tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18178173447697624982024-02-20T09:34:41.850-08:00SINGLES' WORLDGet great content on relationship, marriage, business, technology, news, free stories, and everyday event.Sarah Subomi Adenijihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04349913382726045386noreply@blogger.comBlogger115125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817817344769762498.post-9861971670314783452023-04-30T04:43:00.007-07:002023-04-30T05:50:43.685-07:00No more breakfast<h2 style="text-align: left;"> NO MORE BREAKFAST BY SARAH ADENIJI</h2><h3 style="text-align: left;">How to save yourself from heartbreak</h3><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi8Rx_OAQSyThvvWoLU08dn9r1Y5vZ3wF4d7Tii9PC47tLEv-s6M-pHTALYjeRjYrUTdbu0XQZkSxzzSs5OVHSgDVeMvC3Ry9GbKC4RFQgBKDQUJn0lckCuIVAMUK9iYXlNmlM_3mHIhXD9pC2a6ohbs37qwlsq6s0D4RZufIhGP7pKJ4vvD2aiZ3Bb/s509/images%20(27).jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="339" data-original-width="509" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi8Rx_OAQSyThvvWoLU08dn9r1Y5vZ3wF4d7Tii9PC47tLEv-s6M-pHTALYjeRjYrUTdbu0XQZkSxzzSs5OVHSgDVeMvC3Ry9GbKC4RFQgBKDQUJn0lckCuIVAMUK9iYXlNmlM_3mHIhXD9pC2a6ohbs37qwlsq6s0D4RZufIhGP7pKJ4vvD2aiZ3Bb/s320/images%20(27).jpeg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><p>For the sake of those who are not familiar with the term "BREAKFAST" It is not actually a meal. It is a term used to describe heartbreak, being dumped, etc. Some of us have been served this meal that wasn't a meal.</p><p><br /></p><p>If you have not had BREAKFAST before you must be very special. I want us to dissect this Verses (Gen 29:17-31). </p><p><br /></p><p>Please permit me to rearrange this Topic to:</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">WHY YOU WERE SERVED BREAKFAST.</h3><h4 style="text-align: left;">(Why he dumped you)</h4><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTQTeNpUWfzetNlQ0lsLRjrEWUAKvXEq7o9PTuvis5XYUd6dXJ4GjAq6keVgkTe72Q6EN41FXpheI5mMWVxptDxS4L93P6BfRcJ9fXyuZ6N-D5r3OTqmsEDsMVJx9nPISd8I-HrjpuIJa0N7744AjF25AQvVySN6Nv__zln2o5KvyXgZXYHLhHtv6E/s509/images%20(26).jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="339" data-original-width="509" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTQTeNpUWfzetNlQ0lsLRjrEWUAKvXEq7o9PTuvis5XYUd6dXJ4GjAq6keVgkTe72Q6EN41FXpheI5mMWVxptDxS4L93P6BfRcJ9fXyuZ6N-D5r3OTqmsEDsMVJx9nPISd8I-HrjpuIJa0N7744AjF25AQvVySN6Nv__zln2o5KvyXgZXYHLhHtv6E/s320/images%20(26).jpeg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div><br /></div><p><br /></p><p>I want you to know all the things you are doing wrong or you have done wrong. I want you be a better person.</p><p>I want you to be a loved woman whether you are Single or Married.</p><p>Leah was unloved throughout the duration of her marriage.</p><p>It was clear who Jacob preffered.</p><p>It was so bad that Leah had to take permission from Rachel before her husband could sleep with her.</p><p>So why was Leah served breakfast?</p><p><br /></p><p>The number 1 reason was.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">1. BECAUSE SHE WAS HUNGRY </h3><p> You can't give someone food when he/she is not hungry.</p><p>Leah could have refused that marriage . Jacob wasas drunk that night when he made love with her thinking she was Rachel but Leah wasn't drunk.</p><p>Leah was in her right senses when she entered into that marriage.</p><p>Gen 29 Vs 17 says Leah's eyes were delicate. It actually meant Leah was cross eyed. Check other versions of the Bible.</p><p>Being cross-eyed was actually a birth defect .</p><p>She was hungry for a man to call her own.</p><p>She can do anything to enter into marriage.</p><p>Jacob saw her hunger and served her breakfast.</p><p><br /></p><p>She ate breakfast all her life. Many Singles today are hungry for love.</p><p>You just want a man to call your own.</p><p>You can do anything and take anything to remain in a relationship.</p><p>Because you have one defect or the other you think nobody else will accept you.</p><p>Some of you have taken lots of rubbish from men.</p><p><br /></p><p>You are too short</p><p>You are too dark</p><p>You are too fat</p><p>You are too slim</p><p>You are too tall</p><p>You don't have big breast</p><p>You don't have big backside</p><p>You don't have figure 8</p><p>You don't have British accent</p><p><br /></p><p>You know you'll never be enough for him.</p><p>You are not what he wanted. </p><p>Jacob wanted a woman that is well favoured (Well Endowed) Rachel was and Leah wasn't.</p><p>If he had met Leah before Rachel he would still have gone for Rachel .</p><p><br /></p><p>You are not perfect and you'll never be perfect .</p><p>God has made you for that special man.</p><p>You are someone's taste and someone's spec. If Leah had waited she would have met a man that will fall for her weak eyes .</p><p><br /></p><p>When I was in secondary school a guy asked me out. He made a statement then...</p><p>He said "If I marry you you'll have to do breast surgery to add to your breast.</p><p>I didn't accept to date him.</p><p>Several years after he reconnected with me and proposed again, I still said NO.</p><p>He wanted a woman with big bwess even if he falls for my fine face he'll still cheat with someone that has big bwess</p><p>I am my hubby's full spec.</p><p>Don't be hungry for a relationship; You'll never be valued if you are not wanted.</p><p>Don't beg, If a man does not admire you he'll never desire you.</p><p><br /></p><p>Can you look at vs 26 - 27 please?</p><p>Another reason Leah got served breakfast was because:</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">2. SHE WAS DESPERATE </h3><p>Leah was older than Rachel, she allowed herself to be pressured because of her old age.</p><p>Laban told Jacob the reason he tricked him into marrying Leah was because she was older. Her father had to beg Jacob to fulfill her week.</p><p><br /></p><p>I have seen so many ladies make severs mistakes in their relationship because they are not getting younger .</p><p>The man knew you were desperate.</p><p>You are so desperate and thirsty for marriage that you'll drink dirty water.</p><p> So he'll cheat on you and pretend to be sorry.</p><p>He'll beg and you'll take him back because you think good men are scarce and you are not getting younger.</p><p>Some ladies are so desperate that they'll go to the man's house to cook for him, clean his house, take care if him etc to show him their wife material is 100yards.</p><p><br /></p><p>You'll dash his family money and gifts to show them you can be a good wife.</p><p>He'll not marry you o!</p><p>Your money ti lo, they have chopped it.</p><p>You are never too old for marriage.</p><p>There is no timetable for it.</p><p><br /></p><p>Two of my sister's children got married before me. They are my nieces, Each of them have two kids each now.</p><p>Dem no dey catch late comer for marriage .</p><p>Another reason Leah was served breakfast was because:</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">3. SHE WAS CHEAP </h3><p>Jacob never wooed her.</p><p>Jacob never chased her.</p><p>Jacob never paid her bride price.</p><p>Those 14 years were for Rachelđ</p><p><br /></p><p>If you are doing any of these things you need urgent counsel:</p><p><br /></p><p>âYou are catching feelings for a man that never asked you out.</p><p><br /></p><p>âYou are living with a man that is yet to pay your bride price or marry you properly.</p><p><br /></p><p>âYou are the only one trying to keep your relationship together.</p><p><br /></p><p>It takes two people to make a relationship work . Don't chase a man that is not chasing you.</p><p>Dont woo a man by yourself.</p><p>Don't try to use sex to tie down a man.</p><p><br /></p><p>Some of you are even dating yourself.</p><p>You'll be the only one to call, visit him, give him gifts, etc You are dating yourself Sis.</p><p><br /></p><p>When a man sees that your affection has monetary value he won't value you.</p><p>Some of you depend on your partner for all your needs.</p><p>He'll pay for your hair do.</p><p>Give you money for clothes.</p><p>Buy you food and Sharwama.</p><p>Pay your house rent etc.</p><p>Once he's spending on you he'll expect you to sleep with him.</p><p>How are you different from a prostitute? He won't marry you because you are a liability not an asset.</p><p><br /></p><p>Another reason Leah was served breakfast:</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">4. SHE WAS NEEDY AND GREEDY</h3><p><br /></p><p>So many ladies are on this table.</p><p>Some of you are emotional junkies.</p><p>You catch feelings at the drop of a heart.</p><p>Jacob had eyes on Rachel from the Onset and Leah knew this.</p><p>She wanted her sister's man.</p><p>It never ended well for her.</p><p><br /></p><p>When a man is taken take your eyes off him. Dont chase someone that is in a relationship.</p><p>Do not catch feelings for a married man.</p><p><br /></p><p>A sister that was close to me got served breakfast because she was unfaithful.</p><p>I have treated cases of several ladies that cheated and later got dumped. This is another aspect of greediness.</p><p>Your man will never forget even if he chose to forgive.</p><p>He'll never trust you again.</p><p>He'll never marry you.</p><p>He'll go for someone he can trust to stay Faithful.</p><p>God bless you . Please feel free to ask questions.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p>QUESTION 1</p><p>Mama, Please what advice can you give woman like Leah in our midst.</p><p>How can she turn her daily breakfast to loving atmosphere to enjoy?</p><p><br /></p><p>ANSWER</p><p>Leah was a woman unloved .</p><p>She did everything wrong when she was single and still kept doing same mistake while married.</p><p>She was too cheap, an emotional junkie, and has low self-esteem.</p><p><br /></p><p>If you want someone to love you then the first place to start is loving yourself .</p><p>Self-love is different from self-worship, have a health dose of self-esteem.</p><p><br /></p><p>Don't be too available and clingy.</p><p>Be valuable, keep adding value to your life.</p><p>Have dreams, goals, and walk in purpose.</p><p><br /></p><p>He'll chose you if he's the ONEđ He'll chase you and He'll love you.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p>QUESTION 2</p><p>How do one get rid of a man you love who claims the heaven doesn't approve of you for him in marriage but still keeping glueing himself coming and going.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p>ANSWER</p><p>Chase him away with stick , hand him over to the police if you can do that.</p><p>He's a thief and a time waster.</p><p>He's like a pharisee that won't enter heaven and won't allow those that want to enter to enter.</p><p>You are keeping him around at your own detriment.</p><p>He'll never marry you. He'll become a parasite and then leave to marry someone else.</p><p>Block him everywhere and let him know he's not welcome.</p><p>Don't allow him enter your house, never call him or receive his call.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p>Thank you for reading, kindly share this message with friends if you have been blessed. Feel free to ask your questions using the comment section.</p><p><br /></p><p>To read more articles on relationship/Marriage click <a href="http://www.classysinglesworld.blogspot.com" target="_blank">HERE</a></p><p><br /></p><p>YOU'LL LOVE THESE!!!</p><p>1. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/signs-he-doesnt-love-you-anymore.html?m=1">Signs he doesn't love you anymore</a></p><p>2. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/can-relationship-survive-without-se.html?m=1">Can a relationship survive without sex?</a></p><p>3. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/life-rules-every-lady-must-know-before.html?m=1">Life rules every single lady must know before marriage</a></p><p>4. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/why-guys-dump-good-girls.html?m=1">Why guys dump good girls</a></p><p>5. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/how-to-be-financially-independent-as.html?m=1">How to be financially independent as a lady</a></p><p>6. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/5-ways-to-manage-menstrual-pains.html?m=1">How to manage menstrual pains without drugs</a></p><p>7. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/secret-of-irresistible-woman.html?m=1">Secret of an irresistible woman</a></p><p>8. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/how-to-know-he-loves-you.html?m=1">How to know he loves you</a></p><p>9. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/signs-you-are-going-crazy.html?m=1">Signs you are going crazy</a></p><p>10. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/bury-your-past-and-get-fresh-start.html?m=1">Bury your past and get a fresh start</a></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><br />Sarah Subomi Adenijihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04349913382726045386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817817344769762498.post-17281331452238954972023-04-14T02:53:00.004-07:002023-04-14T05:57:24.287-07:0020 Relationship Commandments for Smart Ladies<h2 style="text-align: left;"> 20 âTHOU SHALL NOTSâ FOR RELATIONSHIP SMART LADIES</h2><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi_UFfHEJfXcbxbVZJYIBoRN2ammO31qzMeVgQTcQctD_gRYz6va70GJm8kFy9-bAzQDOsYQgXC8N9hA2ztx8DLflFK8sacqE_4YcxSad4QpDdxahGew2V6rLKzXjHn9XbiOCe6_eFiqNqbKkPA9boH3nkRSNfoBr0AV15dzLlGaAaC87vFCBbqW1pU/s750/photo-1506795660198-e95c77602129.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="750" data-original-width="500" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi_UFfHEJfXcbxbVZJYIBoRN2ammO31qzMeVgQTcQctD_gRYz6va70GJm8kFy9-bAzQDOsYQgXC8N9hA2ztx8DLflFK8sacqE_4YcxSad4QpDdxahGew2V6rLKzXjHn9XbiOCe6_eFiqNqbKkPA9boH3nkRSNfoBr0AV15dzLlGaAaC87vFCBbqW1pU/s320/photo-1506795660198-e95c77602129.jpeg" width="213" /></a></div><br /><div><br /></div><h3 style="text-align: left;">These Commandments Will Save You From Heartaches!</h3><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">1. Thou Shall NOT Date Any Guy out of Sympathy. </h4><p>Oh girl! It is never worth the pain that will come later.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">2. Thou Shall NOT Practice Revenge Relationship</h4><p> Aka let me show my boyfriend I can flirt too. That will inflict more injuries on you.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">3. Thou Shall NOT Depend On Any Man For Your Daily Needs.</h4><p> It has brought more pain than joy to some ladies.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">4. Thou Shall NOT Fight Over a Man. </h4><p>Such a man wonât have regards for ladies. He'll date the winner and sleep with the loser later. Any man that leads two ladies on at the same time does not have morals.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">5. Thou Shall NOT Remain in a Violent Relationship.</h4><p> You are supposed to be his sweetheart not a punching bag.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">6. Thou Shall NOT Have Sex with him.</h4><p> If he wants sex that desperately he should put a ring on your finger. Funny enough, men can wait when they see you are worth it. </p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">7. Thou Shall Not Act Shy When a Man is Toasting You</h4><p> Be bold when men toast you. Stop cutting flowers or drawing circles with your leg! Enjoy the âtoastâ; donât forget to pay attention to the pick-up lines.</p><p> Some pick-up lines can crack your rips and some lines can give him away if he is fake!</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">8. NEVER take your Girlfriend to his house.</h4><p>If you are not sure of your man especially if the relationship is new, never take your girlfriend to his house or give her his number and social media handles. It can be very risky!</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">9. NEVER indulge in a secret relationship</h4><p>As soon as you can, let your man show his face to your people. This can help turn the relationship into a serious one.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">10. Thou Shall Not Look At His Pocket First</h4><p>Material possessions are good but never let them be the number one factor in choosing a man.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">11. Thou Shall Not Sit Carelessly</h4><p> Always sit like a lady, some men act like babies when a lady is not properly seated.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">12. Thou Shall Not Think You Can Trap a Man with Good Sex</h4><p> FouâŠfouâŠfoul! It is an aberration.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">13. Thou Shall Not Act Bitchy</h4><p>Be good to men but be firm, donât scare them away. Keep them at harm length if you are not interested, don't lead any man on because of monetary gain.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">14. Thou Shall Not Get Stuck in a Relationship Going Nowhere</h4><p>Guys are not in short supply. Donât be deceived and stuck in a relationship where there is no peace and rest of mind.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">15. Thou Shall Not Finance a Man to Keep Him</h4><p>If your purpose of financing a man is to keep him that could be a big mistake. Finance for the right reasons. </p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">16. Thou Shall Not Think Guys Are The Same.</h4><p> Donât listen to âMen are the same jare â Men are not the same girl, how many of them have you met?</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">17. Thou Shall Not Embark on a Long Journey to Meet a Man.</h4><p>Adventures can be sweet; however, do not embark on a long trip to meet a man without informing someone. If you are meeting the man for the first time it is safer to let him come instead of going to him.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">18. Thou Shall Not Let Him Hide You</h4><p>Guys have a way of saying âdonât let anybody know about us yetâ if the relationship is up to three months and counting somebody should know!</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">19. Thou Shall Not Date a Bad Guy</h4><p>They say good girls love bad guys and as a good girl you are looking for a bad guy to love? You are on your own (OYO is your case) let bad stick together and good love good. Donât use your head to catch bullet. </p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h4 style="text-align: left;">20. Thou Shall NOT Hate Your Single State</h4><p>Being single is not a disease; do not be desperate to get married. Many married people are wishing they are single. It is better to wait long than to marry wrong. </p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p>To read more articles on relationship/Marriage click <a href="http://www.classysinglesworld.blogspot.com" target="_blank">HERE</a></p><p><br /></p><p>YOU'LL LOVE THESE!!!</p><p>1. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/signs-he-doesnt-love-you-anymore.html?m=1">Signs he doesn't love you anymore</a></p><p>2. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/can-relationship-survive-without-se.html?m=1">Can a relationship survive without sex?</a></p><p>3. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/life-rules-every-lady-must-know-before.html?m=1">Life rules every single lady must know before marriage</a></p><p>4. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/why-guys-dump-good-girls.html?m=1">Why guys dump good girls</a></p><p>5. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/how-to-be-financially-independent-as.html?m=1">How to be financially independent as a lady</a></p><p>6. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/5-ways-to-manage-menstrual-pains.html?m=1">How to manage menstrual pains without drugs</a></p><p>7. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/secret-of-irresistible-woman.html?m=1">Secret of an irresistible woman</a></p><p>8. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/how-to-know-he-loves-you.html?m=1">How to know he loves you</a></p><p>9. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/signs-you-are-going-crazy.html?m=1">Signs you are going crazy</a></p><p>10. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/bury-your-past-and-get-fresh-start.html?m=1">Bury your past and get a fresh start</a></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>Sarah Subomi Adenijihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04349913382726045386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817817344769762498.post-36523209904348989082023-04-14T01:54:00.008-07:002023-04-14T06:58:14.616-07:003 Months to Thirty Episode 6<h2 style="text-align: left;"> 3 Months to Thirty by Sarah Adeniji</h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqikniqPxaUbzr_eBrbS3sPqtlLU4Cl2SSA9Z1p2boffTSVqJJd3-_TESF-u99ShKKhSOCrgnz8Zg4chfBg1l_k8WL89YprmdVxw4pxPh94bL48-CbonO6U-HeW4dgv_8ObIZkfSfwrzgbzkcatRtvv5R5mdG_vRCH6dxHxh8lEdgIs5wROceVxUfr/s1080/3%20Months%20to%2030%20Episode%204%20(2).png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="1080" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqikniqPxaUbzr_eBrbS3sPqtlLU4Cl2SSA9Z1p2boffTSVqJJd3-_TESF-u99ShKKhSOCrgnz8Zg4chfBg1l_k8WL89YprmdVxw4pxPh94bL48-CbonO6U-HeW4dgv_8ObIZkfSfwrzgbzkcatRtvv5R5mdG_vRCH6dxHxh8lEdgIs5wROceVxUfr/s320/3%20Months%20to%2030%20Episode%204%20(2).png" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">EPISODE 6</h3><h3 style="text-align: left;"><u>WHEN LOVE HAPPENS </u></h3><p>Dear Diary, I couldn't stop thinking of Dad and Auntie Beatrice throughout that day. My concentration shifted from Dr. Rita to my errant Dad. I had idolized him all my life, I thought he was the only perfect man in my world and the pain of betrayal was deep.</p><p><br /></p><p>To everyone he's simply Engineer Solomon Akeju, but to me he's everything. My Dad wasn't too religious but he was raised an Anglican. One of the priceless memories I had as a teenager was sticking beside him in church so that I could take photographs of people greeting him warmly. He is an embodiment of wisdom and I have come to rely on his strength.</p><p><br /></p><p>When I got home that Thursday night I was told Dad was arround, the old MJ would have rushed into his arms hanging on his every word but this new and disappointed MJ just isn't interested. Luckily enough for me, he wasn't in the sitting room so I told Mom I would see Dad later and dashed into my room.</p><p><br /></p><p>I woke up on Friday Morning full of energy, I went through my morning routine of washing my face and applying a face mask before kneeling at my favorite prayer spot.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Dear God, thank you for waking me up today. I thought Daddy was a good and perfect example of the type of man I wanted but I was wrong. I can't believe Daddy is a cheat after all he told me about staying faithful in a relationship. He's the reason I vowed to remain Faithful after he scolded me twice for cheating in my relationship not knowing he's like this. Please forget about the prayer I prayed yesterday, I don't want a man like Dad anymore. Send a good man and sensible man that will love me and stay Faithful."</p><p><br /></p><p>I chose to wear a beautiful black gown and matched it with simple accessories. Today is Friday and I can afford to step away from the conventional. My meeting with Dr. Rita has been scheduled to hold by 2:00PM and I want to impress her, I don't want her case to be one of the few leads that decided not to sign the contract because they weren't impressed with my pitch.</p><p><br /></p><p>I enjoyed the early morning drive to work because it helped me clear my head and mind. I contemplated calling Dad but had a second thought and dropped the phone. </p><p><br /></p><p><i>"MJ, it happened long ago. You have to move past this so that it won't ruin the beautiful relationship you have with your dad"</i></p><p><br /></p><p>I know I should move past what happened with dad and Auntie Beatrice but I don't know how. I remembered how I had cheated on Kunle in school and it was Dad that took it upon himself to scold me.</p><p><br /></p><p>I met Kunle when I was 22, we both attended a popular private University and was madly in love. His parent came from old money like mine and our life was perfect until Ben was admitted for a post graduate course in our school.</p><p><br /></p><p>Kunle was good to me but he wasn't smart and intelligent. He wasn't bothered about his low grades because he had been assured that his results would be upgraded before graduation. He was going to inherit his father's Oil and gas business after his University education and cared less about University grades.</p><p><br /></p><p>I introduced him to my parent after going on steady with him for 6 months and Mom loved him instantly. He was fair, tall, and handsome; he made me feel like the only girl in the room and I didnt mind the fact that he was clingy.</p><p><br /></p><p>I wasn't the bookish type but I was above average, Kunle joked severally that he'll leave the book to me while he brings in the money. We were going to get married after graduation and I have met his family.</p><p><br /></p><p>When Ben transferred to our school I felt drawn to him. He was smart and had a cute smile. He wasn't as handsome as Kunle but he was attractive and that was enough.</p><p><br /></p><p>Ben and I met when our cars collided at the school gate. He wanted to fix my car because he was at fault but I told him not to bother. He gave me his card in case I changed my mind.</p><p><br /></p><p>It started with a harmless call, followed by another and several calls later because I felt drawn to him. I kept the fact that I had a serious relationship away from him. I allowed myself to enjoy his company and began to draw away from Kunle.</p><p><br /></p><p>Ben was a genuis, I was never bored anytime I found myself in his company which was frequent considering the fact that we were studying the same course and he took it upon himself to explain courses I found difficult to comprehend. I found myself in love with Ben few months later, I didn't know how to explain to Kunle so I started dating both of them secretly. </p><p><br /></p><p>It was difficult keeping Ben away from Kunle because almost every one around me knew I was in a serious relationship with Kunle. I found out that what I had with Ben was deeper because we connected on all levels; if I was asked to choose between both of them it would certainly be Ben.</p><p><br /></p><p>Ben was in my room one day after we came back from a date when I heard a knock on the door. Kunle didn't inform me he'll be coming and I was surprised to see him at the door.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Sandra" He was staring at me with hurt in his eyes and I knew instantly that someone must have told him about Ben. Kunle was the only guy that ever called me Sandra; he was deeply in love with me. Kunle would jump into the ocean without a second thought if I asked him to, but it wasn't enough for me. I was so young and only realized my folly when I was older.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Kunle! You didn't tell me you'll be visiting" I said looking surprised.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I have been calling you, why are you not picking my calls?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"I was busy" </p><p><br /></p><p>"Let me in, why are you standing by the door?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"I have a guest, can you come another time?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Who is the person? You should introduce me" he pushed the door wider and stepped in. Ben was sitting comfortably on my sofa.</p><p><br /></p><p>My heart was beating erratically but I managed to close the door and walked after Kunle.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Ben this is my best friend Kunle, I don't think you've met him before" I said quickly.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Hi Kunle, I'm Ben" he extended his hand for an handshake and was surprised by the cold stare Kunle gave him.</p><p><br /></p><p>"You are not welcome here" Kunle said without offering any greeting.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p>Ben stood up slowly and picked his mobile phone from the table.</p><p><br /></p><p>"See you later MJ" he said and headed out.</p><p><br /></p><p>To say I was embarrassed would be an understatement, When I got over the embarrassment I was completely furious.</p><p><br /></p><p>"How dare you Kunle? How dare you walk in here to embarrass my guest.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Jeez MJ! You are making a fool out of me! All my friends are seeing both of you together in town! You go everywhere together behaving like a school girl in love. What has gotten into you?".</p><p><br /></p><p>"I can't do this anymore Kunle"</p><p><br /></p><p>"You can't do what?" He asked looking hurt.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I can't do us anymore. I really tried to make things work between us but I'm in love with Ben"</p><p><br /></p><p>"You want to throw away what we have over a fling? Do you know this guy Sandra? He's a confirmed womanizer, he's just playing with you. We are getting married next year, don't do this to us" he pleaded.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I cant marry you out of pity Kunle. Ben is the one for me, we connect on all levels. He's..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"Stop it! Stop this Sandra! He's just using you! Do you know what I found out about him..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"How long?" I said slowly.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I've known since about 3 months now. I was waiting for you to come to your senses. You have to choose between both of us, I can't share you".</p><p><br /></p><p>"I choose Ben, it's over Kunle".</p><p><br /></p><p>"Jeez! You'll regret this Sandra. You'll regret choosing him over what we have, I know I'm not perfect but..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"Leave Kunle! Please!"</p><p><br /></p><p>That was the last time we ever spoke. I called Ben to apologize for how Kunle treated him and he was cool about everything.</p><p><br /></p><p>I was in Ben's apartment few months later because he promised to help me with my assignment. I had just a year to graduate and the workload of constant assignment was driving me crazy. He told me he treated the topic in his final year project and handed me a copy. I must confess that Ben was really a brilliant guy despite the fact that his family did not have old money like mine.</p><p><br /></p><p>That was when I saw it, I opened to his dedication page and saw the inscription:</p><p><br /></p><p>"To the Only Woman I'll ever love. Thanks for being the only light in my dark world Britney; forever is the deal Darling".</p><p><br /></p><p>My whole world shattered into tiny pieces and I lost composure immediately.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Ben"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Yes dear"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Who's Britney?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Britney? I can't believe I have never told you about her" he said with a smile.</p><p><br /></p><p>"She's your ex?" I desperately wanted his answer to be yes, even if it was going to be a lie.</p><p><br /></p><p>"No, she's my woman. You've not seen her around because she's currently in UK running her Masters. I'm her expecting her back next year, we'll be married as soon as she's back".</p><p><br /></p><p>"You are in a relationship?" I said in shock. I was trying hard not to cry.</p><p><br /></p><p>"No MJ, I'm engaged. I thought you knew".</p><p><br /></p><p>"I knew? Then what am I doing with you?".</p><p><br /></p><p>"I thought you are in a relationship already, I thought you understood that we just like each other and want to be together".</p><p><br /></p><p>"We have slept together Ben! Severally! I can't believe you are saying this. You said what we have is special".</p><p><br /></p><p>"It Is dear! But I can't leave you for Britney. You see, I was once a drug addict. Britney stood by me even when I spent a year in a psychiatric home".</p><p><br /></p><p>"What about me? I gave up everything for you! You are so unfair" I said hitting his shoulder with clenched fists as tears poured down my cheeks.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I love you MJ, but it's not enough. Britney is my life".</p><p><br /></p><p>I was so heartbroken that I couldn't concentrate on anything in school, it hurt seeing Ben around school smiling as if nothing happened.</p><p><br /></p><p>I packed my bags and went home to cool off. Dad was in the sitting room when I got home, I opened the door and ran into his arms crying.</p><p><br /></p><p>"That was so foolish of you Moni" he said after listening to my side of the story.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I know Dad, but I love Ben so much" I said amidst tears.</p><p><br /></p><p>"And you betrayed Kunle for this man? You shouldn't have allowed yourself to get carried away by your emotions. Nothing good ever comes out of cheating".</p><p><br /></p><p>"Do you think I should beg Kunle?".</p><p><br /></p><p>He shook his head silently "You can't cheat on people you love and expect them to be the same. Even if he forgives out of love he'll never forget. You'll always be a threat to his peace of mind. He loved you Moni; he came to see me to discuss your wedding some months back. I was surprised when he stopped getting in touch".</p><p><br /></p><p>"I'm sorry Dad".</p><p><br /></p><p>"It's OK Princess, I know you have learnt your lesson. Love cannot be betrayed and remain the same, that is why you should think thrice before betraying a heart that truly loves you".</p><p><br /></p><p>That was the second and last time I ever cheated in my relationship. I saw my Dad as an embodiment of wisdom and lived my his words. I parked my car at my usual parking lot and headed for the elevator, I was inside the office in 5 minutes.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Wow! You look hot! You have a date after work?" Mary said looking at me curiosly.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I wish! I have to meet an important client this afternoon".</p><p><br /></p><p>"A male? You are going to cause commotion..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"No, a female. Mary you really need to do something about your overactive imagination" I said smiling.</p><p><br /></p><p>"If you can borrow me this your shape for the weekend I'll have a boyfriend before Monday. There is this guy..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"I have to go Mary! I really have to go!" I shouted and escaped into my office. I went over Dr Rita's file again, I studied and memorized Everything from her hobbies to her favourite food and color. By the time it was past 1was feeling hot despite the fact that my office was Air Conditioned.</p><p><br /></p><p>I pulled out a small mirror from my bag and proceeded to repair my makeup. I called Margret Thatcher to give her an update before leaving the office.</p><p><br /></p><p>I got to our meeting point an hour early and ordered for something to eat because I missed lunch. It was something light, I had finished my meal and was sipping a sweet wine when she arrived.</p><p><br /></p><p>She wore a simple gown, with a small jacket, her hair was braided and her makeup simple. Everything on her has such a touch of class and simplicity that I felt overdressed.</p><p><br /></p><p>She has so much masculine features that I found it hard to describe her as beautiful but she was charming and attractive.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Dr Rita?" I said and extended my hand for an handshake.</p><p><br /></p><p>"You are the famous MJ? My secretary can't stop talking about you. You are beautiful".</p><p><br /></p><p>I wasn't expecting a compliment from her and it threw me off guard. She's so confident in her own skin.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Thanks Dr..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"Drop that Dr crap! You can call me Miss Rita. Let's get down to business" she sat down and the waiter hurried to her side immediately.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Just water please. I can see that MJ already took care of herself" she was smiling at the waiter and he blushed.</p><p><br /></p><p>For the first time in my life I was lost for word, what kind of wedding idea do you push on a woman in her late thirties? It's obvious she already knows what she want and I just have to play along.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Let me see what you have got there MJ".</p><p><br /></p><p>I handed the file to her and she studied it. I can bet she didn't miss any detail.</p><p><br /></p><p>"This is not final Miss Rita, we can make adjustment or just go along with whatever you think you want".</p><p><br /></p><p>"It's fine, I don't really want too much. I just want to get married to Toro and get it over with" she said still smiling.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I know you want a perfect wedding, I mean who doesn't. I'm here to help you achieve just that". I was getting my momentum back and I felt as if I was in control once again.</p><p><br /></p><p>"You are wrong. I don't want a perfect wedding because I'm not perfect. I turned down his marriage proposal but he kept hunting me down wherever I go. He said he's the only one for me".</p><p><br /></p><p>"That must be so satisfying. I can't imagine someone's saying that to me, I'll be in cloud nine" I smiled.</p><p><br /></p><p>"When you are my age marriage does not intoxicate you that much" she smiled back.</p><p><br /></p><p>"That's strange. I thought the older women get the more desperate they are to settle down".</p><p><br /></p><p>"Well, it's certainly true for some women but not for me. I have been through a lot relationship wise. I have met several bad guys, I was even the bad girl to some of them. I have done several things I'm not proud of. Then I decided to give up on this whole marriage thing because it was messing up with my mental health. I faced my career solely and achieved dream after dream".</p><p><br /></p><p>"Don't you get lonely? How do you cope?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Yeah! The loneliness. At first I allow the void to become huge; I was feeding it with a promiscuous lifestyle. Then I started binging on alcohol, took some harmful substances and abused sleeping pills but it didn't work".</p><p><br /></p><p>"Then what?" I felt drawn to her in a way I could not explain.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Then Christ happened" she smiled.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Christ?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"I became born again and all things became new. Suddenly it didn't matter no more if I was single and alone; the desperation faded" She was looking serious.</p><p><br /></p><p>I was holding my breathe unknowingly and I let it out. I wish I could be as confident as this woman.</p><p><br /></p><p>"How did you find your fiance" I asked slowly.</p><p><br /></p><p>"No, I didn't find him. He found me in the place of purpose and prayer"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Where exactly?" I was trying not to sound desperate but I needed information in order to know where to look.</p><p><br /></p><p>"He found me in Church. I wasn't really into him but he kept coming. He practically chased me all over the place. When you are my age you'll understand that the number of available single men get thinner and thinner as you age. He is special, I had to let go and let God have His way".</p><p><br /></p><p>"Awnn!!! That's sweet".</p><p><br /></p><p>"I like you MJ, you are such s sweet girl. You should come see me sometimes" she placed her card on the table.</p><p><br /></p><p>I picked up the card and dropped it inside my bag.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I'm happy for you Miss Rita. I'm glad love found you at this age..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"It will happen for you too MJ. If you don't force it and let go love will come for you. When love happens it can be the most beautiful thing you have ever experienced. I saw the questions in your eyes and wish I can answer them but there is no time".</p><p><br /></p><p>I stared at her for a long time and she stared back, I felt this kind of unusual connection I found hard to explain.</p><p><br /></p><p>"About your wedding?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"I want something private, I can afford to hire your company to plan my wedding but it'll be such a waste of money".</p><p><br /></p><p>"We can work around your budget" I said quickly.</p><p><br /></p><p>"To be sincere MJ I came here to see you. My wedding plans have been taken care of. However, my niece will reach out to your company soon. She's having her dream wedding soon and wants all the paparazzi" she said winking.</p><p><br /></p><p>"We'll be grateful" I said trying not to look disappointed.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Call me" she said smiling.</p><p><br /></p><p>I was staring into space several minutes after she left, I have not met such a confident, and charming bride before.</p><p><br /></p><p>I got a beep on my phone and picked it up to check. The text was from Margret Thatcher.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Success? MJ we need this account."</p><p><br /></p><p>To be continued...</p><p><br /></p><p>Don't forget to drop your comment after reading, feel free to use the share icon and share this story via link. Follow the blog so that you'll get notification when I drop another Episode. Episode 7 coming out soon.</p><p><br /></p><p>To read free articles/content on relationship and marriage click <a href="http://www.classysinglesworld.blogspot.com">HERE</a></p><p><br /></p><p>DON'T MISS THESE!!!</p><p>1. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-30-by-sarah-adeniji.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty</a></p><p>2. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-prologue-by-sarah.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty Prologue</a></p><p>3.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-episode-1.html?m=1"> 3 Months to Thirty EP 1</a></p><p>4.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-episode-1.html?m=1"> 3 Months to Thirty EP 2</a></p><p>5. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-episode-3.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty EP 3</a></p><p>6.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/3-months-to-thirty-episode-4.html?m=1"> 3 Months to Thirty EP 4</a></p><p>7. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/3-months-to-thirty-episode-5.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty EP 5</a></p><p>8. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/why-guys-dump-good-girls.html?m=1">Why Guys Dump Good Girls</a></p><p>9.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/5-turn-off-things-to-avoid-when-toasting.html?m=1"> 5 Turn-off things guys do when toasting</a></p><p><br /></p>Sarah Subomi Adenijihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04349913382726045386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817817344769762498.post-61689427325018955512023-04-08T06:59:00.004-07:002023-04-10T09:18:42.892-07:003 Months to Thirty Episode 5<h2 style="text-align: left;"> 3 Months to Thirty by Sarah Adeniji</h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGNdZHpq4BKhdfK7mZakZFyrWKAHADsShZ0l8llKu1Vcx_-GTKe5ukvxbcEW7rB6dBlLL1v9oMK5akBmo2TWaybUmLZ9WKZRf9RV5CuFve_PIbMcehTTQZDH4fM1PuALuTjs6eLKx8hiC22fRqB4XudbtuDiAgw_2ALkMpM9sBn5gJ4iHulVo3CxLA/s1080/3%20Months%20to%2030%20Episode%205.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="1080" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGNdZHpq4BKhdfK7mZakZFyrWKAHADsShZ0l8llKu1Vcx_-GTKe5ukvxbcEW7rB6dBlLL1v9oMK5akBmo2TWaybUmLZ9WKZRf9RV5CuFve_PIbMcehTTQZDH4fM1PuALuTjs6eLKx8hiC22fRqB4XudbtuDiAgw_2ALkMpM9sBn5gJ4iHulVo3CxLA/s320/3%20Months%20to%2030%20Episode%205.png" width="320" /></a></div><br /><h3 style="text-align: left;"><br /></h3><h3 style="text-align: left;">EPISODE 5</h3><h3 style="text-align: left;"><u>DADDY IS NOT PERFECT</u></h3><p>Dear Diary, I couldn't forget Mom's statement or the look on her face throughout the day on Wednesday. All my life I had known my Dad to be a gentle and easy going man; he's a wonderful husband to mom and a great Dad.</p><p><i><br /></i></p><p><i>"Your Dad isn't perfect Moni"</i></p><p><br /></p><p>I tried to imagine Dad being unfaithful or doing something terrible to Mom but the picture just didn't click. Dad worshipped Mom and I wondered why he allowed her push him around at times.</p><p><br /></p><p>Dad is always busy during the week, we hang out most weekends when I don't have an "On Site" assignment. I picked up my phone and called him on Wednesday evening on my way back from work.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Hello Dad"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Princess"</p><p><br /></p><p>"How are you doing? I miss you"</p><p><br /></p><p>"I'm doing fine Moni, just a little bit sore . I played golf with a friend this afternoon and outdid myself. Your father is an old man"</p><p><br /></p><p>"No Dad, you are not even 50 yet. You are strong and ageless" I said jokingly.</p><p><br /></p><p>"You are about two decades short" he said laughing.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I'm serious Dad. You look so charming and handsome, I'm thinking of arranging a hot side chick for you" I said lowering my voice.</p><p><br /></p><p>"You want your mother to kill me? I have a gorgeous wife and a wonderful daughter; those are the only women in my life now. I'm happy and content Moni"</p><p><br /></p><p>I tried to blink away the tears that gathered around my eyes; his love and commitment towards us have been unwaivering for years.</p><p><br /></p><p>"You are the best, I cant love you less".</p><p><br /></p><p>"Love you too princess. Let's hangout this weekend".</p><p><br /></p><p>My faith in Dad was reinstated after the call, I knew whatever Dad's imperfection was it's sure not infidelity. I remembered the appointment I have with one of the brides on Thursday and wondered how I would be able to pull off both dates.</p><p><br /></p><p>I woke up early on Thursday morning and went over my schedule for the day. </p><p><br /></p><p>"Dear God, thank You for waking me up today. I have this feeling I cannot explain, can you please help me make right choices today. When are you sending the man you promised? I want a man like Dad: loving, caring, and faithful. Amen"</p><p><br /></p><p>I was out of the house by 6:30AM. I made extra effort with my appearance and managed to look both professional and gorgeous at the same time. Whenever I'm hanging out with Mom I made sure I look my best. I don't understand how she manages to look chic in her early sixies. </p><p><br /></p><p>I was booked for lunch with Rita by 2:00PM. She's in her late thirties and knows exactly what she wants. It's not common to come across older looking brides; most of the brides I have worked with are in their early twenties and obsessed with marriage.</p><p><br /></p><p>I picked up my phone to call her secretary by 9:00AM.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Hello, am I on to Miss Rita's secretary?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Yes please. What can I do for you?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"I have an appointment with Miss Rita by 2:00PM, she requested that I call to confirm the appointment today" I said sounding professional.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Oh! You are from Pure Haven? I'm supposed to call you by 9:00AM, I was about to call. She's not in Lagos at the moment. Miss Rita has an urgent business in Abuja, she'll take a late flight to Lagos and meet with you tomorrow. Is 2:00PM Okay for you tomorrow?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Can I check my schedule and send a text to confirm the appointment?" I said quickly.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Of course, enjoy the rest of your day Miss..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"I'm MJ" I said with a smile.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I'm Lola. Thanks for being cool with everything, Miss Rita will see you tomorrow. She's opening a new boutique in Abuja and it's taking much of her time" she sounded apologetic.</p><p><br /></p><p>"It's fine Lola; expect my text soon".</p><p><br /></p><p>"Bye" she said and dropped the call.</p><p>I checked Rita's profile again and knew instintively that she's going to be a difficult client. She's 38, has a Masters Degree in business administration and owns chains of boutique all over Nigeria. I tried to imagine myself as a spinster at 38. "MJ dont go there, that's a recipe for depression".</p><p><br /></p><p>I checked the time and called Mom. I have lunch by 12:00Noon and she want to check if we are still hanging out together.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Hi Mom".</p><p><br /></p><p>"MoniJesu"</p><p><br /></p><p>"I have lunch break by 12 and there is this nice restaurant close to my workplace..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"Dont worry MJ, I have another Eatery in mind. It's not far, I'll pick you up from the office and drop you after our lunch. You don't need to come with your car".</p><p><br /></p><p>"As your Lordship pleases. You are paying for this lunch Mom, you are the one with a wealthy husband" I said jokingly.</p><p><br /></p><p>"The last time I checked my wealthy husband is your father. Hope you are wearing something nice? I don't want people to compare after feeding on my Chic appearance" I could hear the smile in her voice.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I know I'm your ugly daughter. I wish I had inherited your fair skin and curves, do you think I can still remedy that?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Don't you dare touch a bleeching cream or I'll disown you! Bye Moni"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Yes Mom" I said lovingly.</p><p><br /></p><p>I called Margret Thatcher to inform her about the new development with Rita. </p><p><br /></p><p>"Meet with her tomorrow MJ, you can take the rest of the day off after making sure she signs that contract".</p><p><br /></p><p>"Yes Mrs"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Another thing, I made my research and discovered she has a Doctorate degree not Masters. Address her as Dr Rita, and be sure to admire her achievement and business skill. This pitch will require your best, I'm confident that you can handle this".</p><p><br /></p><p>"Thanks for your vote of confidence Mrs, I'll try my best".</p><p><br /></p><p>I went back to Rita's file and searched for her profile on Social Media. I devoured all the information I could lay my hands on and still felt it wasn't enough; I decided to discuss Rita with Mom over lunch.</p><p><br /></p><p>I was feeling hungry around noon and was glad when Mom's call came in.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Moni, I'm waiting"</p><p><br /></p><p>I quickly locked the door to my office and headed out. She was looking Chic and beautiful as usual.</p><p><br /></p><p>"You are not looking bad, hop in!" she said.</p><p><br /></p><p>Mom has been driving herself for as long as I can remember; she only employed one driver and had fired him when I was nine. I couldn't remember what transpired between them.</p><p><br /></p><p>The Eatery was a little bit far from my office but it was nice and cozy. I suddenly remembered that we used to eat at this spot regularly when I was about ten.</p><p><br /></p><p>We sat and a waiter came to collect our order. Their food was tasty and I savoured every bite. We ordered for dessert after eating.</p><p><br /></p><p>"So you have been enjoying this delicious food all my yourself" I muttered while wiping my lips.</p><p><br /></p><p>"You don't remember this place?" Mom said looking amused.</p><p><br /></p><p>"It certainly look familiar to me"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Do you remember Auntie Beatrice?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"I can't recollect her face, I dont think she's one of my favourite people when I was young"</p><p><br /></p><p>"I don't think you have many favourite people when you were young" Mom said making a face and I laughed.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I thought you were taking me to somewhere scary. Your statement about Daddy not being perfect gave me a scare yesterday. I actually thought you were serious" I said feeling relaxed.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I was" Mom said and sipped her wine.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Mom, I know you love me so much but there is no way I'm going back to Steve. I know myself: I am this kind of selfish person that hates to share. You didnt know how much it cost me to share you and Dad with Bobby, I didn't know I'll fall in love with him" .</p><p><br /></p><p>"MJ, I'm your mother and know how generous you are. If any girl is getting on your way you should know how to eliminate her so that you can keep your man".</p><p><br /></p><p>"How many will I eliminate Mom? Steve has over 10 women clinging unto him right now. There is a desperate girl called Remi that almost turned me into a mental patient".</p><p><br /></p><p>"And what did you do about it?" Mom asked looking amused.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I don't have any business with her. Steve was my man; he was supposed to give me commitment and security".</p><p><br /></p><p>'I told you your Dad wasn't perfect, something happened when you were 8 years. I had a brief labour during your birth but it was still traumatic for me. I was educated about all the birthing process and I opted for CS, I never thought I would have to go through labour".</p><p><br /></p><p>"I'm sorry Mom" I said holding her hand.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Taking care of you wasn't easy either Moni. It was my choice to be involved in your life, I wanted to be a mother to you in every way but you were an handful".</p><p><br /></p><p>"I remembered all the stunts I pulled as a child and was sorry for them. If I could go back in time I would choose to be a meek and obedient child; I had no idea that Mom went through a hard time because of me.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Mom?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"It's fine Moni, I have never regretted giving birth to you. I was probably worse when I was your age" She said smiling.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Thanks" I mouthed.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Your Dad was obsessed with having another child which I was against. His Mother started putting pressure on me and I finally gave in when you turned 5. That was when we discovered I can't have another child. I was OK with you because you were enough for me but you Father was devastated"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Dad wanted another child?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Yes, a male preferably. It has nothing to do with his love for you, he was under a bad influence".</p><p><br /></p><p>"What happened?" I said looking at Mom's face.</p><p><br /></p><p>"There was another woman..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"Jesus!"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Moni, I want you to calm down and listen attentively. It all happened in the past and we have moved past that, but if wanting a perfect man like you Dad is the reason you are still single I need to tell you".</p><p><br /></p><p>"How did you find out?" I asked looking devastated. I never imagined in my wildest dream that Dad could do something like that.</p><p><br /></p><p>"You are the reason I found out. If anyone had told me I wouldnt have belived. I noticed he was withdrawing from me, having meetings I knew nothing about, and he stopped getting bothered about us having another child".</p><p><br /></p><p>"I told you? I can't remember something like that happening".</p><p><br /></p><p>"You came to me one day and asked why your Dad loved Auntie Beatrice. Aparently he must have received a call from her in your presence or exposed her texts to you unknowingly".</p><p><br /></p><p>"She's Beatrice? I had a vague memory of reading Dad's text one day. I was playing with his phone and the text came in".</p><p><br /></p><p>"I hired someone to follow him and discovered they had been seeing each other for several months. She was a waitress at one of the hotels where your Dad do hold board meetings".</p><p><br /></p><p>"Jesus! You saw her? Did you confront Dad when you found out?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Not at first, I handled her first".</p><p><br /></p><p>"What did you do to her? You didn't kill her or did you?" I said looking scared.</p><p><br /></p><p>"If I killed her you wont be eating delicious food here; she owns this Eatery" Mom said laughing.</p><p><br /></p><p>I sighed in relief but I was curious, I wanted to know how Mom handled the situation.</p><p><br /></p><p>"So what did you do?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"I traced her. You Dad rented a luxurious apartment for her and bought her a car. I knew I had to act fast. I spoke to our family doctor and learnt she was once pregnant but miscarried the baby".</p><p><br /></p><p>"I can't believe Dad did all these!"</p><p><br /></p><p>"She came back from night shift one morning and I was in her apartment waiting for her. She was from a poor background and was using your father to upgrade her status, I can't understand your Dad's attraction to poor people".</p><p><br /></p><p>"You believe Dad was innocent in all these?" I said in disbelieve. I can't believe I had idolize this man all these years.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I gave her two options: It is either she leaves your Dad and get a nice 'settlement' from me or continue with him and risk being eliminated. I wasn't one of those weak and coward wives. She must have gotten my message and she made a smart choice".</p><p><br /></p><p>"Mom! You would have killed her?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Maybe"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Mom! You were wrong and so was Dad".</p><p><br /></p><p>"Moni, my method might not be conventional but it was effective. If I find a threat in my marriage my first move would be to eliminate it".</p><p><br /></p><p>"How many threat will you eliminate for Dad? He failed as a husband and he should take responsibility!"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Like your Boss' husband? You might find yourself out of job soon, a side chic already took over Abosede's house and she's currently facing divorce".</p><p><br /></p><p>"You mean Margret Thatcher?" I said in disbelief.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Is that what you call her? Abosede was the softest girl I have ever met, she got tough too late".</p><p><br /></p><p>"Jesus! Just wow. How do women put up with philandeering husbands and make excuses for them?" I was getting angry by the minute.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I confronted your Dad after handling Beatrice. He was sorry and promised to change. I told him I won't hesitate to divorce him and go away with you. He told me a friend advised him to get a son through another woman. I realized how much not having a son affected him and I agreed that we can adopt one. That was when we agreed to go for Bobby".</p><p><br /></p><p>"He should have discussed it with you..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"He has been suggesting we adopt a baby even before we had you but I was stubborn. I hired someone to follow him since then and he didn't make any mistake. I didn't let down my guard again; he was playing golf throughout yesterday with a friend at one of their clubs..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"Mom! I can't belief you are doing this".</p><p><br /></p><p>"A man can make mistake Moni, every man has a weak moment".</p><p><br /></p><p>"She's pregnant Mom"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Who?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Steve's girlfriend"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Why didn't you tell me since yesterday? I won't waste my time giving all these lectures. He slept with her without protection? In this age where HIV is everywhere?".</p><p><br /></p><p>"Steve was always careful, she must have forced herself on him at his weak moment or when he was drunk. I don't pity him Mom, I have been warning him about drawing boundaries. Your husband could have gotten HIV too Mom".</p><p><br /></p><p>"Isn't your lunch break over? I have to meet with a friend this evening and want to prepare". She said looking at her watch.</p><p><br /></p><p>"It is. Lets head out Mom" I said standing up.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Want to say hi to your Auntie Beatrice?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Nah! I might strangle her".</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p>To be continued...</p><p><br /></p><p>Don't forget to drop your comment after reading, feel free to use the share icon and share this story via link. Follow the blog so that you'll get notification when I drop another Episode. Episode 6 will be available on Monday.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p>To read free articles/content on relationship and marriage click <a href="http://www.classysinglesworld.blogspot.com">HERE</a></p><p><br /></p><p>DON'T MISS THIS!</p><p>1. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-30-by-sarah-adeniji.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty</a></p><p>2. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-prologue-by-sarah.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty Prologue</a></p><p>3.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-episode-1.html?m=1"> 3 Months to Thirty EP 1</a></p><p>4.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-episode-1.html?m=1"> 3 Months to Thirty EP 2</a></p><p>5. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-episode-3.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty EP 3</a></p><p>6.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/3-months-to-thirty-episode-4.html?m=1"> 3 Months to Thirty EP 4</a></p><p>7. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/why-guys-dump-good-girls.html?m=1">Why Guys Dump Good Girls</a></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>Sarah Subomi Adenijihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04349913382726045386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817817344769762498.post-72198257719884109422023-04-06T15:42:00.003-07:002023-04-10T09:13:51.222-07:00Life Rules Every Lady Must Know Before Marriage<h2 style="text-align: left;"> Unspoken Life Rules Ladies Must Know Before Getting Married</h2><p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiGrICrhummKj6FPMbQxTiad0kqCFFCBDZlrMh_ax7K6NKNJFFmy4UQQ4aHcGPwSA8a91oa8HN5iuOWUlbcAw_yJUFa4mqcd-FXoJQhFpfeaT2txU47LJYWTULt1pQhjpVxmKU91DEUhYmITmsmZHMGzu8PR8RSvGq2eRKHgIDcZiATzA2DH26wbTOW/s6720/gift-habeshaw-FgN7IJCAYvc-unsplash.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="6720" data-original-width="4480" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiGrICrhummKj6FPMbQxTiad0kqCFFCBDZlrMh_ax7K6NKNJFFmy4UQQ4aHcGPwSA8a91oa8HN5iuOWUlbcAw_yJUFa4mqcd-FXoJQhFpfeaT2txU47LJYWTULt1pQhjpVxmKU91DEUhYmITmsmZHMGzu8PR8RSvGq2eRKHgIDcZiATzA2DH26wbTOW/s320/gift-habeshaw-FgN7IJCAYvc-unsplash.jpg" width="213" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Know These Rules before Getting Married </h3><p>If you ignore these rules before getting married you will regret it! Being single is a state you cannot be twice, even if you get married and (God forbid) later divorce that makes you a divorcee and not a single lady again. </p><p><br /></p><p>You are pretty, burden free, and have some precious free time at hand, donât be in a hurry to get married! Follow these rules first:</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Enjoy Now Before Getting Married</h3><p>The first rule is to enjoy your single state before getting married. Learn and know how to have fun on your own and explore your hobbies. Donât live as if you are dead and the right man will just appear to breathe life into you! You are whole; feel and act that way.</p><p><br /></p><p>There is no husband waiting at home, no baby to be breast fed, no kids throwing tantrums, so, kick off your shoes, let down your hair and enjoy now. Now is the time to serve the Lord with all your heart, go to that cinema and watch that movie you are dying to see, have girls day out, go on a picnic and sing on top of your voice. You are free, FREE! Donât ever let this opportunity slide. </p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Build Solid Friendship before Getting Married</h3><p>You need to build solid friendship with the right people before getting married, this is because your husband is not your Siamese twin and will not be attached to your hip all the time. Married life can be lonely sometimes and your husband might not be available to listen to all your worries and stories, or he might be available but not accessible. </p><p>Your husband does not exist for only you in marriage, so, get a dependable, sensible and God-fearing friend you can build a solid and lasting friendship with. You only need one, I repeat ONE! Donât bring all those party girls into your marriage, you might just regret it.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Get Knowledge before Getting Married</h3><p>You need to get knowledge about what marriage entails before getting married. You can only build a solid foundation for your marriage by knowledge, many ladies go into marriage with unrealistic expectations and false perceptions then blame God or their spouse when their marriage become a nightmare.</p><p><br /></p><p> Reading books, attending seminars or lectures and having a married mentor can help. Watching sex tapes will not help you in marriage; it is not all about sex! You canât have sex all day no matter how sexually active both of you are! Know what the deal is all about before signing the papers; go out and get knowledge. </p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Study Your Man before Getting Married</h3><p>Donât make the mistake of thinking that the simple and uncomplicated man wooing you today will always be that way. Donât get carried away by the dating, romance, sweet words and kind gestures; you are looking at a man on a mission! You are spending the rest of your life with the man; take time to know him before getting married to him.</p><p><br /></p><p>Some women get surprised in marriage and make regretful remarks like: âyou are not the man I marriedâ, âhave you always been like this? âHow can I be so blindâ, âyou changed suddenlyâ, âI donât really know youâ, âwho are you reallyâ etc.</p><p><br /></p><p>A sister once told a story of a man who was very romantic and caring while they were dating, they man later turned into an unrepentant womanizer in marriage. The lady was too eager to become his wife, was lured by his over-sweet attitude and by the time her eyes got opened, it was too late!</p><p><br /></p><p>So, are you single now? Enjoy this state and do the right things. It doesnât last forever so have fun but do not forget the things that matter. </p><p><br /></p><p>For comments, kindly use the comment box and donât forget to share this article.</p><p><br /></p><p>To read more articles on relationship/Marriage click <a href="http://www.classysinglesworld.blogspot.com" target="_blank">HERE</a></p><p><br /></p><p>YOU'LL LOVE THESE!!!</p><p>1. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/signs-he-doesnt-love-you-anymore.html?m=1">Signs he doesn't love you anymore</a></p><p>2. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/can-relationship-survive-without-se.html?m=1">Can a relationship survive without sex?</a></p><p>3. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/10-outrageous-qualities-men-want-in.html?m=1">10 Outrageous Qualities Men Want In a Woman</a></p><p>4. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/why-guys-dump-good-girls.html?m=1">Why guys dump good girls</a></p><p>5. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/how-to-be-financially-independent-as.html?m=1">How to be financially independent as a lady</a></p><p>6. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/5-ways-to-manage-menstrual-pains.html?m=1">How to manage menstrual pains without drugs</a></p><p>7. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/secret-of-irresistible-woman.html?m=1">Secret of an irresistible woman</a></p><p>8. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/how-to-know-he-loves-you.html?m=1">How to know he loves you</a></p><p>9. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/signs-you-are-going-crazy.html?m=1">Signs you are going crazy</a></p><p>10. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/bury-your-past-and-get-fresh-start.html?m=1">Bury your past and get a fresh start</a></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>Sarah Subomi Adenijihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04349913382726045386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817817344769762498.post-27798328919448168932023-04-06T05:16:00.002-07:002023-04-10T09:14:56.774-07:00How to be financially independent as a Single Lady<h1 style="text-align: left;"> Do You Wish To Be Little Miss Independent?</h1><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDGo2h479mGieahZUhKrZkakkJjqLa0sw0AfBjjF_QbqEt7sx4LMN8GtysChK-pJDpSt6oV-nLWBL2sTQtQ6p61pX06ea9PDurC9T5y5R2BSO6zM4IXw1rGfkmIxFmdXczQvIOgTVnRaaw6eliUMRHSAuYVxnp4yZeAG4zLXmWEdAEhmpzO1IByQP4/s500/photo-1593182440959-9d5165b29b59.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="333" data-original-width="500" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDGo2h479mGieahZUhKrZkakkJjqLa0sw0AfBjjF_QbqEt7sx4LMN8GtysChK-pJDpSt6oV-nLWBL2sTQtQ6p61pX06ea9PDurC9T5y5R2BSO6zM4IXw1rGfkmIxFmdXczQvIOgTVnRaaw6eliUMRHSAuYVxnp4yZeAG4zLXmWEdAEhmpzO1IByQP4/s320/photo-1593182440959-9d5165b29b59.jpeg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div><br /></div><h3 style="text-align: left;">The Courageous Act of Becoming an Independent Lady</h3><p>Nothing stops a lady from being spiritually, physically, mentally, emotionally and financially whole before marriage. Little Miss independent does not need a man to breathe, she is God-made. She is aware of her potentials and is goal driven. Yes, her man is proud to have her because she complements him. </p><p><br /></p><p>Little Miss independent is an investment and an asset, she is a celebrity and a shining star, and she brings honor to her family. She is like a butterfly: she is beautifully designed and brings happiness wherever she goes. Here is how to become such a woman:</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">To Be Little Miss Independent Know Yourself</h3><p>Knowledge is power, know your weakness and your strength and work on them. You have what it takes to make it; you just havenât discovered it yet. What do you know how to do best? That is your ticket to being little Miss independent! And your claim to stardom! </p><p><br /></p><p>Nobody is born empty; you are born to be great, greatness is in you! If anybody says you cannot amount to anything in life, donât believe them! They donât know better. If you are not sure ask your parent, trusted friends and your man. They know that thing they can always trust you to do well. Dig it out and pursue it.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">To be Little Miss independent Follow Your Passion</h3><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgklnx1IEV_G4OYD_88Ngx4D2EDINZCIPGDax1FRn6_1h-P8oblDKNuHrM7F9cLcszzAdfwEI6Efdf2s2qwRIycbt3VInZ86bvtN-cybCIIsrSUrmTOOsVPxVB5xh2zv9NNWNnArxqrZvBTSqB3lawRfoTMV8eE3Ufhy-7zyRO327BcPzenHpGok4tK/s509/images%20(23).jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="339" data-original-width="509" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgklnx1IEV_G4OYD_88Ngx4D2EDINZCIPGDax1FRn6_1h-P8oblDKNuHrM7F9cLcszzAdfwEI6Efdf2s2qwRIycbt3VInZ86bvtN-cybCIIsrSUrmTOOsVPxVB5xh2zv9NNWNnArxqrZvBTSqB3lawRfoTMV8eE3Ufhy-7zyRO327BcPzenHpGok4tK/s320/images%20(23).jpeg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><p>The truth is that it is easier to take the job you donât enjoy than to follow your passion; it is also more lucrative but less satisfying. Donât be afraid to follow your passion and live a fulfilled life, it will lead you to the limelight: donât be afraid to do what you love doing. </p><p><br /></p><p>Little Miss independent is not money driven; success is not about how much you have in your account. She follows her passion and does what she loves doing best! She then has a financial plan that will fetch her money from it. </p><p><br /></p><p>Help will come if you start now, God will send destiny helpers. Donât allow your passion to die just because you are in a relationship it is not healthy.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">To Be Little Miss independent Watch Your Attitude</h3><p>What is your attitude towards life? How do you treat people? What is your attitude towards success, failure and being independent? Your attitude will go a long way to determine your altitude in life. </p><p><br /></p><p>There is no height you cannot reach as little Miss independent; the world is waiting to celebrate you but you need the right attitude or you will ruin it. Life will give you what you deserve, so, donât be afraid to try things and fail. Failure means you havenât succeeded yet, it doesnât mean you have been defeated.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;"> To Be Little Miss independent Set Goals</h3><p>To be little Miss independent Take charge of your destiny now! Plan your life and set goals. Have vision for your life, set out to achieve it by drawing a plan. Write out what you want to achieve before marriage and take actions to achieve it. Donât go into marriage empty handed and empty headed! Donât be afraid to pursue your goals and have ambition, your man will understand and cheer you on. If he doesnât encourage you, maybe he is not the one.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">To Be Little Miss independent Manage Your Time and Money</h3><div><br /></div><p>Little Miss independent does not spend time sleeping too much or have time for idle gossips. She is always ahead of her mates because she manages her time well. She doesnât procrastinate so she gets things done in time. </p><p><br /></p><p>Little Miss independent does not go on a binge because she is investing in her future. She doesnât spend all her savings on clothes, jewelries and accessories because she is using her extra cash to build her dream.</p><p><br /></p><p>You are not a slave in life, you are a queen; the future wife of a king. He needs you to be strong to stay by his side so be confident. You are born to rule, your man will not take less and to settle for less is an insult to your maker. You are born to be little Miss independent. </p><p><br /></p><p>For comments, kindly use the comment box. Donât forget to share this article! </p><p>To read more articles about Life, relationship, and Marriage click <a href="http://www.classysinglesworld.blogspot.com" target="_blank">HERE</a></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p>YOU'LL LOVE THESE!!!</p><p>1. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/signs-he-doesnt-love-you-anymore.html?m=1">Signs he doesn't love you anymore</a></p><p>2. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/can-relationship-survive-without-se.html?m=1">Can a relationship survive without sex?</a></p><p>3. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/10-outrageous-qualities-men-want-in.html?m=1">10 Outrageous Qualities Men Want In a Woman</a></p><p>4. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/why-guys-dump-good-girls.html?m=1">Why guys dump good girls</a></p><p>5. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/how-to-be-financially-independent-as.html?m=1">How to be financially independent as a lady</a></p><p>6. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/5-ways-to-manage-menstrual-pains.html?m=1">How to manage menstrual pains without drugs</a></p><p>7. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/secret-of-irresistible-woman.html?m=1">Secret of an irresistible woman</a></p><p>8. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/how-to-know-he-loves-you.html?m=1">How to know he loves you</a></p><p>9. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/signs-you-are-going-crazy.html?m=1">Signs you are going crazy</a></p><p>10. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/bury-your-past-and-get-fresh-start.html?m=1">Bury your past and get a fresh start</a></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>Sarah Subomi Adenijihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04349913382726045386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817817344769762498.post-27115617928058413912023-04-06T03:34:00.002-07:002023-04-10T09:16:02.562-07:00Bury Your Past and Get a Fresh Start<h2 style="text-align: left;">How to Let Go Of Past Pains and Get a Fresh Start</h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_3X4t6PgFL0NrNLp3a032pqVlL2XZ4G-vFZHoGSdk9WD4ax3lEsU5Qopv_5iEKgvKZ7j03EiqwW_MTKouiMJJxQOEyRGizIjRGXfA1KYer4YriuHaRoe8RGunQpWHv-ZxjWqOSZrttArq7-PO8QmEL9dhvrYEN1bXcSKv0RD7GXX3WMM_Vpcgm6_l/s500/photo-1460904577954-8fadb262612c.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="266" data-original-width="500" height="170" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_3X4t6PgFL0NrNLp3a032pqVlL2XZ4G-vFZHoGSdk9WD4ax3lEsU5Qopv_5iEKgvKZ7j03EiqwW_MTKouiMJJxQOEyRGizIjRGXfA1KYer4YriuHaRoe8RGunQpWHv-ZxjWqOSZrttArq7-PO8QmEL9dhvrYEN1bXcSKv0RD7GXX3WMM_Vpcgm6_l/s320/photo-1460904577954-8fadb262612c.jpeg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><p>Do you find yourself stuck in the past and getting a fresh start seems impossible? You are not alone; almost all of us have been in that situation before.</p><p><br /></p><p>Yes, many successful people have a past that sucks, what made them successful is their ability to pull through and get a fresh start. If Oprah Winfrey can do it, if Joyce Meyer can do it, if Juanita Bynum can do it, you can too. I know it wonât be easy but if you have the will I will show you the way.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Everyone Has a Ghost to Bury</h3><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOkkyd2o5VgTgxY1iZstFMd8P0RwzqFKC_lR6um2fHJlTCxkuZkHf7h0PHlsa5AQjABevIP0hqAerbmFtz3UGl02pMemEi7VffY1lLZcaQLFTK8-icKWV21XhtIAKpGCjWbFK27OoWlxlk7JziCwnbQ6FxCk-Dk5UH6DD7hMow0wMl1DIh86rv-HnM/s500/photo-1465145498025-928c7a71cab9.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="333" data-original-width="500" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOkkyd2o5VgTgxY1iZstFMd8P0RwzqFKC_lR6um2fHJlTCxkuZkHf7h0PHlsa5AQjABevIP0hqAerbmFtz3UGl02pMemEi7VffY1lLZcaQLFTK8-icKWV21XhtIAKpGCjWbFK27OoWlxlk7JziCwnbQ6FxCk-Dk5UH6DD7hMow0wMl1DIh86rv-HnM/s320/photo-1465145498025-928c7a71cab9.jpeg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div><br /></div><p>Forget about all the smiling faces you see every day, many of them are masks, a camouflage; if only you can see the wound and scars they carry inside.</p><p><br /></p><p>Many people find themselves stuck in the past, for some, it overwhelm them and moving on become almost impossible. So they pretend, show the world a smiling face in the day and cry at night. They want that fresh start, they want that ghost buried, but they donât know how to do it.</p><p><br /></p><p>Whether you find it difficult to forget an abusive partner or cannot bury a failed relationship or yours is a betrayal wound that refuses to heal, there is hope for you and you can still let go of your pains and get a fresh start. </p><p><br /></p><p>Keep the ghost from resurrecting is simple; you just have to nail it to the coffin. Yeah, it is possible and this is the real thing, think you can muster the strength? Can you reach for that thing you have always wanted with both hands? Here is how to get that fresh start:</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">To Get a Fresh Start: Forgive First</h3><p>Sometimes it is bitterness that weighs you down and few times it is the guilt of what we have done to others. You have to forgive to get that fresh start you have always wanted. </p><p><br /></p><p>The first step in the healing process is to forgive whoever has wronged you. You also need to seek for forgiveness if necessary. The most important person that needs forgiveness is yourself, forgive the old you and embrace Godâs forgiveness too. Think you can do that?</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">To Get a Fresh Start: Accept That You Are Not the Same</h3><p>You are not the same girl that got raped, you are not the same guy that got betrayed by the girl you spent all your savings on, you are not the same girl whose best friend stole her fiancĂ©, you are not the same girl that got abused by someone she loved, you are not the same guy that was brutal in the past!</p><p><br /></p><p> You need to accept this to move on. Accept that you are a different person now, you are older and wiser and you are better than who you used to be .if such thing ever reoccur it will be because you allow it not because you canât help it. You are stronger and wiser. You have to truly believe this to get that fresh start.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">To Get a Fresh Start: Celebrate Now and Celebrate You</h3><p>The past is gone dear, today is a Present, treat it that way! Today is Godâs gift accept and celebrate it! Yes celebrate Today and the strong you that has made it this far.</p><p><br /></p><p> Yes, you are someone to be admired, you have gone through thick and thin without collapsing, you have come this far and can proceed further! And since you are burying the hurt, pain, shame, betrayed, sorrow, and anguish you need to hold a burial, nail those ghosts hard with your conviction and then go out and celebrate.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">To Get a Fresh Start: Move On, a Step at a Time</h3><p>Once you have buried your past it is time to get a fresh start, walk away from the grave! Donât spend all of your time mourning, time is precious! Donât cling to the pain like a life jacket; you will regret it.</p><p><br /></p><p> Donât mourn now; you have done that in the past. Now is the time to move on, concentrate on improving you, learn a new skill and pamper yourself silly.</p><p><br /></p><p> Your legs will take time to be strong and steady so donât start with a run; take a small and sure step. If you have been hurt in the past, open your heart to someone else slowly. Start with a smile and before you know it, it will graduate into a laugh.</p><p><br /></p><p>Starting from now, start taking deliberate steps to nail that ghost to the grave and bury it permanently. Be bold enough to get that fresh start you need to be whole again. </p><p><br /></p><p>For suggestions and comments, kindly use the comment box. Donât forget to share this article!</p><p>To read more articles on relationship/Marriage click <a href="http://www.classysinglesworld.blogspot.com" target="_blank">HERE</a></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p>YOU'LL LOVE THESE!!!</p><p>1. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/signs-he-doesnt-love-you-anymore.html?m=1">Signs he doesn't love you anymore</a></p><p>2. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/can-relationship-survive-without-se.html?m=1">Can a relationship survive without sex?</a></p><p>3. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/10-outrageous-qualities-men-want-in.html?m=1">10 Outrageous Qualities Men Want In a Woman</a></p><p>4. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/why-guys-dump-good-girls.html?m=1">Why guys dump good girls</a></p><p>5. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/how-to-be-financially-independent-as.html?m=1">How to be financially independent as a lady</a></p><p>6. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/5-ways-to-manage-menstrual-pains.html?m=1">How to manage menstrual pains without drugs</a></p><p>7. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/secret-of-irresistible-woman.html?m=1">Secret of an irresistible woman</a></p><p>8. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/how-to-know-he-loves-you.html?m=1">How to know he loves you</a></p><p>9. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/signs-you-are-going-crazy.html?m=1">Signs you are going crazy</a></p><p>10. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/bury-your-past-and-get-fresh-start.html?m=1">Bury your past and get a fresh start</a></p><p><br /></p><br />Sarah Subomi Adenijihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04349913382726045386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817817344769762498.post-13554607263914197362023-04-06T02:32:00.009-07:002023-04-10T09:19:37.747-07:003 Months to Thirty Episode 4<h2 style="text-align: left;">3 MONTHS TO THIRTY by Sarah Adeniji</h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHRAsuqF2MDAarxngox69qeG7hS-E1Lw22WLXHZobHS9s2_zCYH_w2cKLsbeoZl_Olfyo7C52lOKsBvzqv8ZClY-C92LK3vXhvQr4s1gskhhx19zOVOOwYMAqK64SRnlybASOcn6JdDmxLYyokPAeXOaKcC_vXf8y8EM_RyhwtCjv2hncMixYBpgEk/s1080/3%20Months%20to%2030%20Episode%204.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="1080" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHRAsuqF2MDAarxngox69qeG7hS-E1Lw22WLXHZobHS9s2_zCYH_w2cKLsbeoZl_Olfyo7C52lOKsBvzqv8ZClY-C92LK3vXhvQr4s1gskhhx19zOVOOwYMAqK64SRnlybASOcn6JdDmxLYyokPAeXOaKcC_vXf8y8EM_RyhwtCjv2hncMixYBpgEk/s320/3%20Months%20to%2030%20Episode%204.png" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div><br /></div><h3 style="text-align: left;"><u>EPISODE 4</u></h3><h3 style="text-align: left;"><u>A FOOL FOR LOVE</u></h3><p>Dear Diary, I slept early on Tuesday night because of the stress I went through following Eva everywhere. I called Margret Thatcher and gave her an update immediately I finished with Eva.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Hello Mrs"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Yes MJ"</p><p><br /></p><p>"She signed the proposal, 50 million naira budget with all its accompanying perks" I said with as much excitement as I could muster.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Good job MJ! You can take half day off and resume by 12Noon tomorrow. Start working on the second bride immediately, she asked for a meeting on Thursday".</p><p><br /></p><p>"Yes Mrs" I said and ended the call.</p><p><br /></p><p>I had a light dinner last night and soaked myself in the Jacuzzi for about an hour. I allowed my skin to assimilate all the essential oils I bathed with.</p><p><br /></p><p>A call woke me up by 6:00AM, I checked the number and could not recognize it. I don't usually pick up calls from unknown numbers but this one was insistent.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Hello who is this?" I groaned.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Monalisa"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Steve?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"MJ please, don't disconnect the call" he said pleadingly.</p><p><br /></p><p>"What do you want?" I hissed angrily.</p><p><br /></p><p>"It has always been you MJ, I wish you hadn't left. Remi was a mistake, she's choking life out of me" he whimpered.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Steve, you made your choice..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"Maybe if you hadn't left, maybe I wouldn't have made that mistake"</p><p><br /></p><p>"So I'm the reason you slept with Remi? Great!" I said and ended the call.</p><p><br /></p><p>I sat up and checked the time before making my way to the bathroom. I washed my face and walked back to the room to say my prayers. I felt this yearning in my spirit since I had the dream 4 days ago.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Dear God, thank you for another day. Please help me to make the best of today and don't forget the man you promised to send. Amen."</p><p><br /></p><p><i>"What if Steve is the man? He made you happy and you were about to get engaged.</i>.." An errant voice whispered.</p><p><br /></p><p>"It can never be Steve" I said firmly and stood up.</p><p><br /></p><p>I intended to enjoy the few hours I have before I have to prepare for work and one of the things I planned to do is call Bobby. It has been almost a week since I heard from my baby brother and I missed him greatly.</p><p><br /></p><p>I walked into my sitting room to fix myself a cup of coffee. After getting a cup into my stomach I dialed Bobby's line.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Hello Kiddo"</p><p><br /></p><p>"MJ, it's too early"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Its past 6:00AM, don't tell me you are still sleeping"</p><p><br /></p><p>"We held a group tutorial last night and I was awake till 2:00AM"</p><p><br /></p><p>"You don't have to read that hard, you are already a bright boy" I said smiling.</p><p><br /></p><p>"MJ, I have to read. Bambo said same thing last night, I don't know why all the women in my life think I'm a genius". He laughed.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Who's Bambo?" I asked getting curious.</p><p><br /></p><p>"My girlfriend"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Jesus Bobby! I thought it was Sonia!"</p><p><br /></p><p>"I broke up with her, she does not understand me. A man needs a woman that can take all his shits, Sonia wants to change me"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Bobby, Isn't that what we do? Change for the people we love?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"My Sister is calling early in the morning to give me relationship advice. Isn't that great!" I can picture him rolling his eyes.</p><p><br /></p><p>"When are you coming home? I miss you" I said slowly.</p><p><br /></p><p>"In about two months. I have to prepare for class MJ".</p><p><br /></p><p>"Ok! Love you Kiddo"</p><p><br /></p><p>"You are going to love Bambo Sis. Love you too". He said and disconnected the call.</p><p><br /></p><p>I thought about what Bobby said and I remembered Steve. He wanted me to take all his shits too: he wanted me to love him the way he was and never attempt to change him.</p><p><br /></p><p>It all happened about 3 years ago on a Saturday, I was watching fashion show on TV when Margret Thatcher's call came in.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Hello Mrs"</p><p><br /></p><p>"MJ, On Site! Call Susan for details" she said and ended the call.</p><p><br /></p><p>Susan filled me in and I was fuming with anger when she was done. Apparently, the owner of the hall we booked for the wedding has a son that was into Hip Hop and he insisted he has to sing before the live band we paid for.</p><p><br /></p><p>I was fully worked up when I drove to the venue, the reception had been delayed for an hour and half before I got there. I met Susan at the gate waiting for me.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Where is he?" I screamed.</p><p><br /></p><p>She walked me to the venue and I met the bride already crying, the groom was really angry.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Let me resolve this please, just give me 30 minutes and you can have your beautiful party. Don't cry, you are ruining your makeup" I said to the bride with a reassuring smile.</p><p><br /></p><p>I spotted him before he saw me; he was wearing a formidable look and two armed guards followed him. I was the one that booked the venue, he had collected the 15M we paid and didnt stick to the agreement.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Mr Wade? I said and matched towards him.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Yes" he said looking angry.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I heard there has been a problem, and I'm here to resolve it" I said calmly.</p><p><br /></p><p>"It is our protocol here; Wande Happen Bobo has to sing before any musician. We own here and that's how we do our things" he said angrily.</p><p><br /></p><p>"We have a contract..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"Didn't you hear me? Are you deaf? I said that's how we do our things. Call your boss, your company should not send a small girl here to talk to me" He was looking irritated.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Do we have a contract with your crazy son? Did we book him to sing at this event? If his Warri Nonsense Song is so good we would have been running after him to book him. What crazy condition is this?" I said angrily.</p><p><br /></p><p>"His name is Wande Happen Bobo, you must have heard his songs because he's an international brand. You are rude young lady! You don't have an iota of manners!"</p><p><br /></p><p>I brought out my phone and dialed a number immediately "Is this Segun & Sons law firm? Put Lawyer Mathew on the line" I waited patiently to be connected to the young lawyer.</p><p><br /></p><p>"You are mannerless, see how this small thing is talking to me? Call security!" He raged.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Hello Lawyer Mathew, this is MJ from Pure Havens. We have a problem here, the owner of the venue violated the terms of our agreement. We are supposed to have a peaceful party here after booking his hall for 15M, he wants his sorry son to sing. He has been delaying the reception for over 2 hours now! How much can we sue for breach of agreement" I listened to Lawyer Matt explaining the terms of agreement and I was livid.</p><p><br /></p><p>"A miserly 80M? Our client paid 70M for us to put together this wedding they better pay that too! How much for the psychological trauma they caused the bride? 30M? That's crazy. So we can't get more than 200M from them? Do we get to sue whether their stupid son sing or not? Great! Send them a letter first thing on Monday morning, I'll send you soft copy of the agreement now" I ended the call and saw him looking morose.</p><p><br /></p><p>"You are so stubborn, we could have settled this long ago..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"I'm not done with you! If your Warriden Born son climb that stage I'm suing both of you! 200M for breach of agreement, 200M for psychological damage, 200M compensation returned to the bride's family because you made us breach our agreement with them, additional 100M for soiling the image of our brand. By the time I'm done suing you'll sell all your damn investment..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"You don't know how to talk! Your company has no reputation and I don't want my son to ruin his reputation by singing at your useless party. We refuse to collaborate with you! You can have your party, but if you dare spoil any of my Properties I'll be the one suing this time around" </p><p><br /></p><p>"News Flash! We don't want to use your property again, we want to sue!" I shouted in return.</p><p><br /></p><p>People began to gather and before I knew it I became a celebrity and some of the guests started hailing me.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I love that woman! She's a hot chick" I heard a man utter and then I saw him walk towards me, six feet tall and handsome.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Monalisa"</p><p><br /></p><p>I was completely swept away by his charming accent.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I'm MJ" I said when I found my voice and clutched his extended hand.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Thank you! The hall manager settled with the groom and we can now hold the reception. He even offered to pay us a small compensation for the delay. You must have made a good impression on him" he said smiling.</p><p><br /></p><p>"He's such a coward" </p><p><br /></p><p>"I like a woman with so much fire in her. MJ are you leaving anytime soon?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"No" I said against my better judgement.</p><p><br /></p><p>He was the best man and I ended up waiting around for another three hours before he could break away from the myriads of women holding unto his jacket. We exchanged contacts after a brief discussion and he promised to call.</p><p><br /></p><p>He was a marketing manager at an advertising company, and he loved his job. He treated me with utmost respect and showered all the affection I wanted on me but I was terribly insecure. He didn't know how to draw boundaries and didn't try; when I discovered that he had about ten girlfriends who he had been intimate with at one time or the other still holding on to him I had a serious conversation with him.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Steve, this is not right. You are giving these women a wrong signal; you have to stop being familiar with them"</p><p><br /></p><p>"MJ, you are talking to the wrong person. They are the one calling me and holding on to me, you are the only woman in my life"</p><p><br /></p><p>"But you didn't do anything about it! You didn't ask them to stop calling and visiting you!" I said in frustration.</p><p><br /></p><p>"You want me to throw them out of my apartment or block them? That is harsh MJ! I can't believe this is coming from you".</p><p><br /></p><p>"They still want you, are you sleeping with anyone of them?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Maybe before I met you but not anymore. Those women knew what they wanted when they started chasing me all around; I am a man with blood running through my veins" He said pleadingly.</p><p><br /></p><p>"What about Victoria? The girl that is all over you in the office. She brings lunch for you everyday from her home! How do you want me to feel?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Don't tell me you are insecure MJ! All these women know you and respect you. She's just my office girlfriend, there is no string attached to our relationship" he said coldly.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Victoria is your office girlfriend? Can you hear yourself Steve?" I shouted angrily.</p><p><br /></p><p>"This is me MJ, I didn't ask for any of these and it's not my fault these women find me irresistible. Just endure until we get married and they'll leave on their own" he pleaded.</p><p><br /></p><p>I loved Steve and I tried to endure, It affected my self-esteem terribly because I had to spend so much time looking more gorgeous. The thought of whether Steve was sleeping with them or not drove me crazy.</p><p><br /></p><p>Then one day I went visiting and I saw Remi. She was so young; probably in her early twenties. She was wearing a nice bum short and preparing Steve's lunch when I got there that weekend.</p><p><br /></p><p>Steve gave me a brief hug when I entered and introduced her.</p><p>"MJ meet Remi my school Daughter in college, Remi meet MJ my fiancee"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Nice to meet you Auntie MJ!" Remi said showing excitement but I knew her smiles were fake.</p><p><br /></p><p>She kept coming every weekend until I was forced to call Steve's attention to her frequent visit.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Steve, I am not comfortable with Remi being around your house every weekend"</p><p><br /></p><p>"MJ! Don't tell me you are feeling insecure about Remi; the girl is still a child" he said looking mortified.</p><p><br /></p><p>"A child? How old is she? You are just 32 and she should be around 25..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"She's 23; she'll be 24 this year" he said coldly.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Jesus! Can you hear yourself? You have just 8 years age difference and she's your daughter?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"MJ, I can't believe we are having this conversation. You think I'm attracted to her? You are making me look as if I'm a womanizer".</p><p><br /></p><p>"I don't want her spending the weekend in your apartment again" I said angrily.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I'm sorry MJ, I can't stop her. You are free to tell her to stop coming if she makes you insecure" he stood up angrily.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Why should I be the one to do it? Where are you going? We are not done with this conversation!"</p><p><br /></p><p>"I'm done talking about this. I thought you are a confident and secure woman, and you are comfortable being yourself. I don't know this is just a facade! You are jealous, insecure, and over protective!" He shouted.</p><p><br /></p><p>I tried to control my emotion but I was terribly hurt. I never imagined we could hurt each other like this.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I need a break Steve, I can't do this anymore" I said trying not to cry.</p><p><br /></p><p>"MJ! Don't tell me you are going to break up with me over this silly conversation. I'm sorry, let's just forget it"</p><p><br /></p><p>"No, I don't want to forget it!" I said and stood up abruptly.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Are you sure about this? You know you are one I ever wanted, don't do this to me" he said looking hurt.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Don't call me!" I said and walked away with tears in my eyes.</p><p><br /></p><p>I didn't talk to him or call him for a week and I missed him terribly. I knew I didn't want him to mess up with my head and the relationship was causing me so much emotional pain. I found myself driving to his apartment the following Saturday just to say hi, I convinced myself I just wanted to pick some things I left in his apartment.</p><p><br /></p><p>I rang the door bell and she came out of his apartment wearing a bikini bra and tying a small towel.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Hi Remi, is Steve around"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Hi MJ, he's not around" she said looking sassy. She closed the door behind her and stood at the door.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I came to pick some of my things..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"Steve will bring them to you, you can't enter our apartment"</p><p><br /></p><p>"What do you mean?" I said in shock.</p><p><br /></p><p>"My boyfriend does not want to see you" she said folding her arms.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Steve is your boyfriend?" I said in surprise.</p><p><br /></p><p>"You didn't want him again so he came to me. You are not welcome here" she said and locked the door.</p><p><br /></p><p>I stood by the door several minutes after, I could hear Steve's voice from inside asking who was at the door and she said "An Intruder". I blocked Steve from reaching me and never called him again; that was 6 months ago.</p><p><br /></p><p>I heard the sound of someone knocking and opened the door for Mom.</p><p><br /></p><p>"MoniJesu"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Good Morning mom" I said trying to avoid her gaze.</p><p><br /></p><p>"What happened? Why are you looking like this"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Nothing mom, I'm fine" I said still avoiding her gaze.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Are you sure? Did your boss scold you?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"No Mom, Steve called me this morning"</p><p><br /></p><p>She sat facing me at the dinning table.</p><p><br /></p><p>"This your Steve, it is obvious you still love each other"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Love is not everything Mom, he's not good for me" </p><p><br /></p><p>"He makes you happy MJ, I see happiness in your heart when you are with him. Can you give him another chance?" </p><p><br /></p><p>"He's not what I want Mom. I cant look the other way when he's with other women. There is no way I'll take him back" I said looking pained.</p><p><br /></p><p>"We are all fool for love MJ, love makes a fool out of us all"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Mom, not me. I don't want to be that kind of woman. I want to get married to a Faithful man like Dad; he practically worship you and can't bear to look at another woman. Daddy is the perfect model for me, I can't settle for less"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Your Dad isn't perfect Moni" Mom said with a solemn look.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I know, but he's Faithful. I have been watching both of you for years. This is why I can't settle for less; I want the type of security and peace of mind you have" I said as a matter of fact.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Is that why you have been like this all these years? Take a break tomorrow by noon so that we can have lunch together" Mom said slowly.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Where are we going?" I asked getting curious.</p><p><br /></p><p>"To bring back you sense" she said tapping my head gently.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p>To be continued...</p><p><br /></p><p>Don't forget to drop your comment after reading, feel free to use the share icon and share this story via link. Follow the blog so that you'll get notification when I drop another Episode. Episode 5 will be available on Friday.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p>To read free articles/content on relationship and marriage click <a href="http://www.classysinglesworld.blogspot.com" target="_blank">HERE</a></p><p><br /></p><p>DON'T MISS THIS!</p><p>1. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-30-by-sarah-adeniji.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty</a></p><p>2. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-prologue-by-sarah.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty Prologue</a></p><p>3.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-episode-1.html?m=1"> 3 Months to Thirty EP 1</a></p><p>4.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-episode-1.html?m=1"> 3 Months to Thirty EP 2</a></p><p>5. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-episode-3.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty EP 3</a></p><p>6.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/3-months-to-thirty-episode-4.html?m=1"> 3 Months to Thirty EP 4</a></p><p>7. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/3-months-to-thirty-episode-5.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty EP 5</a></p><p>8. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/why-guys-dump-good-girls.html?m=1">Why Guys Dump Good Girls</a></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>Sarah Subomi Adenijihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04349913382726045386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817817344769762498.post-75296309053320714702023-04-03T04:59:00.006-07:002023-04-10T09:20:27.190-07:003 Months to Thirty Episode 3<h2 style="text-align: left;"> 3 Months to Thirty by Sarah Adeniji</h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgWxJxzZPOOYikK8XcWxzeBdlReHBi66U16xKf5dhYAiQ09gCxZcjLDZvyQpiUDnuiq17JQoUioFN8E7zvsu9OL3R_lLC43K3cbQR8keOtdSl8r0JDD-HX5Fj1_S2cIeCr05fUhOFFfuRu-thjMcopjNpCrKtRJMHkxHfKMDFdDgdmoG70nfurZeLAu/s1080/Fashion%20Sale%20Minimalist%20Instagram%20Post%20(6).png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="1080" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgWxJxzZPOOYikK8XcWxzeBdlReHBi66U16xKf5dhYAiQ09gCxZcjLDZvyQpiUDnuiq17JQoUioFN8E7zvsu9OL3R_lLC43K3cbQR8keOtdSl8r0JDD-HX5Fj1_S2cIeCr05fUhOFFfuRu-thjMcopjNpCrKtRJMHkxHfKMDFdDgdmoG70nfurZeLAu/s320/Fashion%20Sale%20Minimalist%20Instagram%20Post%20(6).png" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p><h2 style="text-align: left;"> EPISODE 3 </h2><h3 style="text-align: left;"><u>ALL MEN CHEAT? IT RAINS EVERYWHERE</u></h3><p><br /></p><p>Dear Diary, I woke up on Tuesday morning with a renewed energy. When I finished dressing up I looked myself in my full length mirror and took my morning resolution. "MJ you are a queen and you deserve all the happiness you want, you are not setting for less when you can have more". I made myself a cup of hot tea and munched on two slices of bread before stepping out of my apartment by some minutes heading to 7:00AM.</p><p><br /></p><p>Fatima brought my food last night and proceeded to bore me with endless chatter; I completely forgot about Steve but the consequence was a terrible headache after she left. Mom called to tell me we'll have our conversation the next day and I almost fell asleep while on the phone.</p><p><br /></p><p>I was driving when a call came in, I checked the caller and it was Suzie my best friend; she's the only one that can call me at odd hours at night or very early in the morning. I put on my earpiece and slowed down my driving.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Morning Babe'</p><p><br /></p><p>"MJ! I'm going to sue you, you won't get away with this I swear"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Easy Babe" I smiled.</p><p><br /></p><p>"You went incommunicado and practically dropped from the surface of the earth. You practically shut me out!"</p><p><br /></p><p>"I know and I'm sorry. Suzie I was having a difficult time..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"And you shut out your best friend? Are you sure you are OK now?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Yes! I know you'll understand"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Not so fast! I'm not letting you off the hook yet"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Get your lawyer to bring the papers. I won't put up much fight at the court I promise"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Your father has a lot of money, I should milk you dry. You are so mean Queen Bee"</p><p><br /></p><p>"I know! I know! How was yesterday?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Crazy! I'm giving up this job so that I can get married. I was going to call you last night but I was dead tired before afternoon. I want to be fat and lazy in my next life, I'll sit on a chair all day and won't even make any effort to get out of bed. I have been on the road since 6:00AM" she complained.</p><p><br /></p><p>"You know you don't have to work Suzie, you have millions of naira sitting in your account"</p><p><br /></p><p>"MJ, I have to make more. How about we meet for lunch this weekend? I already know you don't have a boyfriend and don't have plans for Saturdays"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Suzie! Same with you. Taking about boyfriends I called Steve last night"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Jesus! MJ you shouldn't have done that. I really admired you for the way you stood your ground after the breakup"</p><p><br /></p><p>"It was a very stupid thing to do Suzie, I regretted it. He didn't pick and guess who called me back?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Steve?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"No! Remi. She was like 'Steve's fiancee speaking'. She then proceeded to read the riot act to me, asking me to stay away from her man"</p><p><br /></p><p>"That Babe is crazy I swear! Did I tell you I saw her at the mall some days back? She's pregnant MJ"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Jesus! Steve could have done better"</p><p><br /></p><p>"She's one desperate, mean bitxx. I blame you for this MJ, you went soft on Steve. You broke all the rules, I couldn't recognize you! You practically went from Queen Bee to Queen Butterfly".</p><p><br /></p><p>"No kidding Suzie I love this man. I probably still do, he was good for me. You are blaming me for being soft now guess who was saying 'It's not his fault girls found him irresistible?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"MJ, I wanted it to work out because he made you happy. Why are we even discussing this? It's early in the morning and I called to give you early morning boost".</p><p><br /></p><p>"It's fine Suzie, I gave it my best shot. It's his loss; he'll never meet another queen like MJ"</p><p><br /></p><p>"That's the spirit girl! Greet Margret Thatcher for me, tell her I'm a fan"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Fan Suzie! A Margret Thatcher in the making"</p><p><br /></p><p>"MJ that woman is pretty strong, if you hear her story you'll admire her. The gossip column..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"I'm close to the office now Babe, let me call you later" I cut in.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I'm about to drop the juicest gist of the century, well it's your loss. Start looking for an alternative job MJ, you may find yourself out of job soon with what's going on in her life right now..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"Really? Suzie why are you just telling me this? You know something I don't..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"Bye MJ, you are close to the office" Suzie said and dropped the call.</p><p><br /></p><p>Suzie can be mean and vindictive at times but she's the best thing that has ever happened to me when it comes to friendship. We've been friends for close to 6 years.</p><p><br /></p><p>I parked my car at my usual spot and walked into the elevator, there was cold breeze outside and it looked as if it was going to rain soon.</p><p><br /></p><p>I was engrossed in the files before me till around 10:00AM. I studied the profiles of all the brides and they were all below 25. "MJ you are an old maid, you are already about 5 years late".</p><p><br /></p><p>I have an appointment with one of the brides by 3:00PM today, she choose the restaurant and it was an expensive one. The company usually pick up the bills when I'm out on business lunch or dinner with a client, I am not a voracious eater but I intend to enjoy myself today.</p><p><br /></p><p>Margret Thatcher came in around 10:30AM looking immaculate and gorgeous, not a pin was out of place. She's a beautiful woman and she knows how to dress the part of a rich man's wife. She is probably worth billions and still counting. She looked as if she was trying to fight her age, she had gone for plastic surgery before I joined the office and the result was the face of a thirty year old and the body of a woman in her early sixties.</p><p><br /></p><p>"My phone rang several minutes after she settled down.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Hello MJ, come to my office with Eva Akpabio's file".</p><p><br /></p><p>I entered her office about 5 minutes later clutching the file.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Sit"</p><p><br /></p><p>I sat down on the soft cushion and sighed at its comforting embrace.</p><p><br /></p><p>"You are really looking pretty today, I love the way you always look chic and expensive. You are the image of our brand"</p><p><br /></p><p>Margret Thatcher is not one to roll out compliments easily so I know she's trying to butter me up for something.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Thank you for the compliment MRS"</p><p><br /></p><p>"You're welcome dear. Have you studied her file?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Yes Mrs"</p><p><br /></p><p>"She's getting married to her millionaire boyfriend and wants to have the wedding of her dreams. I heard from the grapevine that she's pregnant but you are not to mention that unless she brings it up"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Yes Mrs"</p><p><br /></p><p>"The company will pay for your lunch since you are going there to represent me. She's not on a budget, we can make more money from her. She wants to have a pepper them wedding, this woman is practically giving us a blank cheque!"</p><p><br /></p><p>I saw the excitement in her voice and knew how much the deal meant to her. "I'll do my best Mrs"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Agree to whatever she says and compliment her on everything. The groom to be is a playboy and she's suffering from low self esteem"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Maybe..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"MJ! If you ruin this deal by dishing out unsolicited relationship advice I won't forgive you."</p><p><br /></p><p>"Yes Mrs. I have been thinking about what you said yesterday, women ought to take their time to live their dreams..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"Forget that MJ! That's just nonsense I was saying so that you can snap back to your senses. Early Marriage is actually good for a woman's self esteem. I mean look at me! I got married to the man of my dreams at 23!!! A woman is like a flower you know, we have to make haste while we bloom"</p><p><br /></p><p><i>"I get it! Everyone should get married exept poor MJ so that she can make more money for the company"</i></p><p><i><br /></i></p><p>"Yes Mrs" </p><p><br /></p><p>I got out of the office and started gathering more information about the bride, by the time it was 2:00PM I have a budget of about 50 million waiting for her and planned to do anything to make her agree to it.</p><p><br /></p><p>It was drizzling when I got into my car and headed for the Chinese restaurant, I had an extra umbrella in my car so the rain didn't bother me much.</p><p><br /></p><p>She was young and wasn't that pretty, she kept fidgeting with her hair. I spotted her from the picture that was attached to her profile in the office.</p><p><br /></p><p>We ordered drinks and she started talking immediately.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Money is not a problem, I just want a beautiful wedding. I want a very big picture of Benson and I all over the venue and on the souvenirs"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Ok, do you have a budget for the souvenirs?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"No, I'll just go with anything you suggest. Get me something the guests will like, we want a very big wedding. We have guests from all over the world coming, I ordered my gown from France"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Wow! That's great. You'll be a stunning bride, Benson will be proud of you" I said beaming.</p><p><br /></p><p>"You think so? Can I confide in you? What's your name?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Sure Eva, I'm MJ"</p><p><br /></p><p>"You see, all those girls were all over him. They won't let him rest, I know it's because he has so much money and he can't help falling for their cheap tricks"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Really?" I was trying hard to hold myself back.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I'm the one he's in love with. He used protection while sleeping with all of them but he loves me enough to be completely free with me"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Awn! He can surely spot a jewel. You are the real deal!" I said and took a sip from my drink. I kept the wine in my mouth instead of swallowing it, I didn't want to be tempted to say rubbish.</p><p><br /></p><p>"After I got pregnant he wanted me to keep the baby. He was elated, I thought he wanted me to abort it at first and I threatened to commit suicide"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Hmmm"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Most of those desperate girls will probably come to the wedding to intimidate me. They were angry with me for stealing Benson Owoh away from them. How do you steal a man? He'll go to who he's comfortable with"</p><p><br /></p><p>I nodded vigorously "MJ, you just have to hold it in for another 30 minutes and this meeting will be over"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Help me do everything that will make them die of jealousy" she said vindictively.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Of course, can you look at this budget please" I said quickly.</p><p><br /></p><p>She agreed to everything without cross checking.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I love this! You really know your job" she said smiling.</p><p><br /></p><p>We shook hands before she left and she took my phone number.</p><p><br /></p><p>"MJ you deserve a medal for holding all that in. Eva you better keep your eye on Benson Mr Dickson after your wedding or you'll be sorry" I shouted into the air.</p><p><br /></p><p>I felt a tap on my shoulder from behind and peered into Eva's angry face.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I forgot my phone" she said and picked up the phone.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Eva I'm sorry, I don't really mean that. I had a boyfriend..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"You are so unprofessional, I'll talk to your boss" she said and left angrily.</p><p><br /></p><p>I felt so bad after she left, I knew Margret Thatcher will grill me on hot coal if she ever finds out I got a client upset.</p><p><br /></p><p>I was once like Eva so I knew she was probably blinded by love and desperation. I was like Eva after I met Steve.</p><p>We met at one of those crazy "On Site" assignment, he was handsome and perfect and I was desperate and gullible. He was the best man and all the Bridal Train got their eyes on him. I waited for him after I had a heated argument with the owner of the hall who was trying to stop the wedding because he wanted his son to sing at the wedding.</p><p><br /></p><p>I waited after I made a good impression on him and he came for me. We started going out from the following week and he was perfect. When I started noticing the girls he told me they didn't matter, I was the chosen one. We discussed the future and wanted to settle down together. He made me happy and I was willing to let go of my pride so that I can be with him.</p><p><br /></p><p>All his flings knew me and respected me, I was the main girlfriend until he met Remi. She called herself his school Daughter and was always around during weekends. I was supposed to pretend I didn't notice those things.</p><p><br /></p><p>I picked up my jacket and headed out of the restaurant, it was raining hard and I was carrying an umbrella. I was about walking to my car when I heard the sound of a car horn. I looked up and it was Eva.</p><p><br /></p><p>I didn't get home till about 9:00PM, I was hanging out with Eva till evening and she paid for all the fun we had. She still wants to go ahead with the wedding because according to her "It rains everywhere and all men cheat".</p><p><br /></p><p>I didn't have to wonder why so many of these marriages crash, I hope Eva will maintain her resolution several years after their marriage when Benson Mr Dickson start sleeping with every woman in sight.</p><p><br /></p><p>I made that resolution 6 months back when Steve messed with my mental health and self esteem. I MJ won't be a side chick or main chick; I'm going to be the only chick.</p><p><br /></p><p>I don't think cheating is a rain, I think it's a flood that sweeps away your self-esteem. I MJ wants my feet planted firmly on the ground. You only have a flood if the structure is bad.</p><p><br /></p><p>I remembered what I told Mom when she tried to console me after I broke up with Steve.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I want more mom; I don't want a man I have to share with other women. If there is just one faithful man in this world I'll find him or remain single"</p><p><br /></p><p>To be continued...</p><p><br /></p><p>Don't forget to drop your comment after reading, feel free to use the share icon and share this story via link. Follow the blog so that you'll get notification when I drop another Episode. Episode 4 will be available on Wednesday. </p><p><br /></p><p>To read free articles/content on relationship and marriage click <a href="http://www.classysinglesworld.blogspot.com" target="_blank">HERE</a></p><p><br /></p><p>DON'T MISS THIS!</p><p>1. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-30-by-sarah-adeniji.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty</a></p><p>2. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-prologue-by-sarah.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty Prologue</a></p><p>3.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-episode-1.html?m=1"> 3 Months to Thirty EP 1</a></p><p>4.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-episode-1.html?m=1"> 3 Months to Thirty EP 2</a></p><p>5. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-episode-3.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty EP 3</a></p><p>6.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/3-months-to-thirty-episode-4.html?m=1"> 3 Months to Thirty EP 4</a></p><p>7. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/3-months-to-thirty-episode-5.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty EP 5</a></p><p>8. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/why-guys-dump-good-girls.html?m=1">Why Guys Dump Good Girls</a></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>Sarah Subomi Adenijihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04349913382726045386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817817344769762498.post-23747102918833946602023-04-01T00:53:00.001-07:002023-04-01T03:21:01.722-07:00How to build your woman<h1 style="text-align: left;"> 5 FASCINATING EASY WAYS TO BUILD YOUR WOMAN</h1><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi75oeqQgF5Skc0dTKEMTIR4y8jiKvfH5Jrodzct1_nlr-iY6h98dVADL83o0WtG8kGE97aTTfDWZZEYBJDlo9gKlg0ojFDZaaR6JfKpg4hpPYtdLSLZOyVOLa39GogMMXP2fZgFWD1qYwfMSCkS51qfrjjBicifvZTjua4aMqkyEoUu_kjmWlZhfzA/s5472/jonathan-borba-NBtkkWD4sGM-unsplash.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="5472" data-original-width="3648" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi75oeqQgF5Skc0dTKEMTIR4y8jiKvfH5Jrodzct1_nlr-iY6h98dVADL83o0WtG8kGE97aTTfDWZZEYBJDlo9gKlg0ojFDZaaR6JfKpg4hpPYtdLSLZOyVOLa39GogMMXP2fZgFWD1qYwfMSCkS51qfrjjBicifvZTjua4aMqkyEoUu_kjmWlZhfzA/s320/jonathan-borba-NBtkkWD4sGM-unsplash.jpg" width="213" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><h3 style="text-align: left;">BUILD YOUR WOMAN WITH THIS EASY TIPS</h3><p><br /></p><p>Learn how to build your woman now! The term âPerfect Womanâ is just a phantom; she doesnât exist. Miss perfect does not exist; if you want something close to that, you have to work on it.</p><p><br /></p><p>Stop wasting your precious time looking for the perfect woman because you wonât find her. Your woman may not be perfect but that is ok, you donât need a perfect woman, you only need the right one. </p><p><br /></p><p>Every woman is a raw material; you can make good things out of her if you take the time to make the effort. So, here are the things you can do to build your woman:</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;"> To Build Your Woman; Encourage Her</h3><p>To build your woman, you have to inspire or motivate her to be a better person. What you have to do is to find that trait of greatness and water it. </p><p><br /></p><p>If your woman has talent for something encourage her to acquire the skill professionally. If you canât even find it then get some seed and start planting; if she canât do it and you want it, you have to help her sir; thatâs how to build her.</p><p><br /></p><p> For instance, if she canât cook good food but she is good in other areas instead of dumping her for a woman that cook delicious meals but has a bad temper why canât you just buy her a cookery book? Or better still, encourage her to take cooking classes in her spare time, it is available online now thanks to technology.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">To Build Your Woman; Support Her</h3><p>Rome was not built in a day, if you want to marry a great woman start supporting her now. If she needs to acquire a skill but she is financially incapacitated then support her financially. </p><p><br /></p><p>Also, give her a moral or spiritual boost when she needs it. For instance, some men love their partner but she is not spiritual enough, donât dump her! Help build her spiritual life. </p><p><br /></p><p>Buy her spiritual books, tapes and videos and encourage her to attend weekly activities in the church. You can also pay for her to attend seminars and Ladies conventions, it is an investment.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">To Build Your Woman; Love And Cherish Her</h3><p>To build your woman the right way, you have to love and cherish her. Without this she will see all your efforts like criticism and condemnation, believe me, she can frustrate all your efforts and make you give up.</p><p><br /></p><p>Show me a woman that is well loved and I will show you a woman that can do anything; Love brings out the best in women.</p><p><br /></p><p> I have seen an ill mannered and bad tempered lady become meek and submissive when she entered a loving relationship. Love makes a woman want to be a better person, so nurture her in Love.</p><p><br /></p><p> Let her be secure in your love and let her know she means the world to you. If she knows that you are trying to get her to do something out of love, she will overdo it.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">To Build Your Woman; Correct Her Lovingly</h3><p>You donât have the right to discipline or punish your woman; you can only correct her and do it in love. </p><p><br /></p><p>This is because she is an adult and an independent woman. Also, make sure you do the correction between both of you and not publicly if you donât want it to generate into crises.</p><p><br /></p><p> Shouting at a woman in public or doing anything to embarrass her is like asking for trouble, she will give you in overdose. So, kindly and lovingly point out the areas she needs to improve on to her and leave out the criticism please.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">To Build Your Woman; Show Her</h3><p>You can motivate your woman to do something by being a good example of that thing. Inspire by example it is usually very effective.</p><p><br /></p><p> Some men complain that their women are too stingy when they never really gave anything away in her presence. You can also give out things in her name and let her experience the joy of being a giver.</p><p><br /></p><p> If you need her to learn how to cook a particular meal, buy the ingredients and get into the kitchen with her armed with a cookery book. Both of you can make a mess of things but she will keep trying it till she gets it.</p><p><br /></p><p>Building your woman is not hard and the result is worth all the time, energy and financial investment you will be putting into it.</p><p><br /></p><p>From today onward, stop breaking your woman and start building her. Donât abandon her for someone better when you can make her better. </p><p><br /></p><p>Don't forget to share this article, I'll be waiting for your comments at the comment section.</p><p><br /></p><p>To read more articles on relationship/marriage click <a href="http://www.classysinglesworld.blogspot.com" target="_blank">HERE</a></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi75oeqQgF5Skc0dTKEMTIR4y8jiKvfH5Jrodzct1_nlr-iY6h98dVADL83o0WtG8kGE97aTTfDWZZEYBJDlo9gKlg0ojFDZaaR6JfKpg4hpPYtdLSLZOyVOLa39GogMMXP2fZgFWD1qYwfMSCkS51qfrjjBicifvZTjua4aMqkyEoUu_kjmWlZhfzA/s5472/jonathan-borba-NBtkkWD4sGM-unsplash.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="5472" data-original-width="3648" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi75oeqQgF5Skc0dTKEMTIR4y8jiKvfH5Jrodzct1_nlr-iY6h98dVADL83o0WtG8kGE97aTTfDWZZEYBJDlo9gKlg0ojFDZaaR6JfKpg4hpPYtdLSLZOyVOLa39GogMMXP2fZgFWD1qYwfMSCkS51qfrjjBicifvZTjua4aMqkyEoUu_kjmWlZhfzA/s320/jonathan-borba-NBtkkWD4sGM-unsplash.jpg" width="213" /></a></div><br />Sarah Subomi Adenijihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04349913382726045386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817817344769762498.post-86692008533148985112023-04-01T00:23:00.005-07:002023-04-10T09:10:02.877-07:00Why Guys Dump Good Girls<h2 style="text-align: left;">Why Guys Dump Good Girls and Break their Hearts</h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj11lPp-mHHL315Es6eevAAfmOryIV0e289Lz-yMr_kwopNuoZn0lOK7BVmon_dzzCzBHQnHmYAgS3DMwdUCQNS8OknOmyfzU4_nqgFzsiS0QAZ3-l2pzsR-REanHNBET3kzLwVmUBaYT31UVtDnKzhmmS-dRNwNt5Kajeuh2XVbjijj9BFLb4jjEar/s5184/justin-follis-A7Um4oi-UYU-unsplash.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3456" data-original-width="5184" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj11lPp-mHHL315Es6eevAAfmOryIV0e289Lz-yMr_kwopNuoZn0lOK7BVmon_dzzCzBHQnHmYAgS3DMwdUCQNS8OknOmyfzU4_nqgFzsiS0QAZ3-l2pzsR-REanHNBET3kzLwVmUBaYT31UVtDnKzhmmS-dRNwNt5Kajeuh2XVbjijj9BFLb4jjEar/s320/justin-follis-A7Um4oi-UYU-unsplash.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div><br /></div><p>Good girls get dumped everyday and if you donât know why this is happening you might end up being part of the statistics. These girls are good: they do everything to make their man happy at the expense of their own happiness; they were the perfect girlfriend but end up getting dumped at the end of the day.</p><p><br /></p><p>I can go on and on, good girls kept getting dumped, they suffered with their man, changed their life to become the girl he wanted but along the line, they lost their appeal and got treated like thrash.</p><p><br /></p><h2 style="text-align: left;">Why Do Good Girls Get Dumped?</h2><p>A lady once said âSubomi, I cooked for him, all his family knew me: even all this friends felt my impact, what did he use to repay me? I suddenly saw his wedding Invitation; he was getting married to another lady! Is this story similar to yours?</p><p><br /></p><p>So why do good girls get dumped while bad girls go ahead to snatch a man of their dreams and later show off their rings? This is because:</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Good Girls Get Dumped Because They Love Deeply</h3><p>Good girls treat their guys like gods, put them on a pedestal and keep them there. Good girls donât usually have a life of their own, donât pursue their ambition and goals wholeheartedly, and cannot give their life completely to God because their man is the core of their existence.</p><p><br /></p><p>All those energies you channeled into loving him if you had put half of it into pursuing your dreams, you would have become successful by now and instead of dumping you he would be trying hard to keep other guys away.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Good Girls Get Dumped Because They Lack Common Sense</h3><p>Good girls get dumped because they are too much in love to apply common sense, so they ignore danger signals and end up getting dumped. If you had used your common sense in the first place, you would be the one doing the dumping instead of being dumped.</p><p><br /></p><p>Some guys are opportunists looking for soft hearted girls with a little flow of cash; some want innocent girls they can exploit for sex, your common sense will spot them 10 miles away unless you lack it. Some girls even know their guys are two timing them and they still decide to endure hoping a miracle will occur and he will suddenly change.</p><p><br /></p><p>If all your friends and people that care about you keep telling you that he is wrong for you, maybe you are too deep in love to see what they are seeing or you are too foolish to care but the result will still be the same. You just have to face the fact that the relationship is doomed and let go or get dumped.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Good Girls Get Dumped Because They Break Rules</h3><p>There are rules guiding safe relationships but good girls break these rules out of pity and intense love for their men.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Rules Guiding Safe Relationships</h3><p>These rules must be adhered to for mutual benefit of both parties and to safeguard against heart breaks, ignorance of these rules has been the destruction of many good girls.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">1) No Sex Rule</h3><p>The first and the most important rule that must be clearly spelt out by the woman is the nopre-marital sex rule. You will always regret breaking this rule as a woman. If you break this rule you cannot ever win because it is tantamount to handling over your weapon in battle. It will strip you of your defense! And get you dumped.</p><p><br /></p><p>A guy threatened to commit suicide if the love of his life refuses to have sex with him and she allowed him with tears running down her eyes. She did it to get him to drop the knife, you can guess how it all ended; your guess is as good as mine. He can play all the tricks in the book to get you to spread your legs, fall for them at your own peril!</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">2) The Give And Take Rule</h3><p>Donât ever be the only giver in the relationship; donât give out trust and commitment too soon! Donât commit to a guy that is not committed to you, it is a one way ticket to heartbreak. Is his heart wavering? Then give him time to make up his mind, does he have a side chick? Then refuse to be in a love triangle by stepping out first. </p><p><br /></p><p>This will save you a lot of heartbreak; donât end up like the likes of Toke Makinwa! The woman who gave her a run for her husband was once a side chic when they were dating. If passion and romance is all he is willing to give then you are better without him!</p><p><br /></p><p>It is not only a crime for good girls to get dumped after reading this, it is also suicide! Good girls should start getting married and stop getting hurt; it is not a crime to be a good girl, but it is a crime to read this and still get dumped because you canât apply knowledge.</p><p> </p><p>For suggestions and comments, kindly use the comment box. Donât forget to share this article!</p><p><br /></p><p>Read more Content on relationship/marriage <a href="http://www.classysinglesworld.blogspot.com" target="_blank">HERE</a></p><p><br /></p><p>YOU'LL LOVE THESE!!!</p><p>1. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/signs-he-doesnt-love-you-anymore.html?m=1">Signs he doesn't love you anymore</a></p><p>2. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/can-relationship-survive-without-se.html?m=1">Can a relationship survive without sex?</a></p><p>3. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/10-outrageous-qualities-men-want-in.html?m=1">10 Outrageous Qualities Men Want In a Woman</a></p><p>4. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/life-rules-every-lady-must-know-before.html?m=1">Life rules every single lady should know before marriage</a></p><p>5. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/how-to-be-financially-independent-as.html?m=1">How to be financially independent as a lady</a></p><p>6. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/5-ways-to-manage-menstrual-pains.html?m=1">How to manage menstrual pains without drugs</a></p><p>7. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/secret-of-irresistible-woman.html?m=1">Secret of an irresistible woman</a></p><p>8. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/how-to-know-he-loves-you.html?m=1">How to know he loves you</a></p><p>9. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/signs-you-are-going-crazy.html?m=1">Signs you are going crazy</a></p><p>10. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/bury-your-past-and-get-fresh-start.html?m=1">Bury your past and get a fresh start</a></p><p>11. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/why-guys-dump-good-girls.html?m=1">Why guys dump good girls</a></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>Sarah Subomi Adenijihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04349913382726045386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817817344769762498.post-49743132061075533562023-03-31T03:11:00.007-07:002023-04-10T09:22:24.138-07:003 Months to Thirty Episode 2<h2 style="text-align: left;">3 Months to Thirty by Sarah Adeniji</h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTGmvM8obG9sY8cZR-VQb_vMQ9027NIJEoAvm5DbnKpkGdBm1ONfhR3UgV1L-oBSNRFgA7K-F7uurpKew3rGR12lJnhpLWvs69VM83O9wHGbs71tk9nzLmD3Q51gQUGFmjoiNB8SSTq-BkrhbcLya23xB5nNQpI8rq6gnwHKlxQz1nZ-g54PIYW0JI/s1080/Fashion%20Sale%20Minimalist%20Instagram%20Post%20(5).png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="1080" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTGmvM8obG9sY8cZR-VQb_vMQ9027NIJEoAvm5DbnKpkGdBm1ONfhR3UgV1L-oBSNRFgA7K-F7uurpKew3rGR12lJnhpLWvs69VM83O9wHGbs71tk9nzLmD3Q51gQUGFmjoiNB8SSTq-BkrhbcLya23xB5nNQpI8rq6gnwHKlxQz1nZ-g54PIYW0JI/s320/Fashion%20Sale%20Minimalist%20Instagram%20Post%20(5).png" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><h3 style="text-align: left;"> EPISODE 2</h3><h3 style="text-align: left;"><i><u>Missing Steve</u></i></h3><p>Dear Diary, I woke up on Monday morning highly motivated and ready to face the world. I have missed work since Thursday and I knew I had half chance of losing my job. I have a highly disciplined Margret Thatchet boss that has never turned the other eye when her employee goes AWOL.</p><p><br /></p><p>I had received about twenty missed call from her everyday since Thursday but I had ignored them, heck! I didn't even pick Suzie's call. I was so pitiable and emotional down that I had crawled into a hole after that mean encounter with Shade. I'll be lucky not to lose my job today.</p><p><br /></p><p>I got employed by "Pure Havens" three years ago as a Secretary to Mrs Abosede Amusat. She is the wife of a business morgul and was Mom's friend in the University of Lagos. I didn't really need the job or money but it came at a time when I needed so much stability in my life. I had poured my heart into the job, and attained the position of Personal Assistant from being just a secretary under a year. I have been PA for two years now.</p><p><br /></p><p>The company "Pure Havens" handles everything that has to do with wedding, from hall bookings to caterings, decorations, event planning etc. We practically take away the stress from intending brides but our service didn't come cheap. Popular celebrities, wealthy socialites, politicians, and top business men's daughters patronise us.</p><p><br /></p><p>It took me about 1 hour drive in my car before I got to our office at Lekki, I parked my car and took the elevator to the first floor. We don't resume activities till around 9:00AM and it was 8:15AM when I parked my car.</p><p><br /></p><p>I met Mary on her seat and three of our staff. I received their greetings with a smile, I opened my office door and entered. The office was neat as usual, the first thing I did was to put on the Air conditioner before I sat.</p><p><br /></p><p>I heard a loud knock on my door and Mary entered.</p><p><br /></p><p>"MJ!!! What happened? We were all worried when we couldn't reach you" there was so much concern written all over her face.</p><p><br /></p><p>Mary was a nice girl, she liked me genuinely despite the fact that I was everything she isn't. Mary is the plain Jane kind of a girl that no man would look at twice; she had no sense of fashion and never wore makeup since she started working in the company. She is a little bit on the big side, and has been having boyfriend problems since I knew her.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Mary, thanks for your concern. I was a little bit under the weather but I'm fine now" I gave her a beautiful smile.</p><p><br /></p><p>"MJ, aren't you scared? Madam was infurated on Thursday when you didn't sign in, she went crazy on Friday. You had an "On Site" assignment on Saturday and she had to call me to stand in for you".</p><p><br /></p><p>"How was the "On Site" Assignment?".</p><p><br /></p><p>"MJ, I died after the assignment. I was literally begging for death. How do you manage to pull it off all these years? I'm glad you are back because I'll rather die than go through that again" Mary was looking pitiable and I believed her.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Don't worry about Margret Thatcher, I can handle her. You won't have to bother about going on another assignment because I'm fully back now" Both Mary and I knew that my statement about handling Madam was a lie. I was afraid of losing my job but was putting up a brave front.</p><p><br /></p><p>"You completely disappeared from the surface of the earth and left us that are human to suffer. I have to fine you for that Queen MJ" Mary said blinking her eyes behind her spectacle.</p><p><br /></p><p>"OK!!! I got it! Lunch is on me" </p><p><br /></p><p>"You are serious right? I can order everything I want? Fried rice, salad dressing, chicken chest, fanta..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"Yes! You can eat as much as you want. Now leave my office and let me work" I said laughing. I wanted to tell her to watch her weight and stop packing in too much calories into her system but I wasn't in the mood to lecture her.</p><p><br /></p><p>I started thinking about what to tell Margret Thatcher immediately Mary left, I knew she'll be mad at me especially because I had an "On Site" assignment. I prayed Mary didn't handle it poorly and we didn't lose a client.</p><p><br /></p><p>What I dreaded most is seeing a snake and going on an "On Site" assignment. I would joyfully choose killing a snake any day than having to go for a field assignment.</p><p><br /></p><p>Most times when we have an "On Site" assignment it is usually because something had gone wrong at the wedding venue. I had done everything from pacifying an angry groom who wanted the wedding canceled to bringing back a runaway bride. There was a time we had two brides at the wedding venue and it was a disastrous day. The bride who was a twin had requested for a private beach wedding with a minister to bless their union and about two hundred guests. Her identical twin who had a score to settle with her had appeared at the venue with same wedding dress, same hair, makeup and same shoe.</p><p><br /></p><p>There was a pandemonium at the wedding because the guests could not tell them apart. Their father does not have a close relationship with his daughters and didn't know which was which. Their mother who could tell them apart was late, she was being represented by their step mother.</p><p><br /></p><p>When I received that call and an "On Site" Instruction from Margret Thatcher that Saturday I wasn't aware of the situation until I walked into the venue. The bride came alone to book our service, I had not seen her twin before and couldn't tell which was which when I got there.</p><p><br /></p><p>Everyone had given up on the wedding holding that day, both twin were crying that they were both the bride and the groom was in tears because he couldn't tell them apart. It was a private wedding and we didn't grant any access card to media reporters but people had started taking pictures with their phones.</p><p><br /></p><p>I didn't earn earn the name "Queen MJ" for no reason. I managed to stop myself from running mad, I had a two minutes chat with both crying brides and instructed the security to take away the one with a smug smile. You won't feel like smiling when your wedding to the man of your dream was about to be canceled.</p><p><br /></p><p>I heard Margret Thatcher's voice before I saw her face and I knew I was in trouble.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Did MJ sign in today?" She asked in an authoritative tone.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Yes Mrs, she's in her office" Mary replied.</p><p><br /></p><p>My office and hers were connected, I heard her footstep as she walked into her office and my heart sank. "Would I really be able to pull this off? What if I ended up losing my job?"</p><p><br /></p><p>My phone rang few minutes later and I picked it up with shaky fingers.</p><p><br /></p><p>"MJ, appear right away!!!" She screamed and ended the call.</p><p><br /></p><p>I straightened my top and picked up the file I had been working on. I knocked softly and entered.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Good Morning Mrs" I had school myself to maintain calmness and wasn't doing bad.</p><p><br /></p><p>"What's good about the morning? You think this is your father's business and you can come only when you feel like it?" She was spitting fire like the dragon she was.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I can explain Mrs, I was indispose..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"And you phone was indisposed too?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"I'm sorry"</p><p><br /></p><p>"I don't think you realized what you did MJ, your action cost us an important client. The entire wedding was a disaster on Saturday, it was a public disgrace for our company. Bailing on your job and contract with the company is totally unacceptable, you know the punishment for your violation..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"It was a life and death situation I swear!"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Don't interrupt me when I'm speaking!" She shouted angrily. </p><p><br /></p><p>I was moved to tears but I managed to keep my composure <i>"MJ don't grumble, you are strong and you can do this"</i></p><p><i><br /></i></p><p>"I spoke to Folu, I was so worried I had to call your mother. She told me you didn't step out of your apartment for 3days, what were you thinking? You want the rest of the world to just stand still because you are in a bad mood?"</p><p><br /></p><p>I didn't know she spoke with Mom, it kind of threw me off balance.</p><p><br /></p><p>"This is the last time this is happening. I should have reached out to you, I'm sorry for getting you worried" I cast her an apologetic smile and prayed she'll let the whole thing slide.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Does it involve a man?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"N...o, it's not what you are thinking Mrs" I said hastily.</p><p><br /></p><p>"MJ, you are such a bright and promising young lady; you have everything going on well for you. Why do you want to throw your life away because of a man?" She doesn't look angry anymore and I could relax a little.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Mrs, this has nothing to do with a man. It must be my hormones or something"</p><p><br /></p><p>"MJ, I don't believe you. You think I have not been watching you? I have been noticing a change for some months now. You are dedicated and you are pulling your weight around here but you have simply lost that fire in you. If you allow a man to ruin your life you'll regret it. I don't understand why your generation has this obsession with marriage. Chase your dreams and live your life MJ, there are only few good guys out there. Most of those men want to steal your fire, they are so selfish and narcissistic"</p><p><br /></p><p>I knew I dare not interrupt her lectures so I waited patiently for her to finish, standing on my heels listening to a lecture I didn't pay for was not part of my plans for the day. I contemplated on sitting down on one of the empty cushioned chairs before me but I knew it would incurr her wrath.</p><p><br /></p><p>"MJ, most of these men are scums!!! They don't have any good thing to offer you apart from heartbreak. I don't want to lose another promising girl to this nonsense. Now get your head straight and get back to work! I'm not letting you off the hook easily, you have a query to answer" she waved me away and picked up her phone.</p><p><br /></p><p>I was relieved to finally escape the lion's den. I was occupied throughout the day but her words kept ringing in my ears.<i> "Men are scum! Men are scum! They are narcissistic and are out to steal your shine!"</i></p><p><br /></p><p>I have about three files I have been working on and I have to set up a meeting with the intending couples this week. I spent so much time on the phone talking to caters, and owners of event centers, I was dead tired by the time I drove out of the parking lot by 6:00PM.</p><p><br /></p><p>I missed Mom's calls thrice and planned to see her when I get home in the evening. I was hungry and thought about eating out but I wasn't ready to be gawked at by randy men just yet.</p><p><br /></p><p>It was getting dark by the time I got to our home at VGC, I have heard so many people describe our house as a mansion but to me it is simply home. I stepped out of my car and Fatima my personal maid rushed to collect my bag. I knew I owed her an apology for the way I sent her out of my apartment on Thursday night when she kept knocking but she was all smile this morning.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Madame MJ!" </p><p><br /></p><p>"Fatima, please don't worry about my bag, I'm going straight to my apartment. Is Daddy back?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"No Madame"</p><p><br /></p><p>"What about Mom?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"She's in the sitting room"</p><p><br /></p><p>"I'll see her later, get me something delicious from the kitchen. Be fast about it, I'm starving"</p><p><br /></p><p>I have my own apartment but I have to pass through the main sitting room to get there, I think Mom purposely gave me the apartment so that she can monitor all the men that came to visit me.</p><p><br /></p><p>"My Baby is back" Mom said smiling.</p><p><br /></p><p>I walked in and gave her a hug "I love you Mom"</p><p><br /></p><p>"I know, don't think you can get away with this. You have lots of explanations to do"</p><p><br /></p><p>"I know! I know! " I raised my hands up in surrender and smiled as I moved away. </p><p><br /></p><p>"I need to shower and then put something in my stomach, I'm starving" </p><p><br /></p><p>"Fatima will bring your dinner, don't take too much chicken..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"Watch your weight MJ!" I finished for her. "If I get thinner than this I'll just disappear" I said and walked out of ear shot.</p><p><br /></p><p>I allowed the water to run down my body as I reminiscenced on the event of the day and Margret Thatchet's lectures came back to me.</p><p><br /></p><p><i>"All men are scums, they have narcissistic..."</i></p><p><i><br /></i></p><p>I allowed myself to think about Steve my ex and I discovered that I missed him greatly.<i> "Steve was different, Steve wasn't narcissistic and he was a fantastic boyfriend".</i></p><p><i><br /></i></p><p>Steve was crazy about me and everyone knew, he did all those things I always wanted men to do for me. He struck all the right cords and was good with PDA, he would have proposed on his birthday If I had not spoilt everything.</p><p><br /></p><p><i>"MJ, you are crazy. You know what thinking about Steve can do to you"</i></p><p><i><br /></i></p><p>I wanted to stop but I was powerless to do so. I stepped out from the jacuzzi and grabbed my towel. I remembered how Steve celebrated my last birthday in a big way and I smiled. I still didn't understand how I ended up making both of us miserable.</p><p><br /></p><p>Steve was the man I allowed to bend me, and I did everything to fit into his lifestyle. I was 27 and a little bit desperate when I met him, 27 was late for me considering the fact that my Mom got married at the age of 21. Mom fell in love with Steve the moment she met him or should I say he charmed my mom with his bubbling personality? Even Bobby was crazy about him.</p><p><br /></p><p>I was creaming my body when I reached for my phone unconsciously. I had blocked Steve everywhere after our breakup about 6 Months ago; I was willing to throw away the 2 good years we spent together because I was losing my mind.</p><p><br /></p><p>I knew it was a bad idea but I unblocked him and dialed his line, it was around 9:00PM and I knew he'll be home by now. He didnt pick the phone the first time, I wanted to dial his line again but I restrained myself.</p><p><br /></p><p>I was about putting on my robe when my phone rang. I checked the called and it was Steve.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Hi" I said dryly.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Leave my man alone you slut!" she screamed.</p><p><br /></p><p>I picked the voice instantly and knew it must be Remi.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Remi?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Yes! Steve's fiancee on the line. I have been waiting for you to stage a come back MJ, Steve is mine now!"</p><p><br /></p><p>I heard a voice at the background and then there was sound of someone wrestling the phone from her hand.</p><p><br /></p><p>I ended the call and sat on my bed quietly.<i> "Calling Steve was a bad idea"</i></p><p><i><br /></i></p><p>I can hear someone knocking, I'll tell you about Steve tomorrow.</p><p><br /></p><p>To be continued...</p><p><br /></p><p>Don't forget to drop your comment after reading, feel free to use the share icon and share this story via link. Follow the blog so that you'll get notification when I drop another Episode. Episode 3 will be available on Monday. </p><p><br /></p><p>To read free articles/content on relationship and marriage click <a href="http://www.classysinglesworld.blogspot.com" target="_blank">HERE</a></p><p><br /></p><p>DON'T MISS THESE!</p><p>1. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-30-by-sarah-adeniji.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty</a></p><p>2. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-prologue-by-sarah.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty Prologue</a></p><p>3.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-episode-1.html?m=1"> 3 Months to Thirty EP 1</a></p><p>4.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-episode-1.html?m=1"> 3 Months to Thirty EP 2</a></p><p>5. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-episode-3.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty EP 3</a></p><p>6.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/3-months-to-thirty-episode-4.html?m=1"> 3 Months to Thirty EP 4</a></p><p>7. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/3-months-to-thirty-episode-5.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty EP 5</a></p><p>8. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/why-guys-dump-good-girls.html?m=1">Why Guys Dump Good Girls</a></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>Sarah Subomi Adenijihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04349913382726045386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817817344769762498.post-88002394076077726402023-03-29T03:18:00.009-07:002023-04-10T09:22:51.358-07:003 Months to Thirty Episode 1<h2 style="text-align: left;"><u>3 Months to Thirty by Sarah Adeniji </u></h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOxAhmqIT33hNniud1hCugM-ESVvQwoA7nr07BWKlsDtj5I_qBUhJp3Oh84L_dyf6HPCrCrqaeKA667-0j7tf8br9U4ClCoxE2gk1LJnfFH0VXpAY2AgGA1g7AN6CfMaf6aIvcR43ZUTH6ul45Ul0SIMMxrOGd_E3XNh1emGLw2jgAq015wEADcEzu/s1080/Fashion%20Sale%20Minimalist%20Instagram%20Post%20(2).png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="1080" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOxAhmqIT33hNniud1hCugM-ESVvQwoA7nr07BWKlsDtj5I_qBUhJp3Oh84L_dyf6HPCrCrqaeKA667-0j7tf8br9U4ClCoxE2gk1LJnfFH0VXpAY2AgGA1g7AN6CfMaf6aIvcR43ZUTH6ul45Ul0SIMMxrOGd_E3XNh1emGLw2jgAq015wEADcEzu/s320/Fashion%20Sale%20Minimalist%20Instagram%20Post%20(2).png" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">EPISODE 1</h3><h3 style="text-align: left;">I'M MJ!!!</h3><p>Dear special person that needs to read this diary, this is the first day of the 90-day journey I had to take to 30 years. Let me introduce myself, I'm MoniJesu Akeju, my friends call me MJ.</p><p><br /></p><p>I had several nicknames while growing up, Mean Moni, Big Mouth, Queen Bee, and other terrible names my enemies came up with but to my beloved mother I'm simply MJ, her miracle child.</p><p><br /></p><p>I wasn't that bad while growing up, but my dad spoiled me terribly. I got whatever I wanted on a platter of gold and I could manipulate him to get just anything I needed; I almost got a car at ten. I would have gotten the car if I hadn't changed my mind.</p><p><br /></p><p>There are two things that could bring out my mean side while growing up: Scolding me or messing with Bobby. Bobby (Bernard) is my precious little brother and I can kill anyone that dares make him cry, I almost killed his best friend when I was 14.</p><p><br /></p><p>I have the most adorable mother ever, she's the only one that could scold me and get away with it. I wondered how she could even bear to scold me considering the fact that I was her only child. She had a mean slap, that was the only thing the Queen Bee was scared of while growing up. It all started about 40 years ago in the University of Lagos.</p><p><br /></p><p>My Mother Foluke Ajao was born beautiful and brainy even though she came from an average family. Her parent could hardly afford to send her to school because they were average and uneducated: her mom a petty trader sold provisions while her father repaired generator. After her secondary education, the owner of the school she attended decided to sponsor her University education. Foluke was their trophy student, she had both beauty and brain and was the pride of her school. </p><p><br /></p><p>Nobody knew why the Wilsons decided to sponsor Foluke's University education, considering the fact that they had been subsidizing her secondary education since SS 1. However, everyone could make a good guess because there were only two plausible reasons they could think of. The first reason could be that they were afraid of Folu turning into a petty hawker due to her poor background; they couldn't stand someone seeing their trophy student hawking around the neighborhood. The second reason could simply be that they were using Folu to advertise their school. A big overblown picture of Foluke graced their school gate with the caption "Education is Light says Folu our student on Scholarship".</p><p><br /></p><p>Mom was elated when she heard that she was going to be granted scholarship to study in any University of her choice, and she made a vow to use the opportunity to upgrade her family status. Folu knew there were just two options available if she wanted to change her family's status: it is either she gets a good job after school or marry a wealthy husband. The chance of landing a good job was slim because she lacked the right connection, so, she decided to go for the former.</p><p><br /></p><p>She was stunning and every man she met wanted to date her but she kept rejecting suitors, she had intended to marry early so she didn't waste time with aimless dating. She was 17 when she gained admission to study Economics in the University of Lagos, her goal was to land herself a wealthy husband by the time she is 21. She poured herself into her studies and kept getting good grades until her name was on everyone's lips at the University. She was elated by her popularity and was waiting for her chance to carry out her plans. Her goal was to marry the richest man she could find and luck smiled on her in her final year in the University.</p><p><br /></p><p>Mom spent all the petty money her parent gave her on clothes. She knew how to pick her clothes; all her clothes were second-hand but you won't know if you were not told because she was always looking gorgeous.</p><p><br /></p><p>The only weakness Mom had was her temper, I got the hot head and no nonsense attitude from her. She narrated the story of how she met dad severally that I could picture the scene in my head. She was on her way to the library one day when a black jeep almost ran her down. She chased the car and was cursing on top of her voice holding the cheap wig that fell from her head. The driver stopped to apologize and what happened next was destiny.</p><p><br /></p><p>Solomon Akeju the only son of the Akejus met Folu that day and it was love at first sight; nobody could blame Dad for being swept away by Mom's beauty as she was a sight for sore eyes. He was about 25 and naive,: his gentle and quiet nature made him an easy prey. He was madly in love and couldn't say no to Mom. He was on his way to pick up a friend who had come to Unilag to conduct research on his project, his car broke down and he called Dad to pick him up. Dad was a fresh graduate from one of the top universities in England and a promising engineer then.</p><p><br /></p><p>To say the Akejus are wealthy would be an understatement; they came from family of engineers and Dad's father owns a popular construction company. Dad and Mom got married after her youth service and it was a dream come true for Mom. Dad knew about her humble background and didn't care, his parent tried to stop him and was forced to give their approval when they saw that Dad completely refused to consider another lady.</p><p><br /></p><p>It was a fairy tale wedding and the talk of the town, the Wilsons were proud of mom and used the opportunity to promote their school. Grandma and Grandpa shed tears of joy the day they gave out Mom's hand in marriage, they were overjoyed at their complete change of status in just a short time.</p><p><br /></p><p>However, the joy and victory Mom tasted was short-lived because she couldn't conceive after her wedding. All their efforts to conceive both medically and spiritually proved abortive. My paternal Grandparents wanted a child and Mom knew that her position in the Akejus' household was not secure. She had all the wealth she could dream of but there was no peace for her, Dad had brought the idea of them adopting a child but Mom rejected it outrightly.</p><p><br /></p><p>If money could buy a child Foluke would have bought one; she couldn't fit into the circle of her husband's friends and her in-laws didn't want her because of her childlessness. Mom was a shadow of herself despite all the love and devotion her husband showered on her. She knew Dad would never consider being with another woman because he was madly in love with her but it was no comfort to her. She tried all the new medical inventions because her husband could afford them but they all proved abortive.</p><p><br /></p><p>Mom endured for about ten years, until she couldn't bear the shame anymore. Dad was still madly in love with her and couldn't bear to lose her but she was becoming a shadow of herself. She packed few of her belongings one day while Dad was away on a business trip and returned to her parent in the village. She had built a house for her parent at their hometown in Oshogbo after her marriage and they had moved there happily. She got there late in the night to avoid neighbor's inquisitive gaze.</p><p><br /></p><p>When Grandmother saw her she was alarmed, Mom couldn't say much and kept on shedding tears. What Mom didn't inherit from Grandma was her faith in God, her alias in the community was "Iya Aladura". When Grandma perceived what was happening she told Mom to return to her husband's house, the statement she made that day was "Waa loyun, Mo ni Jesu" the translation is "You'll get pregnant because I have Jesus". Mom refused to go back but she later went when Grandma assured her that she was going to conceive this time around.</p><p><br /></p><p>Grandma told Mom she was going on seven days fasting and told Mom to fast with her. I believed Mom's incessant fasting and prayer those period was borne more out of desperation than faith. Mom conceived for the first time in her ten years of marriage the following month. She ran back to Grandma in the village and Grandma danced round the community, she told Mom she made a pledge to Jesus and she would pay it after her daughter give birth.</p><p><br /></p><p>Dad was the happiest man on earth when he learnt about Mom's pregnancy, he showered her with much care and placed her on bed rest throughout the duration of her pregnancy. His plan was for her to deliver the baby abroad and they were counting days and months. Mom was supposed to travel to US three weeks before her due date, and she was preparing. She had packed her baggages and was waiting.</p><p><br /></p><p>She began to experience labour pains two days before she was due to travel and Dad drove her to the hospital for checkup because he was sure she was not due for delivery. She was checked by the doctor who told him she was already 4cm dilated and would give birth soon. Dad was alarmed because he was afraid of the baby being pre-matured but the doctor told him it'll be dangerous to delay the delivery.</p><p><br /></p><p>When Dad discovered mom was going to give birth in Nigeria against their plans he opted for CS and told the doctor his wife should not be allowed to go through labor pains. He could not bear her screams anymore and hurried the process. The theater room had been prepared and mom was being wheeled in when she gave a loud scream; she was holding the baby's head in her palm and Dad almost fainted.</p><p><br /></p><p>The nurses surrounded her and helped her into a comfortable position for delivery. She gave a mighty push and I slided into the world. Dad swore that I was the cutest thing he had ever seen, I gave one mighty scream and Dad burst into tears. He was right there in the theater when mom delivered his princess.</p><p><br /></p><p>I wasn't just mighty cute and drop dead gorgeous as a baby I was also unusually strong. When Grandma was informed that her daughter delivered a baby girl she rushed down to Lagos from Oshogbo. She held me in her arms and danced, she kept chanting "Mo ni Jesu, Mo ni Jesu, Mo ni Jesu". She told Mom I should be called MoniJesu because that was her vow to God. Dad threw a big society party on the eighth day and I was named Sandra, MoniJesu, Tiwatope, Akeju. </p><p><br /></p><p>I was the splitting image of Dad; I inherited his tall frame, slender body, and dark skin. Because of the striking resemblance nobody could accuse Mom of birthing a bastard and her place was secured in her husband's family and in the society. My cute little brother Bernard was adopted eight years later and our family became complete.</p><p><br /></p><p>Mom singled out MoniJesu from all my names because she was scared of Grandma's vow, the name became the only name people got familiar with out of all my names. I was her beloved daughter but for some strange reasons she didn't like the fact that I inherited her hot-headednessess and sassy attitude.</p><p><br /></p><p>I'm MoniJesu Akeju, the princess of the Akejus household and the queen of my world. I don't tolerate nonsense and it is in everyone's best interest to remember that.</p><p><br /></p><p>To be Continued...</p><p><br /></p><p>What lesson did you learn from EPISODE 1 of 3 Months to Thirty? Drop your comments after reading.</p><p> </p><p>Do not forget to share this story using the share button. EPISODE 2 will be available on Friday by 12:00PM.</p><p><br /></p><p>To read free articles and contents on relationship/Marriage click <a href="http://www.classysinglesworld.blogspot.com" target="_blank">HERE</a></p><p><br /></p><p>DON'T MISS THESE!</p><p>1. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-30-by-sarah-adeniji.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty</a></p><p>2. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-prologue-by-sarah.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty Prologue</a></p><p>3.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-episode-1.html?m=1"> 3 Months to Thirty EP 1</a></p><p>4.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-episode-1.html?m=1"> 3 Months to Thirty EP 2</a></p><p>5. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-episode-3.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty EP 3</a></p><p>6.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/3-months-to-thirty-episode-4.html?m=1"> 3 Months to Thirty EP 4</a></p><p>7. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/3-months-to-thirty-episode-5.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty EP 5</a></p><p>8. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/why-guys-dump-good-girls.html?m=1">Why Guys Dump Good Girls</a></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>Sarah Subomi Adenijihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04349913382726045386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817817344769762498.post-5559553233929932852023-03-26T17:12:00.004-07:002023-04-10T09:23:49.657-07:003 Months to Thirty Prologue by Sarah Adeniji<h2 style="text-align: left;">3 Months to 30 by Sarah Adeniji</h2><h3 style="text-align: left;">PROLOGUE : THE DREAM</h3><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEixMSK1csHW6wVnAsZ1CRjGt3htFpurHXJAAtcMIiP5omiJTjtTvGzLmqBoi2OhYBR0mVfdJMkgmrBXmVNJJx2hgWEHTye456VGx8k3TF5FkjM9xknQjZyDw0qBzhRz8hDCVlJd2s-pQCkypA2g6mcdD6YyLwmvLntPdSKyZy782tUlKZjk5iIR1_62/s1080/Fashion%20Sale%20Minimalist%20Instagram%20Post%20(1).png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="1080" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEixMSK1csHW6wVnAsZ1CRjGt3htFpurHXJAAtcMIiP5omiJTjtTvGzLmqBoi2OhYBR0mVfdJMkgmrBXmVNJJx2hgWEHTye456VGx8k3TF5FkjM9xknQjZyDw0qBzhRz8hDCVlJd2s-pQCkypA2g6mcdD6YyLwmvLntPdSKyZy782tUlKZjk5iIR1_62/s320/Fashion%20Sale%20Minimalist%20Instagram%20Post%20(1).png" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div><br /></div><p>The Wedding gown had a very long train, I had a feeling of joy and elation I could not explain as I took each step to the altar.</p><p><br /></p><p><i>"At last MJ! You made it! You showed them you can become MRS Somebody</i>"</p><p><br /></p><p>I wasn't just a blushing bride, I was a giggling bride. I resisted the urge to stop mid-way to the altar to give my favorite Buga dance step. I saw them staring at me with surprise and shock written all over their faces.</p><p><br /></p><p>They had lost hope on me getting married; they had abused and crushed my spirit but God surpassed them.</p><p> </p><p>"I serve a living God o! Even the devil knows say nah true o!" Somebody burst into songs from the crowd and I laughed.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Mama, My sweet and supportive Mama is here to witness this day. Oh Mama! I love you so much!" Tears gathered around my eyes.</p><p><br /></p><p>I remembered how much she tried to get me married; all the blind dates and matchmaking. I remembered all the insult she suffered from her friends who thought her daughter was going to die an old maid. She had endured the side talk, had visited several prophets and most of them ended up scamming her.</p><p><br /></p><p>I knew I couldn't have come this far without her, she's had swallowed her pride severally and ended up stooping so that I could conquer.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Olololo MJ Olololo Buga Won! Their Father!" Suzie shouted from the crowd. </p><p><br /></p><p>"Oh Sweet Sweet Suzzie! You are the best friend ever! Thanks for standing by me even when I felt like giving up in this journey" I gave her a peace sign as I took each deliberate step to the altar.</p><p><br /></p><p>Suzie had been there to wipe my tears after each heartbreak, we had gone on manhunt together and did several despicable things we could have sworn was below our standards. When we realised time wasn't on our side we had used every trick in the book.<i> "I would have died at that bar that night if Suzie hadn't pick her phone at the first ring"</i></p><p><br /></p><p>I felt a strong urge to look back so that I could see if Shade was in the crowd. My eyes searched for her frantically but I didn't see her. She must be at the back, I have to look back just once.</p><p><i><br /></i></p><p><i>"She was so mean and wicked to me! Oh Shade! You didn't know I'll make it to the altar, you must be ashamed for driving me into depression after all I've done for you"</i></p><p><i><br /></i></p><p>I strained my neck and I was about to turn back when I heard the voice.</p><p><br /></p><p>"No MJ! Don't look back!"</p><p><br /></p><p>Not looking back was tough but I kept moving forward , I took it a step at a time. At a point I had to close my eyes because all the negative words they uttered kept coming to me.</p><p><br /></p><p>"MJ is an old maid"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Poor MJ, she'll die lonely"</p><p><br /></p><p>"She's too choosy, she keep rejecting all the good men"</p><p><br /></p><p>"Her Father's money went into her head"</p><p><br /></p><p>"She's too stubborn and heady, nobody will marry her"</p><p><br /></p><p>"If only she doesn't have a big mouth, she is so shameless"</p><p><br /></p><p>"She's a feminist, she won't be submissive"</p><p><br /></p><p>"She thinks life's a fairytale"</p><p><br /></p><p>"She doesn't have modesty; she's always exposing her body like an harlot"</p><p><br /></p><p>"She carries herself like a queen but everyone pity her"</p><p><br /></p><p>"She won't go to heaven! And she won't find a man to marry her either!"</p><p><br /></p><p>"She..."</p><p><br /></p><p>"Stop!!!" I screamed.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I don't care what you think! I made it, the joke is on you! MJ won! I showed you!" I noticed the voices stopped. I took a deep breathe and savor the taste of victory.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I did it!!! MJ you are a survivor and a winner" I gave myself a mental pat on the back and kept moving.</p><p><br /></p><p>I discovered I was almost at the altar, I straightened my neck and forgot about Shade. I stared at the pastor waiting to receive me and I opened my mouth in amazement.</p><p><br /></p><p>He was the tallest man I had ever seen, his length was endless and I had to straign my neck to see his face. I discovered another shocking thing; the hairs on his head were all white. <i>"I have never seen anything like this before"</i> His Majesty, His glory, and the way His eyes glitters left me in awe.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Who are you?" I said in wonder.</p><p><br /></p><p>He stared at me in amusement and smiled "You know who I'm MJ, you summoned me"</p><p><br /></p><p>"I really... I do...nt..." I stammered.</p><p><br /></p><p>Then I remembered what happened that night and I stared at the floor in shame. </p><p><br /></p><p>"I want to give you an assignment MJ, I'm going to trust you with this great task" He said still smiling.</p><p><br /></p><p>"What task?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"I want you to write a book, I want the world to know how you got here. The book is for someone special, I want her to read every pain, misery, and struggle you ever went through"</p><p><br /></p><p>"I'm not good with writing" I remembered how I always failed my composition and essay test in high school and cringed inwardly.</p><p><br /></p><p>"I'll help you" He said and smiled.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Who are you please?"</p><p><br /></p><p>"You called me. You cried to me, and told me you'll kill yourself if I refuse to show up" </p><p><br /></p><p>I allowed myself to remember the most humiliating moment in my life and felt terribly ashamed.<i> "Did I really cry that much and threatened to take my own life? Me? Baddest queen MJ that always has the perfect answer in every situation. Did I really whine like a baby and threatened suicide"</i></p><p><i><br /></i></p><p>I allowed the tears I was holding to flow down my cheek. <i>"If He saw me when I was whining and screaming alone in my room it means I can't hide anything from Him. He knows my secret fears and had seen me in my lowest moment".</i></p><p><i><br /></i></p><p>"You are Jesus" I said and immediately felt as if a huge burden has been lifted off me.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Why did you chose me? I'm not worthy" I whispered in awe.</p><p><br /></p><p>I remembered the three times I had given my life to Him and ended up taking them back when I got swept away by the tide of youthful exuberance .</p><p><br /></p><p>"Go MJ!!! Don't ever forget this. Write that book!!! Write..."</p><p><br /></p><p>I tossed and turned on the bed because the echos of His words kept ringing in my ears. I dragged myself awake and my brain felt foggy for a moment. Then it cleared and I remembered every detail, every word, every step.</p><p><br /></p><p>"What type of dream is this?"</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p>To be Continued...</p><p>Do not forget to leave your comments after reading. EPISODE 1 will be available on Wednesday by 12:00Noon.</p><div><br /></div><div>You can only share this story via link; copying and pasting without the Author's consent will amount to plagiarism. </div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><p>DON'T MISS THESE!</p><p>1. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-30-by-sarah-adeniji.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty</a></p><p>2. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-prologue-by-sarah.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty Prologue</a></p><p>3.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-episode-1.html?m=1"> 3 Months to Thirty EP 1</a></p><p>4.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-episode-1.html?m=1"> 3 Months to Thirty EP 2</a></p><p>5. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-episode-3.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty EP 3</a></p><p>6.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/3-months-to-thirty-episode-4.html?m=1"> 3 Months to Thirty EP 4</a></p><p>7. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/3-months-to-thirty-episode-5.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty EP 5</a></p><p>8. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/why-guys-dump-good-girls.html?m=1">Why Guys Dump Good Girls</a></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p></div>Sarah Subomi Adenijihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04349913382726045386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817817344769762498.post-57745467540152868022023-03-21T14:33:00.001-07:002023-04-10T09:53:40.036-07:00How to Make Your Woman Happy<h2 style="text-align: left;"> Best Ever ways To Make Your Woman Happy</h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhoZUDijixz9qDtgsFOVDzYjrn_XREIB-LZbXnRUxay2_yFXUDdzs18q7RnTjLyHEpH5NAGgdIQCgjgvmzVhRelWkt_ur23ACnVm4tGtHCIste5mjyD7WyQPO056LHxelQ_m_klcvhspY5cozaNKv28oBg68cJLBOc6nqFrPsEvsr8-71Cx5pJrigFF/s500/premium_photo-1661476169917-afb946144cfc.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="333" data-original-width="500" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhoZUDijixz9qDtgsFOVDzYjrn_XREIB-LZbXnRUxay2_yFXUDdzs18q7RnTjLyHEpH5NAGgdIQCgjgvmzVhRelWkt_ur23ACnVm4tGtHCIste5mjyD7WyQPO056LHxelQ_m_klcvhspY5cozaNKv28oBg68cJLBOc6nqFrPsEvsr8-71Cx5pJrigFF/s320/premium_photo-1661476169917-afb946144cfc.jpeg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><p>Who Else Wants To Make His Woman Happy?</p><p>If you have got 10 minutes, I can tell you best ever ways to make your woman happy. Like seriously, if you love that woman then you have to make her happy or you might eventually lose her to someone who can. Even you will agree with me that you guys can be clueless about how to achieve this and it puts you in a dilemma. </p><p>You love her and you are doing everything to make her happy, you just canât understand while she is always moody and unhappy. Well, maybe you are just going about it the wrong way. Hey! All hope is not lost. You can see win your womanâs heart and rekindle her love by following these simple tips.</p><p><br /></p><h2 style="text-align: left;">How to Make Your Woman Happy</h2><p> Let me warn you sir, these tips are dangerous and might make your woman get addicted to you. Donât say I did not warn you.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">To Make Your Woman Happy: Give Her Pet Names</h3><p>To make your woman happy give her a pet name. Your woman will be happy around you if you do this, Get her a name that comes from you. You can even do the naming ceremony playfully with her. Donât use the popular pet names like honey, sweety, darling etc. they are overused already and not unique, create your own!</p><p><br /></p><p> I know guys are not talented in that department so I am going to give you a few pointers: rearrange her name or shorten it, just make sure it is not common. For instance if her name is Deborah donât call her Debby, almost every Deborah bears that. What about Debor or Borah? You can also get away with Derah. I can bet 100 dollars on it that you are also smiling now. Donât thank me, what are friends for.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">To Make Your Woman Happy: Initiate Make- Ups</h3><p>If you want to make your woman happy be the first to initiate your make -ups especially if you are at fault. Some guys can be an insensitive jerk; you made her angry and because she didnât pick at the first ring you just stopped calling her waiting for her to cool down. Well, she might make up with you and still make you pay later. </p><p><br /></p><p>Give her a minimum of six missed call after an argument, she might not pick your calls but after she cooled down, it might be the reason she would forgive you. To her, it means you care enough to want to get across to her. It also means you are really sorry and you are having a hard time because she wonât talk to you. </p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">To Make Your Woman Happy: Introduce Her to Friends</h3><p>Introducing her to friends and relatives will make your woman happy because itâs just like customizing her. She would never feel free to do things that will jeopardize you relationship after you have done this. Encourage your friends and relatives to give her a phone call her once in a while and say hi when they meet her in public. </p><p><br /></p><p>Nothing makes your girl feel special like knowing people around you have also accepted her. This can also be a weapon in your arsenal. Your sister or friends can call her after a fight, she will rant to them and pour out her heart but she will forgive you afterward. </p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;"> Learn How to Do PDA to Make Your Woman Happy</h3><p>I know some guys donât like it but Public Display of Affection (PDA) will make your woman happy. I am not asking you to kiss her under the rain like they do in movies or romance her in public but at least, hold her hand. Sitting beside her and giving her attention in public means a lot to her.</p><p><br /></p><p> Be attentive to her and never ever let you eyes wander away or drool over another woman; itâs an insult to her. She knows there are prettier women out there and she get insecure sometimes, a little PDA will go a long way in assuring her that she is the one you want to be with. </p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">To Make Your Woman Happy: Say âI Love Youâ Often</h3><p>Hearing those three words often will make your woman happy in a way you can never imagine. It doesnât matter if you said it this morning she would still want to hear it before the day runs out. I am not asking you to try to figure this out, that is how girls are wired and youâve got to do it to keep her.</p><p><br /></p><p> Donât be stingy with your affection and donât wait for her to say it first! If you truly want to keep your girl then learn how to do this. If you like saying âI love youâ before you hang up when she calls you donât be surprised if she calls often especially when she is with her friends. I know you wonât mind if you donât hear the L word for a whole week but if you do that to your girl you might put her in a state of âemotional emergencyâ. </p><p><br /></p><p>So how far buddy? Do you think you are up to it? If yes then go for it, if no, well, another guy is reading this too now and he might just have his eyes on your girl. Oh! You think you are the only one trying to win her heart? Love is not like Dettol advert, if you donât take care of her another guy will. 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For some it might be mild while some have severe pains that may prevent them from standing or doing anything.</p><p><br /></p><p>Menstrual pain cannot be effectively managed with the use of drugs although there are drugs that can provide temporary relieve. The problems with those drugs manufactured to reduce pains during your menstrual circle is that you have to keep taking them every month and might start to abuse them or get addicted to them.</p><p><br /></p><p>Drugs that claim to be able to alleviate Menstrual pains also come with side effects that can cause complications in other areas, so below are the ways you can manage Pre-Menstrual and menstrual pains without the use of drugs.</p><p><br /></p><h2 style="text-align: left;">Menstrual Pains Management without the Use of Drugs</h2><p>Here are the various ways you can do this:</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">1. Reducing Sugar Intake Help Manage Menstrual Pains</h3><p>It is an open secret that most women have a sweet tooth, many canât do without chocolates, candies and soft drinks and we all know how much sugar it contains. Reducing your intake of sugar or sweets can help manage menstrual pains, too much sugar causes piles which result in chronic back pains during menstrual period, apart from this it also increases the pains you will feel.</p><p><br /></p><p>I know asking many ladies to stop taking chocolates and its likes will be like asking them to hack off their right hand, many have struggled to stop but find themselves craving it and finally gave in after resisting it for a period of time. It would be better to reduce it gradually and try to substitute it with eating fruits; you will know the difference in no time.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">2. Exercising Regularly Help Manage Menstrual Pains</h3><p> Menstrual pains can be reduced with commitment to regular exercise that helps loosen cramps and strengthen muscles. We all know Exercise is good for the body but we might not know that regular exercise help reduce menstrual pains.</p><p>As a lady resist the temptation to sit at a spot for hours, or take cabs to everywhere you are going even if it is a stone throw to where you are, you might be reducing your life span. Instead of taking cabs, walk short distances, stroll around in the evening and watch exercise videos you can follow at home to loosen your muscles, you can also visit the gym if you can afford to.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">3. Avoiding Stress Help Manage Menstrual Pains</h3><p>God made women delicately, all our body parts are tender both outside and inside so exposing yourself to stress will affect your menstrual period. I have heard of females that have their menstrual periods two times in a month because they underwent lots of stress that month. </p><p>Women tend to do too much all the time but if you want to manage those cramps you have to slow down. It might look like nothing now but those stress will accumulate and cause you lot of pains during your periods.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">4. Taking Warm Water Help Manage Menstrual Pains</h3><p>Taking cold water few days to your menstruation or during your menstrual cycle can cause you a lot of pain, this is because the cold water freezes the blood, this can cause you pain when the blood is struggling to flow out.</p><p>To effectively manage menstrual pain it is advisable to take warm water during your menstruation. Apart from the bad effects taking cold water has on your health, it can escalate menstrual pains, taking warm water and even the use of hot water bottles on your stomach can help the blood to flow freely and in so doing reduce any form of pain.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">5. Donât Use Any Drugs to Prevent Menstruation</h3><p>You will be doing yourself more harm than good, donât try to stop your menstrual cycle because of the inconveniencies and pains you feel during your menstrual periods, you will regret it. Apart from having medical effects, it can cause death. </p><p><br /></p><p>God who made women in a way that they would have to menstruate 3-7days in a month did it for a reason, your menstrual circle is a blessing not a curse, it indicates two things: the first is that you are not pregnant and the second is that you can get pregnant, trying to change this course can only bring pains and disaster. </p><p><br /></p><p>Hope you found this article on how to manage menstrual pains without the use of drugs useful? 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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">Your mobile phone is
one of your most prized possession, some people even prefer to have one of
their hands hacked off with a saw than to lose their mobile phones. But as
important as our mobile phones are to us, there are things we do every day that
damage them.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">Some of us are used to
these things that it has become a habit. We keep changing one damaged mobile
phone after another instead of just saving cost by changing our destructive
habits.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<h3 style="margin-top: 12pt; text-align: left;">Destructive Things Everybody Does to Their Mobile
Phones</h3>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">Want your mobile phone
to last longer? Save cost by staying clear of these things<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<h3 style="margin-top: 12pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">Dropping
Our Mobile Phones</span></h3>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">Dropping your mobile
phone can damage a lot of things inside it; you donât need to be an engineer to
realize that.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">Ladies drop their
mobile phones often and men are not left out. We keep our mobile phones
anywhere our hands can reach while trying to keep them close; the result is that
we keep them where they can easily drop to the ground.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">Because we want to keep
them handy, we put them in our front pockets, just drop them inside a bag, and
place them on the edge of the table, etc and end up knocking them to the floor.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">This habit can damage
our mobile phonesâ screen, touchpad, speaker, mouthpiece, and even panel.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<h2 style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">Being
a Pseudo Engineer <o:p></o:p></span></h2>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">Most guys are guilty of
this, they tend to have the urge to fix anything fixable and that includes their
mobile phones. When their mobile phones develop faults, instead of taking it to
an engineer they just stick a screwdriver into it and try to fix it.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">Most times, they just
fiddle with it and when they discover that they are not able to repair it, they
couple it and take it to their engineer. By then, they have already added to
the faults.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<h2 style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">Sticking
our Mobile Phones into Our Mouth<o:p></o:p></span></h2>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">Ladies do these often
because they use their mobile phones as a makeshift torch. Guys do these too;
it is just that ladies have the tendency to do it more often, at least once in
a day.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">When you use your mouth
as a makeshift holder for your mobile phone, you tend to get saliva into it and
it can damage the mouthpiece.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<h2><span style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">Getting Salt into Our
Mobile Phones<o:p></o:p></span></h2>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">Ladies bring their
mobile phones into the kitchen because they spend a lot of time there and they
want it handy. They also use it as a makeshift torch to cook at night; these
make them get salt into it.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">Salt is very
destructive to mobile phones, I once got salt into my HTC android phone and
could not repair it. My engineer tagged it as a âdead phoneâ and told me there
is little hope for a mobile phone after the salt has gotten into it.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">To prevent changing
your mobile phones often, avoid taking them into the kitchen especially while
cooking at night.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<h2><span style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">Delaying Repair of Our
Mobile Phones<o:p></o:p></span></h2>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">I know it is expensive
to repair the sophisticated mobile phones we have today. Most of the parts are
expensive and some are scare but make sure you repair your mobile phones
promptly and as at when due to prevent them from developing other faults.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">Most people only take
their mobile phones to engineers after it has developed at least 3 faults. By
then the screen is gone, the mouthpiece or earpiece is not working and the touchpad has been malfunctioning for a very long time.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">Most times, their engineers
over-charge them and the cost of repairing the phone is almost equal to that of
buying a new one. To avoid changing your mobile phones often, repair as at when
due, a stitch in time they say saves nine.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">To maintain your mobile
phones and to avoid the cost of buying new ones often, avoid the mistakes listed in
this article.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">For suggestions and
comments, kindly use the comment box, and donât forget to share this article.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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Think You Are Losing It?</p><p><br /></p><p>Do you think you might be going crazy? Want to find out for sure? It is expensive to get a psychiatric check up and it is a waste of time. Plus there might be nobody to take you there and it will be awkward to go alone. So, just save some time, energy and money by reading this:</p><p><br /></p><h2 style="text-align: left;">Signs You Are Going Crazy</h2><p>You are really going crazy if you notice any of these signs</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">You Turn Every Argument into a Fight</h3><p>I hate to be the bearer of bad news but if the above is true, you might be going crazy. It means there is a screw loose somewhere up there and you have to get it tightened. If you always have the itch to use your fist often, then something is wrong somewhere.</p><p> Everybody is not your enemy and every argument does not have to result to a fight. Have you noticed that you say âdo you want to fight me?â to almost everybody you argue with almost half of the time? Save your money, you are going crazy.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">You Are Going Crazy If You Bark Often</h3><p>If you bark all the time, you are not a dog reincarnate, you are just going crazy. Do you notice that people fear a confrontation with you? Have you ever told someone you would bite them? Just ask your best friend to lock you inside and send for a psychiatrist. </p><p>If you shout all the time and people are even afraid to correct you or challenge your decisions, you donât need a check up; tell them to register you right away.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">You Are Going Crazy If You Get Moody for No Reason</h3><p>If you are always moody and you think everyone is out to offend you, donât try to analyze what you canât understand, I hate to break the news to you but you need help because you are going crazy. </p><p>You see, when there is a screw loose somewhere upstairs it brings an imaginary darkness and gloom over the world; you canât seem to enjoy anything and nobody can just do anything right. If these happen most of the time, donât try to give excuses! It is not PMS; it is not a personality disorder or temperament! You are going crazy. </p><p> </p><h3 style="text-align: left;">You Are Going Crazy If You Are Always Right</h3><p>If you are always right, and you think people are too jealous to admit it, you might just be going crazy. Well, little Miss Right or big Mr. Right, you donât have the highest IQ in the world, you just have a screw loose upstairs.</p><p> Not everyone needs a lecture on how to behave properly, they just need a heart that cares and understand. Do you make people feel like a moron after talking to you? Aha! Something dropped now? That screw just fell.</p><p> </p><h3 style="text-align: left;">You Are Going Crazy If You Think You Are Perfect</h3><p>I hate to be the one to bring you to your senses but nobody is perfect and I guess you are a body. Not everybody is jealous of you and everybody cannot love you. The universe doesnât revolve around you so come down from cloud nine and see to your condition.</p><p> Your attitude is not perfect, your body is not perfect and your idea is not the best! If you donât love the imperfect you then something is missing upstairs, hey! It is a screw. </p><p>Did you confirm that you are going crazy? Donât panic, half of the world is anyway. Ask for help and get a character make-over. Get those screws tightened before it gets out of hand. </p><p>Please comment and share.</p><p><br /></p><p> </p><div><br /></div>Sarah Subomi Adenijihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04349913382726045386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817817344769762498.post-56677374647907597412023-03-17T11:07:00.002-07:002023-04-10T08:39:25.576-07:0010 Outrageous Qualities Men want in a woman<h2 style="text-align: left;"> 10 outrageous qualities men want in a woman</h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEitdafuzq7okj_ObQXTeEAFF0xEreofEZy1hHIExcCxRx0fVMvt9qIXNVJbcJEqAPWA9CgcvT_PHrWXKOqBwChj2ESOYb2Um81gj5R2rLtg79eFHr2txIVuh8LqlRdtWJJgvhPP9hyiNPFQfcHWZ7t3aA5dq-S9y6icfSNtlOVumQ__3TMHRJrgJ1JT/s678/images%20(14).jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="452" data-original-width="678" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEitdafuzq7okj_ObQXTeEAFF0xEreofEZy1hHIExcCxRx0fVMvt9qIXNVJbcJEqAPWA9CgcvT_PHrWXKOqBwChj2ESOYb2Um81gj5R2rLtg79eFHr2txIVuh8LqlRdtWJJgvhPP9hyiNPFQfcHWZ7t3aA5dq-S9y6icfSNtlOVumQ__3TMHRJrgJ1JT/s320/images%20(14).jpeg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div><br /></div><p>Men can be men sometimes, I mean there are some things you hear and you will just say âThat is so male!â I asked some questions, did some surveys and came up with 10 outrageous qualities men want in a woman. If you are a woman you need to read this:</p><p>You are going to laugh while reading this (it is a promise) but please take it serious. Most of the men that supplied this information were serious while giving them and they vowed that it is what their male counterparts are looking for everywhere. Enough stories, letâs get down to the fact now; here are outrageous qualities men want in a woman.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Outrageous Qualities Men Want In a Woman</h3><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEii76wQ-oW7y07SLe3MJa-lxKA9POjmVZi6BqKFOp0NBP6owk-4smJ5IUHpJJoicvRTCU2gQqiQhxX7Epv6KCkEWLEbHCj1WXDgQXHhiRNDRiOoLvkbOSdJkiI2sf2hJOF6dR6bOxO-TjJEvuTRXq7KXChlECbdAzQHPGPjDMAer-nMv3vDhEg2rGfR/s600/images%20(16).jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="600" data-original-width="400" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEii76wQ-oW7y07SLe3MJa-lxKA9POjmVZi6BqKFOp0NBP6owk-4smJ5IUHpJJoicvRTCU2gQqiQhxX7Epv6KCkEWLEbHCj1WXDgQXHhiRNDRiOoLvkbOSdJkiI2sf2hJOF6dR6bOxO-TjJEvuTRXq7KXChlECbdAzQHPGPjDMAer-nMv3vDhEg2rGfR/s320/images%20(16).jpeg" width="213" /></a></div><br /><div><br /></div><p>She must know how to dress well</p><p>She must have a vocation, job or business</p><p>She must not be fat</p><p>She must be ready to accept me the way I am</p><p>She must know how to cook</p><p>She must be light in complexion</p><p>She must be ready to do housework</p><p>She must be beautiful</p><p>She must like sex</p><p>She must know how to pray</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">1. She Must Know How to Dress Well</h3><p>Almost all the men that answered our oral questionnaires said they want a want a good dresser. They want a woman that knows how to combine colors and accessories not one that will wear black top on black skirt with black accessories. </p><p><br /></p><p>According to them being a good dresser is one of the qualities they want in a woman, they get easily embarrassed when their woman is shabbily dressed.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">2. She Must Have a Vocation, Job or Business</h3><p>80% of the men that spoke to us want a woman with a vocation, job or business. They donât want to be a pseudo father and are not ready to shoulder all the responsibilities while dating and even in marriage; they want a financially independent woman. I was thinking they are just being stingy but they said they donât want a liability. </p><p><br /></p><p>As if that is not enough some of them said they prefer teachers and hate nurses because they think their profession is too demanding. They want a woman who will be able to work and take good care of the kids at the same time if they decide to marry her, having a job is one of the qualities men want in a woman.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">3. She Must Not Be Fat</h3><p>Many men disclosed that they hate fat women. A man was even telling me he was looking for a way to get the woman he was dating to lose some weight; he said she consumes chocolate and junks! I canât believe guys can disclose things like this. </p><p><br /></p><p>If you are a woman reading this article, please watch your weight. A man even disclose that men watch women they date and try to predict if she will become fat in the future so that they can dump in her time. Do you think this is outrageous? You havenât read anything.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">4. She must be able to accept Me the way I am</h3><p>This is one of the most outrageous qualities men want in a woman, because I think it is selfish. Guys donât ever want to change and ladies are always out to change characters of their men especially the bad ones, isnât that an irony? </p><p><br /></p><p>If men can have their way, they want a woman that will tolerate all their vices without complaining. In other words, they want her to look the other way when they go on binge drinking, cheat or stay out late at night, isnât that wicked and outrageous? There is moreâŠ</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">5. She Must Know How to Cook</h3><p>Men said they want women that score high in the kitchen department, and they want real food not noodles and egg or spaghetti in egg sauce (I have to laugh before I continue). They donât care how beautiful she look if she keep feeding them burnt sacrifice, bitter concoction or salty food, they might just jump out of the boat.</p><p><br /></p><p>To be sincere, this is one of the not so outrageous qualities men want in a woman, if you want a man in your life as a woman it is only fair that you learn how to feed him.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">6. She Must Be Light in Complexion</h3><p>Now this is one of the most outrageous qualities men want in a woman, what has being light in complexion got to do with her capability as a woman and wife? 70% of the men I have met love fair ladies, why do you think bleaching and whitening creams are popular today? </p><p><br /></p><p>Majority of men find Fair ladies attractive, the ripeness of their skin excite them. I think it is childish anyways, only children get attracted to flashy things, donât think of bleaching your black skin as a lady because of this, there are still mature men out there who get attracted to natural things. </p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">7. She Must Be Beautiful</h3><p>Men compare the women in their lives and boast about the beautiful ones, they even carry their pictures on their phones and laptops. Almost all the men I knew have shown me the picture of their beautiful girlfriend at one time or the other. Men who attend to our survey all want beautiful women but their perception about beauty differs.</p><p><br /></p><p>Some said they see woman with fine facial structure as beautiful while some voted for a big hips, some said they prefer women with large breasts but they still want her to carry an attractive face. Isnât this outrageous, I am voting this as one of the most outrageous qualities men want in a woman because it is sentimental. </p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">8. She Must Like Sex</h3><p>They also want a tigress in bed, okay, I made a little exaggeration there; they want a woman that will like sex and wonât cry off with headache when they want sex after marriage. They said men are wired to want lot of sex ad they want a woman who doesnât think sex is something dirty that should be done to make babies in marriage.</p><p><br /></p><p>They said they want a woman that gives sex cheerfully and even demand for it at times, they want her to be ready when they are ready and donât want to entertain excuses.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">9. She Must Be Ready To Do Housework</h3><p>A man even said if men start doing house chores women will take them for granted and turn them into errand boys âImagine my wife asking me to pick Eweduâ he said while wearing a repulsive look. Men want a woman that will be ready to clean up after cooking alone.</p><p><br /></p><p>They want to be left alone to watch TV because they have gone to work all day; at least over 80% of them want this. The other 20% that said they can assist their wives are Christians; they said they have gotten over African mentality of women being slaves. What do you think? Doing housework alone is one of the qualities men want in a woman.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">10. She Must Know How to Pray</h3><p>Men want prayer warriors, even those that are not religious; they want their women on their knees interceding for them. When pastor EA Adeboye said sometimes ago that men should not marry a woman that cannot pray for at least one hour many men received the news with excitement, they were grinning and thinking âYeah, let her pray away all our problems while we workâ.</p><p><br /></p><p>Men want a woman who can battle on her knees; I think they should also learn how to pray. Life is a battle field as one of my friends used to say, and they are some personal battle nobody can fight for you.</p><p><br /></p><p>You have read all the outrageous qualities men look for in a woman, what do you think? </p><p>Drop your comments and questions on the comment section and don't forget to follow this blog. 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I gave them reasons why they shouldnât have sex now. Letâs discuss some of them:</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Sex Complicate Relationships</h3><p>A lady stood up and said âis it not these guys? They wonât agree to a sexless relationshipâ guys sitting there did not dispute her comment so I took silence to mean assent. Is it that guys have uncontrollable sexual urge? Or is it that passion accompanies real love that makes sex inevitable? </p><p>The answer to these questions does not change the consequence of sex in relationships. Once you introduce sex it is hard to stop, you began to use it to make up and to avoid important conflicts and later you began to wonder if sex is all there is to your relationship. It becomes very hard to separate love from desire.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Sex Worsen the Pains of Heartbreak in Relationship</h3><p>Sex is more than a physical act, at least for women. Men can see sex as an avenue to satisfy an urge but it means more to a woman, it is like giving her soul away. When there is a break up and sex has taken place, the woman feel used and cheated and it worsens the pain. She has a soul tie with the man she has given herself to and might keep going back even when abused and mistreated. This has been the reason why guys like to have sex with a woman; they believe she might leave freely at any time if it is yet to happen so they need to have sex to tie her down.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Sex Is Not Synonymous To Love In Relationship</h3><p>There is passion, attraction, desire, lust and then love: the inability to differentiate between these has brought untold pain, suffering and heartbreak to many. The fact that you canât keep your hands off each other does not mean you are deeply in love.</p><p> Many men will grab the opportunity to sleep with celebrities they find âsexyâ and many women have gone to bed on their first dates. Stop using love as an excuse to have sex. This means having sex does not guarantee you staying together or that your partner love and want to spend the rest of his or her life with you.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">What If It Didnât Work Out?</h3><p>You are not married until you are married. Engagement can be broken, courtship can be terminated and no matter how long you have been together in that relationship something can still go wrong. You canât be sure even if your wedding is few weeks away. </p><p>I have seen a lot of things and have heard outrageous tales that made me conclude that anything is possible when it comes to relationships. How many men have slept with you with the promise of marriage? How many women have you slept with thinking you will marry them? Where are they now? I think you get the point now.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Your Body Isnât Yours</h3><p>Singles go out on dates and have fun because to them sex is just sex. They give it out as birthday gifts, valentine gifts, Christmas gifts etc some just go ahead to satisfy the urge when it comes and say âafter all it is my bodyâ. Well, it isnât yours: your body doesnât really belong to you and that guy or lady isnât yours too. Nothing really belongs to you dear, that is one of the mysteries of life. One day, you will sleep and will not be able to lift a finger anymore and that body will become rotten and useless. Then you have to give account of what you have done with that body. </p><p><br /></p><p>Do you have self control? If yes lucky you, if no, get some; you will be glad you did. If you canât control that urge now it will wreck your life whether married or single. Watch out for more of this article as we discuss this topic on medical grounds. Watch out for Single, Sex and Relationship part 2.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><p>YOU'LL LOVE THESE!!!</p><p>1. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/signs-he-doesnt-love-you-anymore.html?m=1">Signs he doesn't love you anymore</a></p><p>2. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/can-relationship-survive-without-se.html?m=1">Can a relationship survive without sex?</a></p><p>3. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/10-outrageous-qualities-men-want-in.html?m=1">10 Outrageous Qualities Men Want In a Woman</a></p><p>4. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/life-rules-every-lady-must-know-before.html?m=1">Life rules every single lady should know before marriage</a></p><p>5. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/how-to-be-financially-independent-as.html?m=1">How to be financially independent as a lady</a></p><p>6. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/5-ways-to-manage-menstrual-pains.html?m=1">How to manage menstrual pains without drugs</a></p><p>7. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/secret-of-irresistible-woman.html?m=1">Secret of an irresistible woman</a></p><p>8. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/how-to-know-he-loves-you.html?m=1">How to know he loves you</a></p><p>9. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/signs-you-are-going-crazy.html?m=1">Signs you are going crazy</a></p><p>10. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/bury-your-past-and-get-fresh-start.html?m=1">Bury your past and get a fresh start</a></p><p><br /></p><p><br style="text-align: left;" /></p></div><br />Sarah Subomi Adenijihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04349913382726045386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817817344769762498.post-61909905755612968692023-03-17T06:37:00.001-07:002023-03-17T06:38:47.371-07:005 Turn-off things to avoid when toasting <h2 style="text-align: left;"> Turn Off Things to Avoid When Toasting a Girl</h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiHqbvxMcLUHu0bIjO7_KrEJ7aa3LVjMQ1mYUZy2dSmRl3jIaWkgwKdXIRiNqB7jlIjnGT-yoy8qZArLxh0F-tI_6vejZFqhVUJ73QEsLrDdA6X4uniwFtGC0igkPfHvvTguJK9r7UUcBlHeldwq3sTsoKzOshpolRoPJeBjlVxE-STf2Pdx67bS7sO/s509/images%20(11).jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="339" data-original-width="509" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiHqbvxMcLUHu0bIjO7_KrEJ7aa3LVjMQ1mYUZy2dSmRl3jIaWkgwKdXIRiNqB7jlIjnGT-yoy8qZArLxh0F-tI_6vejZFqhVUJ73QEsLrDdA6X4uniwFtGC0igkPfHvvTguJK9r7UUcBlHeldwq3sTsoKzOshpolRoPJeBjlVxE-STf2Pdx67bS7sO/s320/images%20(11).jpeg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div><br /></div><p>How you behave when toasting a girl will determine whether you will get a yes or a no. There is a reason while some guys attract ladies like bees to honeys while some guys turn girls off and never get a yes. Sometimes you feel that a girl is really interested in you, it is as if you are almost there then you just discover that she starts frowning and look irritated; you have done things to turn her off and this made her reject you.</p><p><br /></p><p>Some girls get turned off easily, it doesnât matter if they like you or not, they know when you are faking it and it turns them off easily. You can get the girl you like to agree to go out with you or get ladies to like you if you stop turning them off. Guys are usual the hunter so turn off things to avoid when toasting a girl s for guys but girls can learn from it too.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">5 Turn Off Things to Avoid When Toasting A Girl</h3><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-hIR48phhj68Jb2M1rom1mNz1JCvC6N4_TCVGqClhturYH8L8vp2jjdRaTbV8-1tx6s9DmoXh6FCRUS0u2y9NDCMrdfI5ZKTMUpiUpKqb02Bmo6MjvTE3W98AASBxPiCrHauWz4c14b42dfJ32w73uWGQm2KmPo7cnCE0Qn14gGTAmju9iHYlDKzM/s750/photo-1625480857953-700f9cac1582.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="750" data-original-width="500" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-hIR48phhj68Jb2M1rom1mNz1JCvC6N4_TCVGqClhturYH8L8vp2jjdRaTbV8-1tx6s9DmoXh6FCRUS0u2y9NDCMrdfI5ZKTMUpiUpKqb02Bmo6MjvTE3W98AASBxPiCrHauWz4c14b42dfJ32w73uWGQm2KmPo7cnCE0Qn14gGTAmju9iHYlDKzM/s320/photo-1625480857953-700f9cac1582.jpeg" width="213" /></a></div><br /><div><br /></div><p>It doesnât matter how many toasting lines you know or how handsome you look if you do these things girls are going to turn you down often:</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">1. Avoid Using Fake Accent When Toasting a Girl</h3><p>Using fake accent is one of the turn off things to avoid when toasting a girl, it really irritate girls. A guy was trying to ask me out, he was speaking in English, I donât really mind until he started adding âOyinbo accentâ. He said he is currently running his masters programme and he suddenly started speaking fast with âAmericanâ accent after his announcement, I had to strain my ears to hear him and I was turned off. </p><p>See, using fake accent will not make a lady like you unless you were born in the US and that is your usual way of speaking. In short it irritates girls and makes you look phony. So, stop it if you want to start getting a Yes from girls you like.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">2. Avoid Using Big Grammar When Toasting a Girl</h3><p>Big grammars wonât get you anywhere with smart ladies, it will only embarrass you. Using big, ambiguous words are one of the turn off things to avoid when toasting a girl, it will only make the girl look stupid and you will end up irritating her; it can even put you in trouble. I know what I am talking about, even if big grammars are always coming to your mind while toasting a girl, take a deep breath and try to break them down into small, understandable words.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">3. Avoid Using Overused Lines When Toasting a Girl</h3><p>There are some lines that are already a clichĂ©, using them to try to woo a girl will only get you sounding dumb and phony. For example guys love telling girls âyou look familiar, we have met somewhere beforeâŠâ they will then try to mention places they know girls visit. Almost every guy who tried to ask me out said so, is that the only line guys can think of? </p><p>I know many guys are not talented in that department but borrowing lines from websites wonât help you either. Some other guys might have used the lines on her before so it is normal for her to get turned off under the circumstances. </p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">4. Avoid Being Non Committal about Religion </h3><p>One of the turn off things to avoid when toasting a girl is being non committal about your religion. Some guys wonât want to commit to a religion in order to create a win-win situation not knowing they have lost already. Most ladies are serious about their religion and trying to hide your religion or denomination of your church doesnât say much about you.</p><p>Some guys will say âI am a Muslim but I attend church once in a whileâ, some will even say âI am both a Christian and a Muslim, I am not convinced about the one I should choose yet, maybe you can help meâ. If you are a Christian say so in clear terms and if you a Muslim please make it clear, what she does about the information is left to her. </p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">5. Avoid Mentioning Love and Sex </h3><p>There is nothing bad in telling her how you feel but mentioning the word love and sex to a girl you just met is a turn off to most girls. She will see you as a flatterer with sugar coated tongue and she might think you only aim is to get her on her back. No matter the intensity of your feeling telling her out-rightly that you fell in love with her might put her off and she will have a good laugh about it later! Telling her you like her and will like to know her better is preferable to outright declaration of love.</p><p><br /></p><p>You can be handsome, rich, and posses all the qualities girls dream about but if you donât get it while asking her out you might never get her to realize what a great catch you are. So, hope you find my article on turn off things to avoid when toasting a girl useful? If you utilize it well you can start getting a yes instead of a no from girls.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>Sarah Subomi Adenijihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04349913382726045386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817817344769762498.post-39305701577099227652023-03-17T06:23:00.002-07:002023-04-10T09:55:09.260-07:0010 Things your woman is hiding<h2 style="text-align: left;"> 10 Things Your Woman Is Hiding From You</h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiG31Mq00VCPEg_d15zIqH61PRQVz6FGXCIkcuKcDWviiRB1MRXG0tfEg-UHj7mKsGVN7BQWroGjA85XwljClymibu1wfv1eYLNuoWVW9EG9-tK1AhtUcnYtRKx2_rWX2uek21QSIPSRRci_gkkVplwo5EDbum4iMS8nMZIzDxCmodVa80_gF3yKO64/s729/photo-1558037865-65d4bcdc37ec.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="729" data-original-width="500" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiG31Mq00VCPEg_d15zIqH61PRQVz6FGXCIkcuKcDWviiRB1MRXG0tfEg-UHj7mKsGVN7BQWroGjA85XwljClymibu1wfv1eYLNuoWVW9EG9-tK1AhtUcnYtRKx2_rWX2uek21QSIPSRRci_gkkVplwo5EDbum4iMS8nMZIzDxCmodVa80_gF3yKO64/s320/photo-1558037865-65d4bcdc37ec.jpeg" width="219" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p><p>10 things your woman is hiding from you is a tip for men that want to understand their women more and be able to analyze what is going on inside them. Like seriously, your woman wish you knew all these things but she will never tell you for two reasons: the first reason is that she is afraid you will think she is too cheap and the second is like the first, she think you might just leave her if you knew.</p><p><br /></p><p>Knowing things your woman is hiding from you might change the way you see her and your relationship, it can also make or break your relationship depending on how you take it. So are you ready to know things your woman is hiding from you?</p><p><br /></p><h2 style="text-align: left;">10 Secret Things Your Woman Is Hiding From You</h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtAPxdl-ZjEtmjlrGDKmcda9Vueo8h5f4Kof55p4l-KZEnaZtmBGjo-tUrdW8MlRvEgmocMkixA9pirany_rERE0OnMg2w-fnDh3fwOfs2t19Wzl_Ue153EvztSqob1p6O0A7PhTb1CcTr2BVAhF_LAxy6fCxynp6avKvWUnYAXiO0YMR0Nc6aVzCD/s500/photo-1622962332886-80996d8cf801.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="334" data-original-width="500" height="214" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtAPxdl-ZjEtmjlrGDKmcda9Vueo8h5f4Kof55p4l-KZEnaZtmBGjo-tUrdW8MlRvEgmocMkixA9pirany_rERE0OnMg2w-fnDh3fwOfs2t19Wzl_Ue153EvztSqob1p6O0A7PhTb1CcTr2BVAhF_LAxy6fCxynp6avKvWUnYAXiO0YMR0Nc6aVzCD/s320/photo-1622962332886-80996d8cf801.jpeg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><p>Hey! Before I divulge these secrets you have to promise that you wonât hold them against her, dumping her after knowing these secrets will make you a first class jerk, I mean JERK in capital letters. If you have an open mind letâs look at those things your woman in hiding from you: </p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">1. Your woman knows all your faults</h3><p>Your woman is hiding the fact that she knows all your faults, she is just pretending not to see them or to put it rightly, she is overlooking them because of the love she has for you. I know you are shocked to hear this, I was too when I discovered this.</p><p><br /></p><p>Men think women are dumb, are easily deceived and can be easily bullied but the fact remains that your woman was all of those things because of the love she has for you.</p><p> The dumbest of women knows the moment you start patronizing her and trying to pull the wool over her eyes if she doesnât know immediately she get to realize it before 24 hours.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">2. Your woman wanted all those things you couldnât give her</h3><p>Every time your woman demands for something and she later told you it didnât matter because you couldnât afford them she was lying. The truth is that she wanted all of those things and they really matter to her but she didnât want you to feel inadequate so she just pretended she was happy without them.</p><p> Your woman really needed things are mates have, she wanted them badly or she wouldnât have demanded for them in the first place. Some women never demand and are rarely angry when you forget to give them gifts on special days but believe me, she is hurting inside. </p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">3. Your woman has been tempted to hit you several times</h3><p>One of those things your woman is hiding from you is that she has been tempted to hit you several times. I know you are smiling now but it is true, sometimes she wished she could just beat sense into you or spank you like she does to her little brothers at home; she has been tempted too many times. She didnât beat you up because she couldnât or she is afraid of how you are going to react. </p><p>She just take all your craps and when she gets to her friendsâ place she let out all the anger and hurt and tell them how she wished she had given you a dirty slap, they will understand because they have also been tempted several times. Next time you are tempted to hit her know that she is expecting you to exercise same restraint.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">4. She knows when you are wavering</h3><p>It is one of those things your woman is hiding from you, she knows the moment you meet a new girl and the love you have for her starts wavering. She is aware of those moments you got stuck between dumping her and taking a new girl. </p><p>She actually knew from the first week but your woman was patient all the time waiting for you to come to your senses and realize she is the only woman for you. There is equipment in her heart that gauges your level of commitment and the intensity of your love, your woman knows the moment it drops 1%.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">5. She has been tempted to leave you several times</h3><p> If you have been in a relationship with her for a year, she would have been tempted to leave at least 10 times; it is one of those things your woman is hiding from you. She meets richer, cooler, more handsome and caring guys and she sums up your inadequacies and got really tempted, but the reason you are still together is because she really loves you no matter your inadequacies. </p><p>She knows you are a devil quite all right, but you are the devil she knows and love, she thinks you are better than those angelic men she meets on daily basis. When you meet a better woman know that she is still with you because she was able to overcome those tempting moments and you should return the favor too.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">6. Your woman is afraid you will find someone prettier</h3><p>One of the things your woman is hiding from you is that she is scared you will find someone prettier and better. She knows there will always someone out there that is prettier but she was hoping you wonât find her till you got married. You are the reason she changes her hair styles often, she bought those clothes because she wants to be the only beautiful girl you will be looking at. </p><p>Your woman is constantly watching the women you stare at or admire, she feels like murdering you when you comment that you found a girl very hot but she doesnât mean it.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">7. She can do anything for you</h3><p>Your woman is hiding the fact that she can do anything for you, you only need to ask but her fear is that you will take her for granted. If she acts stubborn or unwilling to compromise it means you have taken her for granted several times and she wants you to realize your mistakes. </p><p>Because she is your woman, you have the power to mould and influence her no matter how tough she is but that doesnât mean you should turn her into your slave. </p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">8. She has shed over a million tears</h3><p>One of the things your woman is hiding from you is that she has shed over a million tears over you, every time you are proving to be difficult or acting as if you donât care she will just go home and cry. If you are in the habit of hitting her you are a jerk, the tears she will shed at your presence are little compared to the ones she will shed when you are not there. </p><p>The toughest of women still cry because that is our emotional make up, the tears we shed alone is cannot be quantified; if you give a woman the reason to she can cry a river in 24 hours. Believe me, I have been there and done that, I have also lost count of the times I caught my friends and relatives crying their hearts out. </p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">9. She wants to be your wife</h3><p>You know she would like to marry you someday but you cannot realize how badly she wants it. If possible she would have bought the ring and propose to you right away, she doesnât want to be seen as too forward. </p><p>If she has dated you for over a year, know that the reason she endured all your bullying, insensitivity, and imperfections is because she wants to be the one to carry your children. Believe me; you wonât even last for a whole year if she isnât that interested.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">10. She doesnât like your female friends</h3><p>It is one of those things your woman is hiding from you, she might smile and act like it doesnât matter but deep down she is praying that they should migrate very far away and lost contact with you. Your woman sometimes sees and perceives what you are blind to, she knows which of them really likes you and wants to steal you from her; she also knows the ones that doesnât like her. </p><p>Your woman might just happen to like one or two of your lady friends because they have some things in common but she thinks most of them are out to take advantage of you.</p><p><br /></p><p>Knowing the things your woman is hiding from you makes them open secrets, she might not know you know them but it should be reason enough to be nicer to her. I know she might act complicated at times but hey! She is still yours, cherish her.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p>DON'T MISS THESE</p><p>1. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/10-things-your-woman-is-hiding.html?m=1">10 Things your woman is hiding from you</a></p><p>2. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/5-turn-off-things-to-avoid-when-toasting.html?m=1">5 Turn Off Things to Avoid while toasting a girl </a></p><p>3. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/10-types-of-girls-men-avoid.html?m=1">10 types of Girls you should avoid</a></p><p>4. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/how-to-make-your-woman-happy.html?m=1">How to make your Woman Happy</a></p><p>5. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/5-destructive-habits-that-damage-mobile.html?m=1">Destructive Habits that Damage Mobile Phones</a></p><p>6. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/signs-you-are-going-crazy.html?m=1">Signs you are going crazy</a></p><p>7. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2020/07/5-cute-things-men-do-that-drive-women.html?m=1">5 Cute Things Men do that Drive Women Crazy</a></p><p>8. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2018/12/if-you-can-read-this-you-can-understand.html?m=1">How to Understand Your Woman</a></p><p>9. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2017/04/when-she-loves-you.html?m=1">How to know she loves you</a></p><p>10. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2017/07/5-reasons-to-break-up-when-break-up-is.html?m=1">5 Reasons to Break Up</a></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>Sarah Subomi Adenijihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04349913382726045386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817817344769762498.post-65342122847508360962023-03-16T07:55:00.006-07:002023-04-10T09:24:24.481-07:003 Months to Thirty by Sarah Adeniji<h2 style="text-align: left;"> 3 MONTHS TO Thirty by Sarah Adeniji</h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgcKW-GVfA2fGSf9rpXwDdifouo5Qzyh7xd-JaVh-Axe3Ivet8za46gy6udDQqfmVu8HkD-rxP7143Zb3szYqCMsqLqellmJjMia2049wT6DIpBWJQTXRAqVLdQpoSbJjeeaVgYWQjey2UAcRj75Mx7ryLhb9jKz1EdZeR043udGtOHOHp_HVSSj8EG/s1485/Fashion%20Sale%20Minimalist%20Instagram%20Post.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1485" data-original-width="1485" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgcKW-GVfA2fGSf9rpXwDdifouo5Qzyh7xd-JaVh-Axe3Ivet8za46gy6udDQqfmVu8HkD-rxP7143Zb3szYqCMsqLqellmJjMia2049wT6DIpBWJQTXRAqVLdQpoSbJjeeaVgYWQjey2UAcRj75Mx7ryLhb9jKz1EdZeR043udGtOHOHp_HVSSj8EG/s320/Fashion%20Sale%20Minimalist%20Instagram%20Post.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p><p>MoniJesu Akeju (MJ) has everything a girl can dream of beauty, wealthy parents, education, and a lucrative job. Her life was perfect except for one thing "A husband".</p><p><br /></p><p>MJ had a beautiful and vivid dream she interpreted to mean she is going to get engaged in 3 Months (before her 30th Birthday).</p><p><br /></p><p>She documented the pains, struggles, miseries, and victories she faced those months in a diary.</p><p><br /></p><p>What secret did MJ uncover that changed the course of her life? Did she record success in her desperate search for a husband or did she end up losing the best gift of all?</p><p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghoUToAAqH5s98oYn1iTlDsMqUwsWpDSgJGnHGjYNxeKiwCGhdXiQDKEb1UhVt7swqls1K7TpG5nV7SwN4ttrluGD3AuW_-pg5_I4PUzgXAxS3lRMKe2U_Xu_VBF9ijVuia-4E_u-XTQOnJmSnQ5mVB1u217ef2sFHaz_vyEB8GaHTPzeNVHBqfGNn/s644/3%20months%20front.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="644" data-original-width="431" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghoUToAAqH5s98oYn1iTlDsMqUwsWpDSgJGnHGjYNxeKiwCGhdXiQDKEb1UhVt7swqls1K7TpG5nV7SwN4ttrluGD3AuW_-pg5_I4PUzgXAxS3lRMKe2U_Xu_VBF9ijVuia-4E_u-XTQOnJmSnQ5mVB1u217ef2sFHaz_vyEB8GaHTPzeNVHBqfGNn/s320/3%20months%20front.jpg" width="214" /></a></div><br /><p>3 Months to Thirty will be available on this blog starting from 27th of March.</p><p><br /></p><p>If you are yet to read I HAVE DRUNK STRANGE WATERS by Sarah Adeniji click <a href="https://selar.co/Ihavedrunkstrangewaters" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">HERE</a> to read it while you wait.</p><p><br /></p><p>Don't forget to follow this blog so that you can receive a mail when there is a new post.</p><p><br /></p><p>DON'T MISS THESE!</p><p>1. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-30-by-sarah-adeniji.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty</a></p><p>2. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-prologue-by-sarah.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty Prologue</a></p><p>3.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-episode-1.html?m=1"> 3 Months to Thirty EP 1</a></p><p>4.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-episode-1.html?m=1"> 3 Months to Thirty EP 2</a></p><p>5. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/3-months-to-thirty-episode-3.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty EP 3</a></p><p>6.<a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/3-months-to-thirty-episode-4.html?m=1"> 3 Months to Thirty EP 4</a></p><p>7. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/3-months-to-thirty-episode-5.html?m=1">3 Months to Thirty EP 5</a></p><p>8. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/why-guys-dump-good-girls.html?m=1">Why Guys Dump Good Girls</a></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>Sarah Subomi Adenijihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04349913382726045386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817817344769762498.post-55887915251150615252023-03-16T07:23:00.001-07:002023-04-10T08:42:00.596-07:00What happens when you dress half-naked<p> </p><h2 style="text-align: left;">10 Embarrassing Reasons Not To Dress Half Naked</h2><p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiGuKhCVxRqQurpHbPSr6SQWLHWxoeayrzp8V9nJZciyUdS4ybYuPhBFCcu_zT3lnL4lq1C6AZSEAY-29oA6TOktTW5AsZMBu7DtMLpVmd8vTXf_nnkxYsWrcxwLdMkcakrwsXL7qd2ZiuqF9d411oL8g_zOsSKZ9fk29Ed40R8U8jCyPZ-HxWxuEDK/s525/photo-1614701466929-766271250d48.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="525" data-original-width="420" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiGuKhCVxRqQurpHbPSr6SQWLHWxoeayrzp8V9nJZciyUdS4ybYuPhBFCcu_zT3lnL4lq1C6AZSEAY-29oA6TOktTW5AsZMBu7DtMLpVmd8vTXf_nnkxYsWrcxwLdMkcakrwsXL7qd2ZiuqF9d411oL8g_zOsSKZ9fk29Ed40R8U8jCyPZ-HxWxuEDK/s320/photo-1614701466929-766271250d48.jpeg" width="256" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p><p>Dressing half-naked is in vogue now! Nowadays, when ladies dress they leave little to menâs imaginations and this is putting them in lots of trouble.</p><p>I know there is an irresistible urge to do what is in vogue, to belong and fit in with the other babes or to be a slay queen but you have to curb the urge to dress half-naked for the following reasons:</p><p> </p><h2 style="text-align: left;">Embarrassing Reasons You Should Not Dress Half Naked</h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjzpc13l1W5wWZoRwrdVKOagsKqfrPTQPfI76WL4PY0K6TUjr7PpHcxzXc3QY5n4IDyGHHGCaK3jorX3OCQ-9DM-hCeLWpcnTFH7HD7q0BugslWKplGKgZHlKjuhReUIggHTYa_A6xeSo9WxMK2A7e4R5Y0zieZxn2eq0o4MVKynml3eCM_vWjCZa4s/s6000/vladimir-yelizarov-pvWvjHdX8O0-unsplash.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="6000" data-original-width="4000" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjzpc13l1W5wWZoRwrdVKOagsKqfrPTQPfI76WL4PY0K6TUjr7PpHcxzXc3QY5n4IDyGHHGCaK3jorX3OCQ-9DM-hCeLWpcnTFH7HD7q0BugslWKplGKgZHlKjuhReUIggHTYa_A6xeSo9WxMK2A7e4R5Y0zieZxn2eq0o4MVKynml3eCM_vWjCZa4s/s320/vladimir-yelizarov-pvWvjHdX8O0-unsplash.jpg" width="213" /></a></div><br /><div><br /></div><p>I know you are an adult, your body belongs to you, this is the 21st century and others are doing it but before you dress half-naked again, remember that:</p><p> </p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Guys Seldom Marry Half Naked Girls</h3><p>There is a revolution going on now: because divorce is now rampant guys want ladies that will faithful and take care of their kids. They are convinced ladies that dress half-naked canât do this!</p><p><br /></p><p>He can take you to the club or the beach but he wonât take you home to his mama. He thinks your morale is loose and there is little difference between you and a slut.</p><p> </p><h3 style="text-align: left;">When You Dress Naked, Everything about You Screams âSexâ</h3><p> Your boobs are on display, you wear a transparent top showing the outline of your back and your thigh and the upper part of your buttock is on display, you are saying âhey! want sex?â.</p><p> When a guy sees you like this it tells him you only want sex and that is the only thing you are good for.</p><p> </p><h3 style="text-align: left;">You Are Corrupting Kids</h3><p>You walk on the street half-naked and young boys gawk at you; they donât need to buy a cheap magazine to sneak a peek at a womanâs body when you are a walking biology book.</p><p><br /></p><p>You are displaying the real thing and destroying the perception of those young kids about women. Donât let them grow up thinking of women as sex objects; please cover-up and stop dressing half-naked.</p><p> </p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Dressing Half Naked; It is an Insult to Your Mother</h3><p>Ladies in the western world might do this and people will view it as a light thing but African has value. It is not a bad thing to dress fashionably or have a good fashion sense, but, donât take it to the extreme by dressing half-naked.</p><p>When people see you dressing half-naked, you are telling the world that your mother has failed in her duties and did a poor job of bringing you up. You are advertising her incompetency! You are betraying her!</p><p> </p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Dressing Half Naked Exposes You to Sexual Assault</h3><p>When you dress half-naked, you are telling men you are available and anything goes; donât complain if you are sexually assaulted.</p><p><br /></p><p>When a man can get you alone and your boobs are on display, there is no way you can convince him that you donât want to have sex with him.</p><p> </p><h3 style="text-align: left;">No Responsible Man Will Ask You Out</h3><p>When you dress half-naked, I know you will get many invitations at the end of the day and more men will woo you and try to get you to go out with them but 99.9% of them are only out to have a good time with you.</p><p><br /></p><p>Married men looking for a quick fix will also ask you out and fill your ears with lies. They just want to get those things they think they are missing at home. Thatâs all.</p><p> </p><h3 style="text-align: left;"> Dressing Half Naked Exposes You to Harsh Weather </h3><p>You look hot all alright but you are also exposed to the hot sun and harsh weather. Even those who dress half-naked in the western world almost freeze to death. The primary purpose of clothing is to cover your body and protect it from the elements. The idea about it being a fashion statement came many years after.</p><p><br /></p><p>Africa is a country dominated by a hot sun, donât complain if you get your skin fried and have sunburn and wrinkles.</p><p> </p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Dressing Half Naked Makes You Public Property</h3><p>You have no right to tag any part of your body as a private part again when you dress half-naked; it becomes public property.</p><p><br /></p><p>Some people just wear a light transparent thing without underwear, well done; the guys will send their thank you notes for those free x-rated free shows you are dishing out. I know Rihanna and Beyonce do it all the time but you are not B or R.</p><p> </p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Dressing Half Naked Makes Your In-laws Detest You</h3><p>You see that grandma making evil eyes at you? She might just end up being related to your fiancĂ©. She will let the dogs loose on you when you visit.</p><p><br /></p><p>Yes ma, his mama doesnât like half-naked girls, she thinks they lack morals and wonât bring up her grandchildren well.</p><p> </p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Dressing Half Naked Opens You to All Kinds of Insults</h3><p>Some audacious area boys will swat your buttocks and jeer at you, old women will abuse you and rain curses on your mother.</p><p><br /></p><p>Some people might just take pictures of your half-naked boobs and backside and put it on social media, when he/she posts the picture, people will rain curses and insults on you.</p><p> </p><p>Dressing half-naked is not worth all the trouble you will bring on yourself, so, resist the urge to do it. You are valuable as a woman and so is your body, be fashionable, yet set boundaries on what is indecent and what is not.</p><p>Please share and leave a comment.</p><p><br /></p><p>YOU'LL LOVE THESE!!!</p><p>1. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/signs-he-doesnt-love-you-anymore.html?m=1">Signs he doesn't love you anymore</a></p><p>2. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/can-relationship-survive-without-se.html?m=1">Can a relationship survive without sex?</a></p><p>3. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/10-outrageous-qualities-men-want-in.html?m=1">10 Outrageous Qualities Men Want In a Woman</a></p><p>4. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/life-rules-every-lady-must-know-before.html?m=1">Life rules every single lady should know before marriage</a></p><p>5. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/how-to-be-financially-independent-as.html?m=1">How to be financially independent as a lady</a></p><p>6. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/5-ways-to-manage-menstrual-pains.html?m=1">How to manage menstrual pains without drugs</a></p><p>7. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/secret-of-irresistible-woman.html?m=1">Secret of an irresistible woman</a></p><p>8. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/how-to-know-he-loves-you.html?m=1">How to know he loves you</a></p><p>9. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/03/signs-you-are-going-crazy.html?m=1">Signs you are going crazy</a></p><p>10. <a href="https://classysinglesworld.blogspot.com/2023/04/bury-your-past-and-get-fresh-start.html?m=1">Bury your past and get a fresh start</a></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>Sarah Subomi Adenijihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04349913382726045386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817817344769762498.post-16851729900662822612023-03-16T05:56:00.003-07:002023-04-10T09:56:18.612-07:0010 Types of Girls Men Avoid<h1 style="text-align: left;"> 10 types of girls to avoid when dating</h1><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhziXCepztgxrx2RnBJaNJVZQcxqoAXZ29u9xbvE6NoLXXwOXnaYy_uLR__3Pvif7moHCUFkujjfUM3znjg88ghSCuD0Vdgq9Em2xTrA48alAikgg5fC1gaIEP66I2R6LdlmtDscWIisHB4iDX98KBn9mjJG5cXDNEZus8uEHdbDlHW5O4ZAn8Xc-XH/s509/images%20(12).jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="339" data-original-width="509" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhziXCepztgxrx2RnBJaNJVZQcxqoAXZ29u9xbvE6NoLXXwOXnaYy_uLR__3Pvif7moHCUFkujjfUM3znjg88ghSCuD0Vdgq9Em2xTrA48alAikgg5fC1gaIEP66I2R6LdlmtDscWIisHB4iDX98KBn9mjJG5cXDNEZus8uEHdbDlHW5O4ZAn8Xc-XH/s320/images%20(12).jpeg" width="320" /></a></div><p><br /></p><p>This list will scare girls!</p><p>In case you donât know, there are some women with certain characteristics that men should try as much as possible to avoid while dating. These girls might look hot, so is hell! You are going to live out your worst nightmare, donât even try dating them.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Avoid Super Strong Girls</h3><p>Super strong girls are No.1 type of girl to avoid when dating. How can a man date a woman whose muscles are bigger than his? Super strong woman creates a feeling of inferiority in her man. For men, their strength and their ego lie in being the savior for their women, not the opposite. If She's big enough to give you the beating of your life she will one day if you don't respect yourself.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Avoid Bimbo Girls</h3><p>Hey! The bimbos are the No.2 type of girl to avoid when dating. This is an attractive but empty headed lady who is nothing more than a pretty body and a pretty face. Men cannot have an intellectual conversation with such women because they will misinterpret everything men say and come up with their own conclusion.</p><p> Even though men like beautiful women, if they donât find the lady capable of intellectual conversation they throw her away</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Avoid Childish Girls</h3><p>Are you still on this list? Childish women are the No.3 type of girl to avoid when dating. This is a type of woman who refuses to grow up. She will always expect her man to treat her like a child and pamper her. She is looking for a father not a partner. </p><p>Just like a woman doesnât want to be a âmotherâ for her partner, a man doesnât want to be a âfatherâ for his girlfriend. At first, men might like such childish ways, but they get tired of pampering later. </p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Avoid the Mean Bitch</h3><p>The No.4 type of girl to avoid when dating is the mean bitch. The mean bitch finds fault in everybody. She often belittles others and her goal is to make other people miserable. She is extremely selfish and she thinks only of herself all the time.</p><p> Most men avoid such type of women and think it is better to stay away from them. It is a no go area for men! Start acting mean and bitchy and they will drop you like hot coal. </p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Avoid the Complaint Box </h3><p>The No.5 type of girl to avoid when dating is the complaint box. This type of woman has problems with everything because no matter what her man does or buy for her it will never be enough. Men hate and avoid such women.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Avoid the Cry Baby</h3><p>The No.6 type of girl to avoid when dating is the cry baby. Getting emotional is good sometimes but we are talking about women who use their tears as a weapon to prove their point. In fact, men donât like emotional blackmail!</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Avoid the Gold Digger</h3><p>The No.7 type of girl to avoid when dating is the gold digger.</p><p>Money matters a lot to her. She wants to marry a rich man in order to get his money. She demands gifts and expect a man to spend money on her all the time.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Avoid the Chatter Box</h3><p>The No.8 type of girl to avoid when dating is the chatter box.</p><p>This is a woman who talks endlessly. She always tells her man all community gossips and often discusses the content of her wardrobe. She knows all the bad things everyone has done and who is sleeping with who in the neighborhood.</p><p> The relationship may work for a few days, after which he would eventually run away from such woman.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Avoid the Cinderella</h3><p>The No.9 type of girl to avoid when dating is the Cinderella. She lives in a fairytale where reality isnât faced and where the man is the prince charming she has been waiting for since childhood.</p><p> She is too obsessed with this that she wants her man to be perfect. He knows he canât be that prince charming (like seriously no one can) so he is planning how to ditch her.</p><p><br /></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Avoid the Alakada Girls </h3><p>The No.10 type of girl to avoid when dating is the âAlakadaâ type. This type of lady exaggerates and lie to look good to people. Her father knows the governor, she lives in a mansion and she was born and brought up in the states.</p><p> She embarrasses her guy most of the time with her lies and fake accent; such girl should end up being dumped.</p><p> </p><p>Hope you enjoy this list? 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