to hurt you especially if you have been good to him in the past, so, your guy won’t do the breaking up especially if he is the nice type. So watch out for these signs girl; it means your relationship is already on the rock and heading to a breakup eventually:
S1. HE DOESN'T CELEBRATE YOU ANYMORE
If your guy doesn't celebrate you anymore or has forgotten
to do that several times, it means there is something wrong with your
relationship. He might have lost interest in you and doesn't care anymore. If
your guy suddenly starts forgetting your birthday and other special days in
your life you celebrate, well, maybe it is over and he doesn't want to hurt you
with the truth. And if he forgot to send you a gift or celebrate valentine with
you, maybe he thinks you are not worth it. He might give you excuses like ‘I am
busy, there is still next year’ blah! blah! blah! But if he has been doing it
before, it is a very bad sign.
S2 .HE DOESN'T CALL YOU ANYMORE
Guys are really into the call thing especially if it is a
girl they like. You know how he used to call you immediately you beep him, how
he calls you at the end of the day to hear how your day went and say those
sweet things you love to hear like ‘You are stressing yourself too much, go
easy on yourself, sorry dear take a shower blah! blah! blah! If he suddenly
stops doing all that he probably isn't into you anymore. Hey girl! Wake up! I
am waving my hand in front of your face now to know if you are conscious before
I hit you with this; he is not busy as he claims, you are too far from his
mind, he just did not know how to tell you without hurting you. If he hasn't
called for over three weeks and you are the one doing all the calling, you are
alone in that relationship.
S3. HE STARTS CANCELING DATES
If your guy agrees to go somewhere with you and change his
mind afterward, maybe something important came up but if he has done it more
than twice in a row, he has probably lost interest in the relationship. Chances
are you were the one who called for the date in the first place, he did not
plan to take you anywhere because he doesn't enjoy being with you anymore. Guys
are not too good at pretending like girls, he can’t fake the interest that is
not there; it is either he is in love with you or he isn't.
S4. YOU'VE NOT SEEN HIM FOR MONTHS
Are you waiting for it to be announced on TV? The guy has
given you enough signals for you to forget him. If he is living far away or
you are not on the same state or country it is understandable but if he is
doing this with the combination of the three signs above and you are both in
the same state, it is his own way of saying goodbye girl; the ship has sailed,
stop staying in the harbor alone. Sincerely, there is no sign greater than
this, the poor guy doesn't know what to do anymore and is now taking to his
heels, he doesn't understand while you are clinging too hard when he has
dropped the rope. If he ignores your calls or even lied that he has moved to
another abode, just let him be girl, it means the love is long gone and you
refused to accept what is poking you in the face.
S5. HE ASKS FOR A BREAKUP
Guys hardly ask for breakups, if he is asking for one it
means you have refused to acknowledge or the verbal and non verbal hints he has
dropped in the past about wanting to end the relationship. If he is asking for
a breakup, it means what it means girl; a guy that truly loves you will hold on
to you no matter what. He will climb the tallest mountain, cross the deepest
ocean and move heaven and earth just to be beside you but if he is letting go
easily, it probably means the love is long gone. Guys view breakups as a messy
affair, they can’t go through all the shedding of tears and heartbreak that are
usually involved that is why they will just move on and drop subtle hints
without mentioning the B word. If he is mentioning the B word, well, he meant
it girl, he won’t joke with such a thing.
If you have seen one or two of these signs in your
relationship it means you should be prepared for a breakup, it also means you
can pick up the broken pieces of your relationship and fight for the man you
love. If he is worth it, you shouldn't let him go without a fight, love can be
rekindled, watch out for my article on how to rekindle love in your
relationship.
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