SIGNS THERE IS A WOMAN IN HIS LIFE

Women everywhere are making the mistake of being the other woman in the relationship; the excuse they give when they get dumped is that they are not aware that there is a woman in his life. There will always be signs and warning signals so open your eyes and look for them. Look for these tell tale signs to be on the safe side:

# THE EX HE CANT STOP CALLING

He told you she is his ex but he can’t stop calling her and talking to her (even in your presence)? Maybe she hasn’t become one yet. The truth is that some guys lie about the women in their lives just to get a new one. Even if he claims there are problems in his relationship let him resolve it and the break up become final before coming to you. If he breaks up with her because of you, you are in trouble; you are the next victim.

v #YOU FIND LADIES’ THINGS IN HIS HOUSE

You find ladies’ shoes, bags, jewelries and cosmetics in his house and his sister is not staying with him; if you allow him to give you a convincing reason then you have lost all sense of reasoning. If the woman is his ex she would have packed her things after the breakup or he would have thrown them away. A woman will always want to leave signs of ownership for other women to see. If you ignore those signs, you will cry later.

#YOU FIND AN ENGAGEMENT OR WEDDING RING IN HIS HOUSE

A friend once visited a man she is dating and found a wedding ring in his house, the man gave excuses but the lady later discovered that he is married. If you find it in his possession then it belongs to him. Some ladies even find pictures or frames of a particular woman everywhere in his house and still ignore it. Also, look at his ring finger; if there is a ring mark there, maybe he removed the ring to look unattached. Some ladies are even foolish enough to date a man with wedding ring thinking it is for fashion purpose; your eyes will open soon.

#SHE ATTACKS YOU

If a woman is attacking you and threatening you to leave her man, you better run; even if the man in question is claiming not to know her. Don’t even believe she is a crazy ex girlfriend that does not want to let go. Every woman wants to protect her territory, don’t fight back and run! You might get hurt. If you get strange calls and SMS or the lady visits you in person to warn you, my dear, to be forewarned is to be fore harmed. Don’t become the other lady that get hurt, there are enough men to go round.

# A WELL FURNISHED AND WELL STOCKED KITCHEN

He is too busy to think about his kitchen much, if his kitchen is well stocked and well furnished, someone somewhere wants to make sure he is eating well and it is not his mum! His kitchen is always neat, there is always a fresh soup every time you visit, you even find food in the fridge; you are looking at a man that is well taken. Don’t trespass into another woman’s territory, no matter what he tells you to convince you, he will hurt you.